Going to Paris sweety...

Hi all..

Well would u believe the cappy friend has asked me whether he could go Paris with me!!!..as some of you know, we've been friends for 7 months, get on brilliantly, fight, argue, speak a lot, mutual admiration on every front, but Paris of all places as a first meeting? whats cooking?...I mean, thats a bit full on for a first meeting isn't it..and HE asked me. So we are now trying to make bookings etc..He also said that he wants us to do a lot of mini breaks away together. I said are you being serious cos I don't believe you, to which he replied, I wouldn't have suggested it if I wasn't serious.

Your opinions please..

Thanks Capman..I think..

Sounds good... Just make sure this is what YOU want. I mean you've never met him in person?? Photos can be old and not convey alot. Don't know how big of a trip this is for you... I just don't know if I'd want to risk it being ruined or tarnished by a letdown or whatnot. It's YOUR trip, so don't let him make you feel like he's doing you favors by going!

"I just don't know if I'd want to risk it being ruined or tarnished by a letdown or whatnot"

Damn Capgirl was that really necessary? why so negative? Why not just wish her well she is grown she probably already thought of that she's is a Scorpio we are very pensive.

You know I am going to keep this real and you can take it anyway you like

Sometimes I think you are just jeolous, of other people's happiness with there Capricorn men

"Damn Capgirl was that really necessary? why so negative? Why not just wish her well she is grown she probably already thought of that she's is a Scorpio we are very pensive.

You know I am going to keep this real and you can take it anyway you like

Sometimes I think you are just jeolous, of other people's happiness with there Capricorn men"

Like I said on the Scorp board.. I think that is just a great idea. I met my Scorp first time somewhere (not in Paris and I'm very secretive of the place where I met him.. 🙂 ) and I was still so very attracted to him as he was to me too, so if you really like a person then you don't care about the looks so much, if he just reminds a bit of that pic he sent to you.

(And don't ask me how I ended up having a Cap, and a Scorp, just a long story and I had a break with the one when I met the other... Damn I hate this drama.. And I love someone so much too.. 🙂 )

I feel you SS....honestly it is to much to deal with for me, I rather take the lose, I don't need it in my life, if it is meant to be it will be. What else can you do... Beg, Plea, Chase...I think not, Aint' no man worth that shit.

I know people think I have a negative point of view about Capricorns but I don't it's the priciple of the matter here, to me nothing more nothing less.

SL

My drama isn't exactly about chasing or pleasing or begging.. My drama is that I happened to get a family with someone first. I never thought I could meet someone who I really like a lot. I met him when having problems with the one I have a family with. And then trying to forget someone who I love and the guy also keeps in touch with me (which is great coz of the mutual feelings). We don't have arguements with this guy but we just have obstacles between us, families. So, that sounds impossible but could be very possible some day. I'm not really waiting for anything, I'm just taking day by day. I know what I want. I'm just trying to forget that for a while so I won't be dreaming about it. I really forget about it every now and then. But the feelings are there always, I just put them away (it almost works like "on and off" for me..lol)

I have never had problems with begging and hanging in relationships where the other part doesn't wanna be. Coz if I see that he doesn't like me then I just leave it there. I have never been chasing any guy. I think I'm lucky that I manage to keep myself cool in that way.. 🙂

SL.. I also think that if it's meant to be then it will be 🙂

I feel you, stay strong and do you because your happiness should be most important.

I always stay strong. I have a great ability not to dream about love. I also don't cry after guys. I just don't do that. It's enough for me to know that there is a person out there who is something that other people are not. I never talk about these things with my friends. They wouldn't understand. Noone would understand.

Right I don't cry either, I would get into full detail of what's been happening with me butI will have to send you a private message for that.

I don't feel the need to spread my business on this board anymore no one can tell me anything I don't already know or give me their suggestion/advise or opinions it will be useless to me.

Paris is MY trip...As we are into very similar things, it will be enjoyable..just to have someone to discuss art with, wonder the streets, see all the landmarks etc..whether theres any romance or not, I don't really mind..we are both old and ugly enough to be all grown up about it..We know where we stand..If I get the vibes then I will go in for the kill..lol..

