Cap Long-Distance

Hi Leo...I am too, I struggled www/it, but now I enjoy it. Something about making the heart grow fonder... 🙂 We have long phone conversations (2+ hrs!) every couple of days. Thank goodness for unlimited minute plans.

I think you're right, it can be very hard in the best of circumstances. What is it like for you and your cap? Do you talk

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Do you talk on the phone much? What do you talk about?

I do get to missing him real bad, so I just have a lot of hot dreams.... 🙂

LOL...eyes rolling... but really I don't mind that he is focused on his work because he is so focused on me when we talk and when we spend time. He drives. He is a couple years younger than I am. But I feel like the younger one because when he is not being silly, he is pretty serious.

How about you, how old are you guys? Does he fly? Where do you live?

What do you talk about when you do talk while he is away?

Hey gals,
I find your conversation interesting and felt that I could relate to it somehow. I'm a leo, and I'm kinda in a long distance thing with a cap guy who I met online a month ago. We have grown very close during this time. Yet, lately I'm having extreme difficulty reading him. He suddenly disappears and makes himself unavailable to my calls and text messages. Then he unexpectedly reappears again, and we get even closer to each other after each amazing phone conversation. We have this amazing connection, which I'm sure he feels too. But then he disappeared for a week! I was pulling my hair out (literally going nuts, mind u I'm a leo and very impulsive!), so I sent him an email about how i love talking to him but I'm not sure if he feels the same way. I also said that he should put more effort into this because its as though I have to initiate contact each time. Now i'm regretting it. Did i scare him away by my directness? Is it too early to tell him how important he has become to me (I've heard caps are really slooooooow in the romance department). Do u find yourself in similar situations with your guys LEOGIRLWITHCAPANDANNOYED and Stardance? How do u deal with them?

Leowithcap... what do u do when you get frustrated? Do you ever tell him u get tired of initiating contact like this all the time, and would like for him to put in more effort for a change? How does his respond to that? His silence is getting on my nerves. I think I'm gonna be the one initiating contact again

Westcoastangel.. what you said is hilarious and soo true. My cap does the exact same thing. He never ever addresses me by my name in his e-mails.. its always a lousy 'hey there' which drives me over the walls. I'm hoping to bring this to his attention at some point soon (hopefully when we start talking again).
And yes I think you're very right LeoWithCap.. leos are so direct and so eager when it comes to seeking attenion that I think if we actually put effort into it, we can make it work. I'm actually getting very encouraged by your advice and will be calling him tomorrow. Wish me good luck!

I'm also in a Long-Dist relationship with a cap. I dont know what the future has in store,
but if all things must come to an end... then i'll try my best to enjoy the present.

How long do people ussually last in LDRs?