HI HELP !

hi am a cancer lady and i have met another cap man hes in his early 40s.. we have jus recently met and he seemsvery keen even tho he lives 3 hours away.. my problem is do cap men change as they get older ?? i have had 2 longterm disasterous relationships with cap men bfore .. an hav children to both of them. i am very reluctant to go forth with this relationship as am scared he will be the same even tho he seems very genuine.. does any of you caps hav any advice for me please as i really like him !

hi.. well alot lol! both relationships were jus wrong i suppose to be honest started out fun ended up very controlling.. i had absolutely no confidence left by the time the second one finished.. it was very traumatic for me and my children.. one of them was an alcoholic and the other one showed absolutely no interest in his child.. nw turns up ten years later an thinks he can hav me an my child back ! both of them still think am a doormat. they hav both the same birthdays ! this will b my first real dating xperience in four years .

thank you omg so do i .. i have no tolerance for peeps who drink 2 much . i no that alcohol changes people its a horrible disease.. but i keep thinking were these 2 normal caps or were they just wronguns n if so what is a real cap man like !!

Not all Cap men are the same. Check the rest of his placements. Just take it slow and watch for signs. Draw your boundaries and don't let them cross the lines.