Question for Caps.

How many of you guys get along with the word no?
It seems to me that the cap's I know will never give up quickly. And that is not a bad thing. Especially the guys I know, if they like something then they are going to try to get it regardless. So is that you?

i can usually tell when the "no" is not real. i will fight for what i want, if i can tell the "no" is not grounded in truth. after all, as i read along time ago..."oratory is rarely truth, mostly persuasion".

I must be honest; I have a problem with the word "no." Of course this is depending on the context in which it is used. Being that I'm a go-getter, if I'm told I can't do something...I will try my darndest to prove the person wrong.

Don't capman..your turning me on..

I love Astrology..and thanks for the link..having a look now..

Woohooo..I knew it..

Best Match For Scorpio Is Capricorn:
These two can not only understand one another extremely well, but can actually match sensitivities and emotions, almost (if not actually) on a psychic level. A very long lasting relationship, these two seldom ever break up.

So what you saying Capman?..shall we?..lol

Ooh la la! I'm a Cappy girl seeing a Scorp man. 🙂

I think I scared capman away 😢

He's a Cap. man; he disappears! But... he'll be....back!!

lol.....just tell him "no". Then he'll be back for sure. 🙂

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Ginko baloba, C-man. My cap guy has an amazing memory, or else he's just going over things I've said 1000 times in his head, like a woman would! LOL

Got there eventually capman!..lol.

Nothing scares me either..oh apart from childbirth but I do have a high pain threshhold so I guess it won't be any different..you guys are ok, at least you don't have to endure that..I would love to see you guys cry if you ever did..You faint just watching it!..

I once read about a tribe in south africa..whereby, when the woman gave birth, it was a ritual to tie a piece of rope to the guys penis and when the contractions came, the woman would yank really hard on that rope..so the guy felt just as much pain..i thought its a brilliant idea..and would like to make that as a condition in my relationship..tread carefully..lol.

I had a great weekend with the Cap I'm interested in and he totally dissapeared on me 😢 I know he'll be back..............but Girls! how are they when they retreat and come back........do they act like nothing happened and pick up where they left off or do they seem distant to see how your mood will be? He's done that in the past and I actually thought it was test to see if I would flip out on him. But of course I never did because I can understand a hard working man, not to mention that patience is like a fine wine.......it gets better with time. I actually feel at peace like its going to be ok.....but MAN, I never really knew what you ladies were talking about until now....its like they just vanish......POOF

When he comes back, he'll act as though nothing happened..If you mention it, he'll be like "god are we still on this subject"...so just act normal as well...unless of course you wanna have a go at him..which won't affect him in anyway but at least you'll feel better..

Missmorals: I think you are sooo right!!! What do I know?...lol...I intensly listen to what he tells me...I think Cap guys are "very clever" and that they tell you what they want but without spelling it out....one of the things I sense from mine is that he is not attracted to "emotional" and that he admires "self-discipline"....

We all want to talk ourselves into finding reasons why we should call them...including myself....lol....as long as they know you care, I think it's enough....by calling and not getting a response....and then calling again...and then thinking one more call won't hurt....we just set ourselves up for dissapointment while giving them the message that it's okay to not return calls because you'll call again, again and again....

They are very smart and I think they go by the messages your giving them...

I actually lived with a Cap man...many years ago and it's recently been comming back to me ..I specifically remember one time he told me, "Babe, don't give me so much rope"....and we were not even doing bondage...LOL...LOL...

Hey everybody have a greeeaaat day!!!!

LOL thats true about calling. Thats a lesson in self restraint!

I've have known my cappy friend for 7 months..I've only ever called him once so he can store my number on his phone!..hows that for self-restraint? He often complains about me never calling him to which I reply its just the way I am, get used to it..and it is..I don't feel the need to call..then he'll go fine..see if I care..so I still don't call him and what do you know..lol..3 days later he's back!..when he says he'll come down and see me, I am like "yeah believe that when I see it"..and yada yada yada..

Be who you are and say what you feel, cos those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind!..

