Help with a capricorn man

llo, I need help with a situation here!

I would like to get advice on this situation. I am working with a capricorn man. I am working this job for 3 months, but since my work contract ended last week I am not working there anymore. I met this capricorn man, at first he was distant, smiling at me sometimes, looking at me from a distance. Two weeks ago, while we were working on a project, he asked me if I wanted to have lunch break with him, and I agreed. He gave me his phone number and told me to call him the next day if I wanted to do something. The next day, I called him and he asked if I wanted to go out to eat. He drove a long time to pick me up at my house, even tho I told him I could meet him somewhere. Diner was fine, he insisted on paying for everything even tho I offered multiple times to pay for my half. He showed me his place and introduced me to his roomate, then drove me home. The next day I was sick, he brought me medication even tho I didn't ask for it. Few days after was my birthday, he brought me a cake for lunch and took me out at night to another restaurant. At the end of the night he kissed me, and ask why we didn't kiss on the first date; he quickly changed subject before I answered. We went on a few other dates, and talked daily via texts or on the phone. He was the one always asking me out for dates. One night, he asked me if I wanted to go sleep at his place since it's closer from work. I said yes, we slept on the same bed, kissed and cuddled but no sex.
He said he wanted to have sex with me, but didn't want to ruin everything by going out too fast. I didn't mind. The next day he wanted us to use his car to go to work, even tho I said I would use my car and go home after work. He even told me to keep my bags at his place so I can go back there after work. He seemed really interested, even tho I thought the relation ship was going a little to fast since we started dating only two weeks ago. The next date, he was colder and more distant. He told me he's not sure if he wants a relationship, he might see me only as a friend, he didn't feel sparks on our last date (but the other times yes) and he needs time to think about it, he said he sometimes feel "turned off" when people are showing interest; so he drove out of town to his family's house. He said he would let me know what's going on on Monday. I said I would not contact him during that period and respect his space; he said if I wanted to contact him there was no problem. Now I am

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Now I am just confused; I don' understand how it went from suddenly "really interested" to "questioning everything". I don't know how to act; I didn't contact him (no texts, no call) since he left yesterday. I like this guy, I would like to get to know him better to see where it goes, but at the same time I feel like just ignoring him the next time he calls me and move on.

Any advices?

He told you what he wanted actually,
For you to not be so interested

If you want this guy you will have to let him "win" you as his prize.

Easy solution, date some other guys and don't take this one seriously.

Don't call him, only let him do the work, and don't expect anything. If you "feel" like letting him date you then do so.

Think of yourself as a beautiful woman and how you would like to be treated. You let him pay, you let him call you, until you decide he's worthy of you.

By the way if you "feel" like ignoring him. then ignore him.

Richcap is right. Cap men like to earn their prize, they like to do the pursuing and achieve the goal. You're making it too easy for him. Us caps don't tend to cherish things that come to us easily. We like to work for what we get.

Had you had sex with him already, it would be over for sure by now.

So far, he actually texted me back on Sunday, as he said he would. I didn't contact him at all during the weekend. His texting habits remains the same as "before", we talk about daily activites in a friendly tone. I told him I was hospitalized for a severe case of bronchitis (like I told any of my friends), he inquired multiple times to see if I was ok, told me his pajama (that I mentionned liking when I was at his place) was mine if I needed it ( I ignored that), told me he was going to sleep cause he had to wake up early for work the next day but to call him and wake him up if anything. The only thing that changed is that I now let him initiate the contacts, which he's been doing everyday so far. Basically nothing changed in our text conversations.

I just let things go. No pressure. If he leaves, he leaves, and it's gonna be his lost. I know I look good, I am smart, educated,ambitious, I have a wonderful career at 29 years old which allows me to be able to buy my own house by myself after the holidays. I was doing really fine before he came into my life, two weeks ago. I don't need anyone. Am I cooky? NO. I am being realistic, I'm still a cool, sweet and shy girl when people come and talk to me, I like to get to know others but I know what I am worth.

And for sex... I am the type of girl who likes to wait. Sure, I'm all about kissing and cuddling, but taking my clothes off and being intimate with a man takes time for me. I want to know I'm not just a number or "one night thing" because I have sex. I feel that this way, I respect myself. (I have nothing against people sleeping with others right away, this is just not my thing).