SS & SL - your right, its not all about the looks, if someone makes you smile from the inside then its all good..I respect him as an individual and although he doesn't often admit it, I know he respects me too..but Capgirl has a point too..often when you haven't met things could go disastrously wrong..but trust me when I say this, we are very close friends and we are just going to Paris on that basis..with an open mind..I think when emotions get involved, it all gets messy..Theres no hurry..if its meant to be it will be..

Antibling - stop stirring!..lol

SL~ fuck off! Sorry I felt I just wanted to say that.

I may have been a bit Capricorn pessimistic, but I'm just being a realist (Venus in Capricorn also). I'm coming off of dating off of match.com and know how first meetings can be. But MM's situation is her own; I was just giving some "thinking" points. Seven months is a significant amount of time, and I think MM's in England, going to Paris? So, perhaps it's not as monumental.

I think I've proven time and time over that I am SUPPORTIVE of all ventures to lasso a Cap. man... EarthGirl, WestCoastGirl, MYCAP, etc. so I'm not even going to argue that lowball insult.

Know if you feel the need to tell me to F/Off then I guess you was pretty upset behind what I said. LOL

Or could it be that you are jeolous of other people relationships with there male, and you are trying to sabbotoge it because you are not happy.

Capgirl - if you can't say anything positive then you should not say anything at all is all I am saying to you.

Know you have a good day and I wish you much success in your love life (smile)

Thank you, SB. (I recall you giving me some constructive point-blank advice on the "foreign wife" issue which had been most welcomed and appreciated.)

Yes, SL, I am jealous of "cyber-friends" and their success and love lives with their Cap. men, because it's so directly impacting my life and, oh, the international pool of available Cap. men from which I have left to choose! LOL

SL~ You should soften your rough edges a bit and show a little vulnerability at times, and learn the art of compromise. Everyone needs someone whether they're willing to admit it or not... Put positively enough for you?

Damm, where's Branh? I'd prefer to be taking my lashings out on him, rather than my own gender. haha

sb - because it just to negative I know yall are or could be pessimistic but dang man sometimes it's just ridiculas to me. Can you say somethings positive.

Know I see why capricorn have bouts of depression. Maybe Caps should look on the bighter side or things take a leap of faith every know and then and maybe that will help them not to be so pessimistic.

I am very optimistic refuse to think nothing but the best. It keeps me happy and motivative to strive for more and be more.

I am not trying to put anyone down but come one I know we are all different and I have issues and flaws about ourselves that my irritate or get bothered by some poeple, I really don't think a person can really be happy being pessimistic about everything always thinking the worst, that has got to be depressing I am getting depress thinking about it...ugh


I think that people should really take a look at themselves sometimes, especially if you know that something about you is what's causing the problems or unhappiness in there lives...

It is ok Capgirl I am not offended

I am a very soft person trust me when I say that it's just that when I make a decision to do something or not to do something no one can change that and my opinion stays the same.

I may sound rough but I am not, that is just me. I do intimidate a lot of people not saying you, and I am one of the most sensitive vulnerable people I rate right there with Capricorns..

I don't compromise unless it is both ways I truly and honestly believe that relationship should be 50/50 may be unrealistic to some people but that is what I live by.

I will compromise depending on situation. But in my case and knowing what I know there will be no compromising at least not from me alone. Case Close

But look at it on the bright side sweetie you admitted that you were jeolous, how long have you been feeling that way. No need to tell me about it I just hope that it let loose some of the burdens you was feeling go away.

I am women enough to stand toe to toe if I have to but I will not go there with you. I do honestly wish you much happiness in your love life, but you have got to be a little more optimistic sweetie.

And yes everyone do needs someone but not at the mercy or compromising one way and that is what I find a lot of women on this board do with there Cap men and I think is it just plain stupid.

You and I both know how they are and how they treat women and I think to much of myself to compromise for a man that won't even share the responsibility of comprimising together.

