help!!!

I've been dating this cappy for almost 4 months now, it started out very casual, but now I have feelings. I'm pretty sure he feel the same now but aren't 100% sure. We were both out of town recently visiting friends and he txt me the entire way to make sure I made it there ok and txt me while I was there just to chit chat. I have yet to meet any of his friends and vice versa with me. I feel like he should invite me first. But anyway while I was away he actually said he kinda missed my company that was a first then he mentioned something about meeting my brother well he actually said " well when I meet him" I gave him a puzzled looked because he never mentioned anything like this before. He has been so busy with work that he thought I was upset with me and I told him that, that one thing I totally understand which I so its not an issue. I'm just a bit confused bc I'm really starting to care about him but don't know how to express that and not scare him. help please

Also I want to book him a massage since he had been working nonstop, is this a good idea?

low down or you'll definitely scare him away, not because you shouldn't feel anything (of course you should) and yet those emotions don't have to be expressed out in all of these various expressions you give through the conversations you have.

You right on the edge of desperation by over analyzing things...

Since you've decided YOU are falling well now you're attempting to get affirmation that he's falling too and this is a HUGE BIG MISTAKE because it breeds desperate feelings and once desperation creeps in well it all can downhill quickly. A lot of women make the mistake of feeling well okay I'm in love, I'm falling and she goes into over drive attempting to get affirmation he's on the same page with her, be discerning when it comes to feelings and how those feelings should be expressed, you don't have to bribe him with a massage, try not to use your male energy by fixing his feelings with a massage.

Relax, you go get a massage so you can build your inner confidence up and stop flipping out inside which could potentially kill any chance of moving forward.

slow

I veto the massage. Whether purchased for him or given by yourself, it's too much at this point. Unless it's you going to get one yourself, like Tiki suggested...that's a good idea. With a little luck it will help take your mind off of him for a while and let you focus on you, which is a good thing.

I do not claim to speak for all Cap males, but anyone that I have ever been attracted to has never had any cause to doubt. That he texted you so frequently/consistently and said that he missed you are good signs. The fact that he hasn't professed his undying love for you yet is not a cause for concern. Goats have a tendency to move slowly and carefully, even more so than usual in matters of the heart.

In mentioning your brother, he indicated his interest in meeting him...this is another good sign. Setting something up so that he could meet your brother in some fun/laid-back social setting (maybe with a few other mutual friends) would be a good way to accomplish several things once: show him you want him to be a more included part of your life without screaming at him, "VALIDATE MY FEELINGS FOY YOU!", introduce him to your brother, and show him that you listen to him.