Drunken Confessions?

I guess I'm feeling verbose, or just obsessive maybe... starting this new topic because it is something that still bugs me...

Have any of you gotten the late-night drunk call from the Cap. guy, where he's confessed his feelings, or said the ILY for the first time? If so, did you believe it or did you find out later somehow if he meant it?

Lol..my cap doesn't drink so I guess that won't ever happen!..

We drink but we never confess.

We drink but we never confess. you might get one from a guy asking if you want campany at 2 am

I wish he would bloody drink so I can get a confession of that sort out of him..trust me he doesn't..he passionatley thinks its the root of all evil..

Intoxication sagangel..its a wonderful thing..you hear it all..right from the horses mouth..When I was dating the leo..we were always in competiton with each other..he would never confess he loved me..after 2 years one day he got really drunk and he phoned and said it..I was like woah!..but at the same time pleased he said it before me!..lol..it didn't last long after that..

Burning question: would you intoxicate someone intentionally just to get a confession out of them..and pretend to have no knowledge of doing such a thing? lol..

What do you mean by "boost of confidence", SagAngel? That the alcohol is giving HIM a boost of confidence, or that he is trying to boost YOUR confidence by saying this?

Its the alcohol. It makes you think you can conquer the world so what are feelings on comparison..nothing..so yes its the alcohol

I'm confused, so what does that mean for the question of whether the confessions are true and for real?

Mine said something and then threw in ... "but I still love you." I didn't respond, and was silent, and he followed it up with, "I laugh at you." to try to change it, cover it up! Then he's continuing to babble on, and comes back to it, and says, "I do love you though." He was in such a goofy, happy, drunk mood that I did not feel any need to respond or acknowledge it directly.

So... have always just wondered if that was his half-ass way of telling me, or if he was thinking he needed to say that to get together w/ me that night, which he did ask about whether I wanted him to come over and I said, "No" and to call me when he's sober. And then of course we did call back the 2nd day following.

Ya never know... because they like the mixed messages to protect themselves from vulnerability and rejection!

Yes capgirl..its all about protecting their vulnerability...

A change of subject..I can't shake off this flippin taurian guy...he wants my ass so bad..he's a nice guy and I am politely trying to tell him to get lost..doesn't seem to be working..the guy is VERY persistent!..damn man..

I have quite a similar experience, I don?t think it?s relevant, but who knows, maybe those Capricorns are the same. I have met him one year and half ago, I liked from the first sight, attraction was enormous and in very short time I was loving him so deeply. From the beginning I knew that he was very interested for my physical appearance. Time passed and I tried hardly to develop something more? but it didn?t work. He did not want to communicate with me, just regular short meetings, he was so cold and aloof.
Anyway, again I tried to show my affection and in reply he sent me a dump-email. Ok, I told myself if he does not want, what can I do more, I was crying and told myself that?s it. Shortly, I received another email, that he is drunk and he cannot take it anymore, he was so afraid not to fall in love with me, but he could not resist. Everything changed after that, he became affectionate; he start telling me the magic ILY, he asked me to marry him, he is totally different, totally open, I was so used with the rejection, I need time to start knowing him. This is my story, sorry for the English, it?s not my language.

Aww thats cute and quick!..well done ladyscorpion..hahah

Yea, that's an uplifting one... : D

Yes..its the subconcious coming out to play for a change..wooohoo...Man I need a drink!..

I was so used with the rejection? that I don?t know how to behave now, I have what I wanted so much, and I don?t know how to use it. Marriage, I don?t think I am ready for it, I need time to know him, love is not enough for marriage, this is my rational opinion. I see him he is making efforts to be warmer, towards friendship; I want to see how is this in time. The relationship with Gemini was so easy, lot of fun, but Capricorns? so difficult.

Does he have any brothers 😉
What did you do to the poor guy?