I am sorry these guys are not the only guys in the world to date. I now someone out there loves me and is for me, but I love myself to much to lose my pride and dignity and acting like a complete nut for a man that could careless about my feelings...

That's my story and I am sticking to it. PEACE

sb- yes we do have a jeolous strike but it is caused by someone.

I am not measuring anyone I said what I said and I meant it case close.

I always look at myself I have been through a lot in my life and as a grown women I have look at myself over the years and each day of my life I try to be a better person than I was yesterday,

But I will only tolerate but so much from anyone I speak my mind and that is it I am blunt and striaght to the point.

Okay, truce, SL, but as to my admission of "jealousy"- that was merely SARCASM, above in my last post- another inherent Cap. trait.

Ladies put your handbags away...Everyones got a bit of jealousy in them..its human nature..deal with it and move on..yawn..

Lets all just be civil shall we...

Ohhhh.. I haven't been reading all the posts here coz I come here just every now and then. I didn't realize that there's some kind of arguement going on in here. Between SL and CC. I had a guy friend who was my biggest enemy, we argued since we met. Then suddenly we became good friends. I hope you guys see that it's not worth argueing here.. PEACE..

SL, send me a message (PM) if you wanna talk about Cappies or anything. I'll check this DXPnet almost every day.

LMAO @ Turkey neck thing..classic!..u nutter..
MM passes spoon back to bling..stirring isn't my forte..

I bet you do!..
I just decided I want a lava lamp..

SS I was not trying to argue with CC I was just voicing my opinion I have that right. Sorry to say I don't need to know know more than what I have learned so far. My view of Cap Men is not going to change. I am just as stubborn as they are. Again, I don't have nothing against them I am just not going to tolerate what they do. At least not to me if other women want to deal with the mental and emotional strain that is on them I still think it is STUPID. I can honestly say that I fell for it but since I know, I refuse to allow myself to fall for it again.

I am all or nothing I don't tolerate any form of a gray area in my life and if I have to then I will take it as a no. I know that man loves me and as long as I know I'm ok with that. And until he has found enough courage to talk to me to express that I will not force it out of him. Again, I look at all the calling and being sweet, etc is begging and pleading, and that is something I don't do. I does not matter how much I love him. If it is meant to be it will be.

My happeness is not contingent upon being with him or any other man. My happines is based soley on me and how I live my life, and how I handle adversities, some people can't handle certian things in life but I believe and live by "As long as I have my Higher Power, I can face anything, with faith and belief. Strentgh come from within and me being the type of person that I am, someone with a lot of strength, courage and confidence, I stand by what I believe and I stick to it.

I have been hurt I have chased, begged and pleaded and again at this time in my life it is not worth it to me, I will not change what I believe, no one can convince me otherwise.

CapGirl - Your Sarcasim is ok with me I am just as Sarcastic as the next person that is a triat of a Scorpio also. I am not going to call a Truce because I meant what I said I will say what I feel the need to say to you and anyone else on this board. I am not mad at you never was.

And all those who read this can voice their opinions also but I am a true Scorpio and very stubborn on issues that I believe in.

I wish everyone a happy weekend. PEACE

MM - I hear you sweetie.

LMAO, Missmorals...I just have one thing to say to you...don't tie his thingy and tug on it, it wont get him to feel your pain...trust me on this one. 🙂

As for the sharp tongue lashings.....I stand behind you all the way........way behind you.....tee hee hee, swwwissssssssh! smmmmaackkkk! :O

Wow, that was close, I felt the wind, ieewwww, actually that was my dog.

Happy Easter!!!!!!!

*CG [goat] kicking up mud at SL*

How's that for the b-slapping?

You guys are silly! Stardance, what happy pill are you on?? "Tie...tug...thingy" - I love that! I'd like to try that on ANY man, any sign! LOL 😉

Stirring! What Stirring?.....That's Not What Those Big Spoons Are For!....geeeeezzz, didn't yo mamma ever smack u with it? Hand it over here. Tee hee hee.....(little crab starts to scamper behind the rock.....well, maybe just a couple a little smacks before I hide.....)

