Friends and ...

hey caps! some insight, please.

she knows i like her.
i know that she used to like me as more:
e.g. says that a music that i got her into has an effect her when she hears it, etc...
but i think she likes me just as a friend now.

ive accepted her friendship: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/i-m-in-love-with-a-cap-2164155/ summary: i kind-of put her in a friend-zone.
but recently this happens: http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=2220903<BR> summary: she sends me a "i have something to confess" message.

so that changes my view on things.
i ask her out with the same gravitas as the "i have something to confess" that i received.
then after that i played our online and TXT chats lighthearted.
but shes brushed me off. she didnt say "no" but our planned date didnt happen.

but shes wanted to keep me as a friend:
she invited me to spend time with her friends at the beach (mentioned in that thread above).
and shes initiated conversations online and asked me out to dinner with others after that.

so, i think that:
1. she likes me as a friend and doesnt want to lose that. i feel the same about her.
2. she may have feelings for me but shes unsure and or distracted by someone else

my question:
is my 2nd assessment correct?

how receptive are caps to a real show of feelings?
not crazy like "i can see us as being married with 6 kids and living happily ever after near the beach",
but more real and grounded like "i like our friendship and care about it but i also feelings...etc..."

thanks guys!

cap women are just to damned cute...

Posted by CappyLuv30
What's her Venus?...A Cap will share her feelings but has to be comfortable enough to do it...

yeah...thats like anyone, right? she lets me know when she's down but just hints. and she opens up a little bit when i ask.

i had to look up what you meant by "what's her venus". so here's mine:
Sun Libra, Moon Cancer, Mercury Virgo, Venus Scorpio, Mars Virgo, Jupiter Scorpio, Saturn Taurus, Uranus Libra, Neptune Scorpio, Pluto Virgo, Lilith Virgo, Asc node Pisces
and hers:
Sun Capricorn, Moon Sagittarius, Mercury Capricorn, Venus Aquarius, Mars Virgo, Jupiter Virgo, Saturn Virgo, Uranus Scorpio, Neptune Sagittarius, Pluto Libra, Lilith Virgo, Asc node Leo

i wont be surprise if its no good. i just dont want to miss out if there is something there.

i think a lot goes to real interactions between people. but some insights like this forum helps.

Posted by TG
Oh it's you again!...I think your 2 assumptions are right!..." how receptive are caps to a real show of feelings? "...We??re very receptive...

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hahaha! yeah. i feel like a yo-yo.
i like her...then as a friend...then something will happen...then im back again chasing her.

thats good what you said about being receptive.

its a good friendship at the moment.
i think, the knowing when to do anything is the key - especially when friends are involved.
so...ill be waiting but checking the situation out.

i made a mistake with her moon. her moon is actually capricorn. mine is cancer.
so only our moons matched: cancer-capricorn. and as opposites-attacts type of match.
ha! definitely been strung along! hahaha! nice girl that she is.

but i dont really know her birth-time. 2 hours more and our venus match: scorpio-pisces.
cluthing at straws. :S

but...i still don't get it. 😉

e.g. im more like the cap than the libra that is described in the libra-cap description on cafeastrology.
and my virgo/libra cusp is a good match for her cap/aqua cusp.
and this page http://www.new-astrology.com/index.php?page=comp2f returned a good result.

i still think there's more to this than whats on the internet. 😉



anyway...she's still a good friend.
she got me tickets to see a band with some of our friends!