how do u...

let a cappie know that you love them, I mean really truly feel love for them?

you tell them!!.... they can see honesty a mile away...!
(and insincerity 100 miles away!)

p.s.
and they really need to hear it!!

...They ( cappies ) also need to 'express' themselves, and show their feelings/love without beating around the bush, as then......it maybe too late.
A partner is not a convenience, but someone to fulfill your heart's desire.
So don't 'act' like you can do without, when deep inside you know you can't

Two snapps on that! Cap's are afraid of rejection. Im mean, we all are but they can go overboard with the whole worry you to death thing. All I need is for you to tell me it's all good- and so be it. No pitty parties.

oh ya.....we cappies really need to hear it! We are not hypocrites, however we have this notion that no one could ever like us and we always keep wondering or rather trying to test the other person to see how much they really like us (and we are almost stupidly sure always that they thats going not going to be very much! - dunno why that is!)
So if you need to let your capie friend know your love for them, then theres no better way than to TELL them and as often as you can, i would suggest!
(well think of it, theres no better way to let anyone know of your feelings other than by telling them that!!isntit!? So i guess this BIG post was not of much help!!?

Hey 207.199.2.34,

reading your post has helped. I have told him but I will continue to tell him every chance I get! I hope that puts our 3 yr relationship to another (higher) level! And, as for the testing me thing -- he does that. He can be critically obnoxious and say really dumb stuff, when I could clearly see that its a front for something else...I know he cares for me or else he wouldnt waste his time with me right?
Signed,
cancer in love

well not really "waste" his time. Rather spend time with me.

Thanks for the replies all!!