"IF ANYONE ELSE SMACKS ANYONE ELSE, I'M GONNA HAVE TO SMACK YA ALL IN ORDER TO KEEP THE PEACE....GEEEZZZ!"

SL.....I gotta love ya, but all I can say is, a little compromise brought home the BIG one for me. You are abosolutely right, everyone is entitled to their opinion and fooey if someone doesn't like it. I share the responsibility in my relationship, I call if I wanna, and he calls if he wannstoo, and I tell 'im what I think and he tells me what he thinks. It's a mutual thang.

CG......this is endorphins flowing baby, some gals find them in their shampoo, I found mine in a strong, confident, expressive Cap Man who delivers....(crabby crab has very big b**tter eating grin) A rare find he is, kinda like prospecting for gold, a lotta luck, faith and finesse is needed. Ya never know when it will peter out...but ya just might strike the big one...

MM, sorry I forgot to wishya.... a grrreeeat!!!!! time!!!!! propspecting!!!!

Stardance...are you sure you aren't an.... ARIES?? Or a ... Gemini?? You just don't seem like a sensitive, shy, introverted Cancer!!

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Where in the world have Wheretomylady, APW, and some of my other CapChica, and cap friends gone—?

BTW..NO MUD KICKING EITHER OR I'LL, I'LL,......go hide behind that rock right there.....tee hee hee, they won't get me in here, HEY!!!! THAT'S NOT FUNNY! YOU GOT MUD ALL OVER ME!

*CG [goat] goes stomping over behind rock* .... >> >> crab shell, crab guts everywhere!!! *Goat scrapes hoof on rock to get yucky fishy smelling gunk off hoof*

LOL LOL LOL

Oh, it's supposed to say: CRUNCH.... SQUISSSSHHH.... before the shell and guts get splattered!

Oooppps, goat finds other critter under back hoof.... smaller critter.... a ... scorpion??! Shakes carcass off hoof.

hehehe

Goat comes upon other friendly female goat...they head off to field to munch grass.

Alright, ya'll, I'm getting loooopy! G'Night!

Little does CG realize, crabby crabs can grow new parts....tee hee hee, and she's still wondering where the welt on her butt came from.....scamper, scamper.....tweedley dee.....tweedley dumb, aahhhh, there's that long legged silly goat o'mine. Come here big fellow, see that CG over there.....tee hee hee, go get'm

Big silly goat says "Hey cutie, why not send my buddies over there and tickle'm silly instead"...crabby crab says "yeah, that's a great idear, you big silly goat, come here baby, I got something for ya"

Have a good one CG...I like ya anyways. 🙂

I said CC before, I meant CG = CapGirl

SL

I'm not gonna read all those posts that maybe made you 2 stubborn girls to fight.. 🙂

I just wanna say that you both are entitled to your opinions and I'm not here to judge anyone, so I'm not taking a side here.

I wish you all happy easter! 🙂

Wow, there was a BIG disagreement on here. I'm all for debating, but jeezzz arguements are such a waste of time and effort. hahaha, I don't know who started (seems like it was Scorpionlady), but we are here to help each other, everyone has a difference of opinions. It's best to engage and debate an opposing view ... not lash out at someone. Anywho, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Being a cappy myself, I tend to be very realistic. It keeps me grounded and level-headed, if you know what I mean.

Missmorals,

Since I'm both sagitt. and cap and can give you two good prospectives: (1) I think going to Paris for your first meeting is awesome. Since you live in the UK, what do you have to lose? (2) However, just be cautious and keep an open mind about what you may be getting yourself into ***hahahah*** "My mom always said life was like a box of chocolates ... you NEVER know what your gonna get."

Happy Easter to all ************

Thank you Cappysweetie..I have a lot of sagitarius in my chart so I am too very level headed and grounded..I know what I am doing..was just a bit shocked when he wanted to come with me thats all..for someone I haven't event met, 4 days together was a bit full on..but he's obviously ready for it..I am all for fun!..let the good times roll baby!..lol..

Happy Easter to y'all...