He told me he loves me

I knew he felt it, but wasnt sure how long it would take to hear it. Tonight, post trick or treating, he told me how he feels. It's nice to have the verbal affirmation of what I've been assuming 🙂

Posted by Leostrong
I knew he felt it, but wasnt sure how long it would take to hear it. Tonight, post trick or treating, he told me how he feels. It's nice to have the verbal affirmation of what I've been assuming 🙂

Wow I have to ask..how long have you guys been dating/in a relationship? Did he test you at all? Was there ever a moment where you felt that he really didn't like you and you wanted to give up? Sorry for all of the questions, but it must have been a big deal if you posted it here, so I wanna know your secret!

Four or five months. No official "start" date though 🙂 I'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.

I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.

I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.

Hope that helps, but there is no secret. 😄

I'm happy for you!

Posted by truecap
I'm happy for you!

Thanks! 😄

Yay! Congrats!! 🙂

Posted by Leostrong
Four or five months. No official "start" date though 🙂 I'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.

I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.

I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.

Hope that helps, but there is no secret. 😄

Well that's awesome, I'm happy for you! 🙂

One more question and you don't have to answer of course, but were you guys intimate right way or did you wait awhile?

I read so many conflicting things about when to sleep with a Cappy man...I've seen stories where they slept with them right way and it worked out and the guy wanted to be with them and everything was peachy. But then I read (more often than not) when you sleep with them too fast they tend to then put you in the category of good for sex..but nothing else and it never goes on beyond a sexual relationship.

I've come to the conclusion (and I could be wrong) that it's never a good idea to do it BEFORE you know how they feel about you..or at least has shown you how they feel about you. You think there is some truth to that?

Posted by MintSprinkles

Posted by Leostrong
Four or five months. No official "start" date though 🙂 I'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.

I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.

I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.

Hope that helps, but there is no secret. 😄

Well that's awesome, I'm happy for you! 🙂

One more question and you don't have to answer of course, but were you guys intimate right way or did you wait awhile?

I read so many conflicting things about when to sleep with a Cappy man...I've seen stories where they slept with them right way and it worked out and the guy wanted to be with them and everything was peachy. But then I read (more often than not) when you sleep with them too fast they tend to then put you in the category of good for sex..but nothing else and it never goes on beyond a sexual relationship.

I've come to the conclusion (and I could be wrong) that it's never a good idea to do it BEFORE you know how they feel about you..or at least has shown you how they feel about you. You think there is some truth to that?

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We waited. And I think there's truth to that with any guy. Maybe more so with caps

Posted by MintSprinkles

Posted by Leostrong
Four or five months. No official "start" date though 🙂 I'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.

I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.

I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.

Hope that helps, but there is no secret. 😄

Well that's awesome, I'm happy for you! 🙂

One more question and you don't have to answer of course, but were you guys intimate right way or did you wait awhile?

I read so many conflicting things about when to sleep with a Cappy man...I've seen stories where they slept with them right way and it worked out and the guy wanted to be with them and everything was peachy. But then I read (more often than not) when you sleep with them too fast they tend to then put you in the category of good for sex..but nothing else and it never goes on beyond a sexual relationship.

I've come to the conclusion (and I could be wrong) that it's never a good idea to do it BEFORE you know how they feel about you..or at least has shown you how they feel about you. You think there is some truth to that?

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Why give up the cookies to someone who doesn't feel for you? So, I agree with LeoStrong. It's the same with any guy. Wait until they deserve it.

Posted by xxoommmxxoo
that's so cool! i feel like caps have got to stop being so guarded and let more love in their lives. But when he said it i am sure it melted your heart🙂 finally, to hear it. Us girls like to hear it 😉

Definitely melted my heart! 😄 I kind of appreciate them being guarded. It's nice to know that their trust and emotions aren't handed out to just anyone. It brings a whole new meaning to security, especially early on.

Posted by capinc
Just words for the insecure.

I'm not insecure lol. If you read what I wrote, I said it was verbal affirmation to what I already knew 😉

Posted by capinc
Just words for the insecure.

We've evolved, we now use words to share our thoughts and feelings 😉