Love your last sentence......words to live by 🙂 I kept telling myself before we spent the day together this weekend to relax and be myself. I usually am since he is so disarming. So surprisingly when the day came I was super relaxed not self conscious at all. I just didnt expect him to retreat so suddenly especially since we have really good communication and he always calls back right away. If anything ever happens between us its going to take a lot of thought and time since our situation is far from normal! I know it would be worth it in the end, I just hope he comes to the same conclusion. Its just a matter of how much he willing to sacrifice for something meaningful.

But are you guys dating? or is it all in your head? has he actually said your dating? cos remember, only when he says your dating is when your dating..He may just be a good friend..but then again I don't know your situation..

Not to put a downer on the situation but my pisces friend didn't have the patience to wait around for her cappy guy..so I don't know if the same applies to you..

Anyways good luck with it all..

You are so RIGHT! It never occured to me that he was being a good friend, especially since he changed and started to get personal. I guess I just have such a high opinion of myself that I thought he was interested.......but you're probably right. Thanks! You just saved me a lot of time on potentially wasted energy.

Majority of them want to please everyone around them, especially of the female variety so make sure if you want to progress into a relationship, that he treats you a little differently to the rest of the ladies in his life..only then will you know that you mean something more. They are very loyal friends I got to give them that..but make sure there is a distinction between friends and lovers. You'll be fine..just don't pressurize, he will come to the conclusion in his time. Theres nothing you can say or do to change his mind..

I am glad I helped..I don't know how to do those smiley faces..oh well :-)

You guys are really scary...


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Why'd ya say that Stardance?

Febby- is this that co-worker Cap. guy??

I wouldn't necessarily say that they make a "we're dating" declaration... they like to keep things "grey" w/ the whole "friend" concept. I read some guy advice that if a single straight guy is referring to a reasonably attractive woman, whom he's hanging out with, as "a friend", that means she's "a prospect" and that no guy is spending his time w/ a woman whom he isn't thinking of in a romantic or sexual way.

Hey Capgirl......no this isnt the co-worker but speaking of which he totally stared me down today, I think I saw stars in his eyes. This is the other guy that I didnt know was a Cap until recently. Thats a good point you make about spending time with someone.........very true.

Just wondering if that poor bloak knows she thinking about tugging a rope around his thingy while he's in Paris....

On the other hand missmorals stated she can take the pain, so maybe she wants to take turns...it's all just too scary for this little crab to think about.

Ooooooh, I might have a nightmare about this one. :O

Run Capman! Run

Crabby-crab, Stardance, I thought you were the "yum-yum-yummy" one over the Cap. guy? Or is your situation w/ yours not like this? Updates.... 🙂

Noooo, I never tie his thingy and tug on it, and I like to feel real good, no pain please.

He is still the best ever....calling everyother day, calling me cutie, being supportive and attentive. I just can't get over how much he wows me. I know, it's sick, there must be a catch, yap there is, and it's him and I caught him, he's all mine....tee hee hee.

Tie his thingy and tug on it?? LOL Sadomasochism? How long have you been experiencing the "happy-happy-joy-joy"?

Since I told him that I liked my life with him in it and I didn't want that to change....that was after I told him that if he didn't feel the same for me it was ..."Next!" and that was after he dissappeared for a couple of weeks and that was after I told him "I'm falling hard for you baby" and before he said nothing in reply.

In summary, I decided I didn't need to make demands on relationship stuff, I just needed to enjoy him even if just for a while....so it's been about month of blisssssssss. I figure if we find later that things get rough, I'll cross that bridge when I get there, otherwise, it's ooh laa laa baby, I can't tell you how good it feels.

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Hi Febpisces27 & missmorals I've been reading your post on 4/12 and new to this website and I'm a scorpio started to date and now we just officially defined it as b/f&g/f relationship. How does the disappearing act and not returning and then when they reappear its like nothing happened? Like as if those days of distance and apart didnt happen? Do you ever question what he has been doing and then he kinda gives you an excuse that is believable but if it keeps happening, is it for real? I mean capricorns are known to be in their own little world and to be faithful as what I have read, what do they do during this time? should I be worrying about him hiding things or lying to me about the things he has been doing when they retreat?