Months ago I asked you guys why you get so down. And, I want to know again. Maybe I didn't understand.
Is it a fear of failing?
Is it because emotions are so intense that they are overwhelming?
Is it because you feel misunderstood?
Do you think it's some sort of dependency? Like your feelings are dependent upon another person and without this other person in your life, you feel lost, defeated?
I have a good CapMan friend and of late, he's been really gloomy and I can't get a feel for it. Without feeling the vibrations of his mood, I can't wrap my head around what's wrong.
There's something missing. He has a wife, children, his own business, tons of friends .... but, something is out of sync and he has plummeted really low. If I ask him he is cheery and positive about his family/life .. and yet, his mood is really bummed-out if left alone. It's really disturbing me, and I don't know what to do.
So, I figured ok, he doesn't want to share with me .. that's fine .. it doesn't matter who he shares this with, so long as he has somebody to pull him through. But, I see him with his mates, and others .. and he's the same. Nobody is reaching him.
If I could fully understand why the gloom of Cappy's natural state, then maybe I could find a way to lift him up and be happy again.
He's a Red Moon in Mayan astrology, which boils down to .... very accommodating/goes with the flow/cherishes harmony .... so, maybe since his Red Moon nature of tyring to live harmoniously with the flow of life, while being a Capricorn who is very success oriented and monetarily conscientious .. as those two are coupled with an economy that's completely fucked up, makes him at odds with himself?
why you get so down not sure this can be helped - it is Saturn effect Astrologically Saturn is associated with the principles of limitation, restrictions, boundaries, practicality and reality, crystallizing and structures. Saturn governs ambition, career, authority and hierarchy, and conforming social structures. It concerns a person's sense of duty, discipline and responsibility, and their physical and emotional endurance during hardships. Saturn is also considered to represent the part of a person concerned with long-term planning. The Return of Saturn is said to mark significant events in each person's life. According to the first-century poet Manilius, Saturn is sad, morose, and cold and is the greater malefic. It governed the melancholic humour.
In real life, the Cappies I know want to be carefree, they really do but it just isn't natural - if they do after a while they go back to planning, organizing, making excuses for relaxing like it is something bad...saying relax or move on or let go just makes it worse...they think so much of the weight of the world is on their shoulders to keep structures, to have structure, to show structure --- as well as success 🙂
nothing resembles bliss i'm afraid this again I noticed with Cappies - appearances matter, there's pride...if the rest of the world can only realise how much responsibility they think they hold on their human shoulders, we will smile with them...gets better with the ones I've seen around 60years old though - they are like fire signs then...
so better if they have some more optimistic signs in their chart or around them...balances...a great deal of pessimism...
Months ago I asked you guys why you get so down. And, I want to know again. Maybe I didn't understand.
Is it a fear of failing?
Is it because emotions are so intense that they are overwhelming?
Is it because you feel misunderstood?
Well, it can be all three with me -- its not always depression really, it can be all three that you mensioned. I have a fear of failure -- not to say that I won't take it well when I do fail but it just puts me in a mood that I have to get myself out of, no one can help me.
I use to get overwhelmed by my feelings but since I talk more so it doesn't happen so often. But when I have to hold stuff in, it can drive me bananas because I want to let what I feel out but cannot.
Feeling misunderstood ... well, thats just an entirely different thread ... 🙂
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Is it a fear of failing?
Is it because emotions are so intense that they are overwhelming?
Is it because you feel misunderstood?
Do you think it's some sort of dependency? Like your feelings are dependent upon another person and without this other person in your life, you feel lost, defeated?
I have a good CapMan friend and of late, he's been really gloomy and I can't get a feel for it. Without feeling the vibrations of his mood, I can't wrap my head around what's wrong.
There's something missing. He has a wife, children, his own business, tons of friends .... but, something is out of sync and he has plummeted really low. If I ask him he is cheery and positive about his family/life .. and yet, his mood is really bummed-out if left alone. It's really disturbing me, and I don't know what to do.
So, I figured ok, he doesn't want to share with me .. that's fine .. it doesn't matter who he shares this with, so long as he has somebody to pull him through. But, I see him with his mates, and others .. and he's the same. Nobody is reaching him.
If I could fully understand why the gloom of Cappy's natural state, then maybe I could find a way to lift him up and be happy again.