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What books have you been reading— "A Man Thinkith so a Man is"> I believe that to a point it is called being Optimistic which is a good outlook from a perceptive point of view, but I think that is all a clich?. We make the best out of what life throws us that is still life, we have not the power nor the control of what happens there for I always expect the worse, it may not be the best outlook but I have learned from experience that life is not peaches. And if the best comes so be it, I will be happy.
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Fire&Ice,

I do read A LOT of books and really do enjoy doing so. I have always been a very optimistic person. NO matter what life seems to hand to me - I find the good in it. Realize it is a lesson, I learn and move on...next! I do have some very close Cappy friends and I am very much aware of the difference in how we perceive life. It's ALL good...it is just the way about us.

Funny how you say that you have learned from experiences that life is not peaches. I have learned from experiences that it can be. Again, we are back to our thoughts and how we each perceive a situation.

I know you know this...we can have 10 people in a traffic jam and each one will handle it differently...here is where the "uniqueness" of each one of us is appreciated.

Enjoy my friend!
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Its a mixed bag this month I own parts of four business and they are all in deep butter. I am selling one to an x partner who ran the business and from my point striched the laws a little two much. I have to get out because of the libility he has created. The one in P.A. may go belly up. the two in St louis are just hanging on. I did win $ 100.00 in the football pool at the tavern hooppy. so everything is hunky dorey.
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Yep...go figure...sure makes life interesting for us all though and does teach us acceptance of others and their ways. I so adore Cappies (my moon is in Cap) as they have a strength about them...they keep going...and have a wonderful sense of humor...and such hard workers...I don't know how you do it...work so hard! Kuddos to you!

I may have asked you this before and forgive me if I have but...where did you come up with Fire and Ice? I love the name...hot and cold!

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Freebird,
I read a book along time ago by Jude Deveraux it was called Fire and Ice about 2 twin sisters one completely different from and the other, one was cold and distant, the other seductive friendly and well you get the picture. It's funny when I picked that name it was just a favorite book, but one day my LIBRA friend told me I don't get you you're like Fire and Ice hot one minute and cold the next. So I guess it kind of fits my Cappy mood swings; I don't do it on purpose just happens🙂
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Fire&Ice...thanks for sharing..very interesting. So you are a Cappy sun - what is your moon sign?

Since my moon is in Cap - I too can be very distant and hold my feelings very close to my heart. I must know how the other feels about me and I must know that it is real...IF, I have any doubt, I won't open up. I will be my friendly firey self but...nah, won't just let anyone in.... This ex Aqua. friend of mine wondered quite a bit why I didn't share my feelings with him. I said, "cause I don't feel like it." As you can guess, I had my doubts about him, didn't trust him...he lied to me tooooo many times...so icks - ney - on - the - ox - ney I say!

The Cappy men that I know are the same way and I understand why...funny, they have opened their feelings to me and it is nice to share with them. Nice sharing with YOU too F&I 🙂

Hope all is well in your world!