Caps ask too many questions

They do.....what are ou doing, where are you going with whom? and you know what I have nothing to hide but I get tired of answering the same questions...I am an adult not a child having to report in to her parents....

I dont know how old you are, but it definitely is true with me, and I am not young. I was under the impression that this meant they 'cared', but in no time, I realized it is more about 'controlling', and being int he 'drivers' seat' for them capricorns than anything else.
The best thing is either 'not say much', or otherwise, 'not see much' :-)

Thank-you!...I am 24 and really...they do try to play it like they care.....I agree it seems to be or try to become a hidden agenda......to become a controlling figure in the relationship...but that will never work with this Gem.

I definitely agree with this topic. You see, I have an insider's p.o.v. here and might be able to shed a little light on your complaints and insights. I've been a Capricorn myself for the better (or worse?) part of two decades. After a long enough time of actually caring about someone or something and continually emptying your heart while getting nothing in return from anyone but your parents- and not even all the time from them- it's very difficult to give and to care for those who would only give me complaints that no one tried to understand them or that no one cares about them. BUT, the same people who plant this seed give nothing but grief back to he (or she) who tries to state how things are and how they feel about emptying their proverbial glass and not having it refilled. So hence, we Capricorns become extremely 'political' in everything we do and say, trying to put forward an obviously false image of caring or kindness of any sort. We're really all just grumpy, crochety old men and women at heart, and you all have called us on the carpet this time.

O===[===========>the now political Josh

Hey Josh!

I have read a few of your posts and enjoy your style ! You have a tongue-in-cheek type of humor that I find hilarious!

You are so right about the "grumpy, crochety old men and women at heart" thing...see, I am a Capricorn rising...
I hung out with my Grandma and her friends as a kid...because I fit right in with her and "the girls"!!

Well, hey, keep smilin'!

Star

I'm definitely still smilin' =) If the Rams had won the superbowl last night, though, I don't know if that would be possible to tell you the truth. But they did- hoorah! Now, back to moping about all that's wrong in my life and corrupt in the world...

But before I go, thank you for the compliments! It's not often someone takes the time to do that with any kind of sincerity =)

>>>-------->the crochety teenaged Josh

Hi!
I, perhaps, speak my mind too readily...but, people in real-life enjoy me! (On the boards it can be a different story...)

Ah, well...

I saw the game...it was awesome! I watched it with the Man of My Dreams...though, I don't actually call him that.

Well...continue in your quest!

I wish you the best! And, don't let the "nutters" get you down!

Star

Guess I'm a different kinda of Cap....
Before my husband and I were married we made an agreement that if the other one wanted to go out all we need to do is call and tell the other we were going out. No asking required.......

I was married before and my husband use to call and said he would be home at 5pm and have dinner ready. I would and he would show up at 5AM. I would be scared to death all night that something bad had happened to him. It's not a nice feeling.

Sorry you feel that your cap is controlling but maybe if you went through what I did you would understand.

My suggestion to you is talk to your cap. Good luck!

Hey Star,

As a Capricorn rising I wanted to know if this happens to you also? Josh I would like your input as well. As I get older I have a way of knowning things, feeling things.

I have had these feelings for a long time now, not understanding them, but they always happen before something not to good happens or when I should pay attention in a certain area.

I use to have thing pop into my head and I ignored them but in the last few years if I pay attention and dig a littler more (asking more questions, keeping my eyes open and really listening)I find out that they are to right on. It's been kind of scary. Does this happen to either of you?

Angel

well yeah, i guess...but that could be attributed more to intuition than anything else. b/c i'm a full blown psychic, i have dreams that literally come true and it's like i live certain times of my life twice or even several times. so i look at other peoples' perception of the supernatural and things like astrology with a bit of a different eye than most people, naturally. however, i never know if or when a dream is going to come true, and it gets frustrating since it regularly wakes me up around 4 in the morning. so anyway, that's my input.

*ZzzzzzzzzzzzzZ* the very sleepy Josh *ZzzzzzzzzzzzzZ*

Hi Angel!

Glad to meet you!

Josh cracks me up! (He doesn't know it, but, I am thinking of adopting him! LOL!)

Yes, I have highly developed intuition also...I get "feelings" that I have grown accustomed to...like, I can tell when someone is lying, or have 'bad' intentions...when something bad is going to happen...when something is too weird!, but true!...and when I am meant to know or pursue something (like some type of knowledge) as I got a vibration when I read your post!

I should get to know you!

I have also had dreams that come true...my daughter (who was born on my birthday!) remembers quite a bit of her past lives and my role in them...she says that we agreed that I would be her parent this time...it is weird, but when she tells me what she knows, I KNOW it is true and sometimes have dreams about it...

She can also see auras...she thought that everyone could and that they also remembered past lives...

I bought a book that teaches how to see auras...I can, but, I feel I am still learning!

I don't know if I answered your question to your satisfaction...

Feel free to talk to me...

Take Care!
Star

Hey Star and Josh,

Star it is very nice to meet you also. Josh you crack me up. I don't get waken up by dreams but when something bad is going to happen I usually can not go to sleep and just pace the floor.

Star your daughter sounds amazing....I bet you two have fun together. When I read your response the feeling I got was a mirror. WOW! I'm just lately trying to understand these feeling and not ignore them as I have for so long.

I would like to get to know you better.

Josh keep them coming....I love your humor.

Hope you both have a great day!

Angel

Hi Angel!

Yeah...my daughter is amazing...we have an unusual, but fun, parent/child relationship! My sister told me that she thinks my daughter is an Indigo Child...I bought a book about it and still don't quite understand it...(although I am not done reading it yet...)...it is like they are more advanced metaphysically speaking...

Anyway, the good news is that she and I have mutual respect for each other...she hates it when her friends treat their parents disrespectfully! (I love that in her!) She and I have very open communication...she is 14...and gorgeous. That is the only thing...she has guys after her all the time...
However, I maintain the open communication with her friends and boyfriends too! I talk openly about STD's, drugs, alcohol, smoking, and sex..there are so many risks out there!! At first, they are taken aback...then, they realize I am just trying to look out for their welfare...and they know I am a nurse...

Didn't mean to go on so much...
Good talking to you!
Keep in Touch!
Star

Josh!

Not everyone can put humor into writing well...it is a true fact...that is one of the reasons people fight on the message board! (Mis-taken humor!)

Keep me laughing! OK! If it makes you feel better, I won't adopt you! But, believe me...when I joke about adopting...that means I think you are really cool!

Take Care!
Star

Hey Star,

I like your style ......I do the the very same things.......LOL

Keep doing it girl.

Have a good one!
Angel

Well hello star, josh and angel....I still feel that cap's ask too many questions and maybe I should talk to him about this but I amost feel smothered and as an air sign I need to breath freely.....I am gemini and Josh it was nice that you could agree with the statement I m sure there are lot's of great things about cap's but right now I need space.............to breathe.

I have had the *opposite* experience with Caps--I find that they really respect my space and privacy and never need to be told more than once that certain things are off-limits. Anyway, I find that with Capricorns, I am the one doing all the questioning! But then, as a Scorpio girl...what else would I do? lol

@OLD JAKE