Is Cappy boyfriend coming back?

One of his great qualities is that he is very honest and says things directly, so I am more inclined to thinking that he would have told me that this is the end for us. I suppose he needs the time to really evaluate what he is doing in his life, why he is behaving like that now and what he wants out of our relationship -its 6 years after all. It's crazy, because I saw it in his face he misses me, but he can be so proud and stubborn sometimes...like a true Cappy 🙂

I have my dignity and I would definitely not make a "sad and distressing break up scene", and as much as I know the person things are a bit different than that 🙂 He did have commitment problems, that is true.
Btw, I would not describe myself as a woman who is not living the life she wants -I am just very caring, being a cancer after all 🙂 and just really gave him all my love and support on a platter which was apparently not appreciated.
Btw, I have my career, I am currently finishing my masters degree and have not put my life on hold. My life does goes on without him, but would I prefer him to be in it, that's it 🙂. 2 months is nothing compared to 6 years of a relationship, so for me it would be quite unnatural and hasty to move on so quicky 🙂

I do not think that this is a wasted time and if this is the case that he left the relationship, well then so be it. I will accept that when I see it, but I haven't yet since I know the person after all and this is not closure. However time it takes me I will just accept the fact that I needed it - I'm not in a hurry of any sort right now. I will see how things will resolve, that's it. And when they do in any direction that is, he will find out that he does not have his control any more, because I would be the one to say yes or no to him.
And yes, dignity is definitely not that and I do not consider it being that 🙂

Once again, he does have a commitment issue and I knew that 🙂 - after all his longest relationship before that was 1 1/2 years. I had realized I was the more mature one emotionally wise. I have given other guys a try before him 🙂 Since I am from Italy, there are many cute guys around. And I have guys who want to date me currently, so I DO realize that there are other men. After all I have plently of "admireres" and can easily start a new relationship but that is not what I want at the moment. I just perceived him as the ONE for me. We will see, time will tell 🙂 You know, I have realized that sometimes men do not understand themselves very well and definitely do not know what they want - that is how things get easily messed up.
Thanks for taking the time to post btw 🙂

If you really want this guy, you really believe he's coming back and he's worth waiting on then date while you wait...date (no sex) just date to change up your energy, the longer you wait the more desperate and needy you feel inside and that energy will touch everyone around you and people will eventually not want to be around you at all, you can gain some respect for yourself by not waiting around, turn your waiting into hope...hope he comes back but if he doesn't I will be okay.

I know love can be complicated and I know your going through a very difficult time in your life but you must not wait, you just have to get out in the world, go out on a few dates, have as much fun as you possibly can and I promise you once he decides to come around you will be a whole nothat person, strong inside, still soft on the outside but strong in knowing your personal boundaries and in knowing what you will no longer put up with and be able to say it without hesitation....A capricorn has to respect you, love does not bring respect, he respects you from the way you carry yourself, in how you handle him and thus far you were handling him with kid gloves, giving him his way and nobody respects a doormat male or female...ditch the nice girl syndrome and learn how to say NO that's not good enough for me

Once a Cap considers it over, its OVER and he WONT come back.
But people are people

Good Luck 🙂

Stupid little boy. Find someone better. Capricorn men always do stupid shit like this.

Since I am from Italy, there are many cute guys around.


Hee Hee Italian men are hot. Especially the Italian Americans 😉

furryleo, I do not owe anyone any explanations for what I chose to do in my life and am not making excuses - just pointing to some facts
"...he needed some excitement not a wet rag" - funny thing to say tiki33 🙂
Btw, I was exciting and definitely not a "wet rag" or a doormat 🙂)) And even though I was 26, I was that hot girl with guys waiting around, I just chose him - and remained that girl when I was with him. You know, giving your all to someone is not always being a doormat 🙂 or at least I did not portray myself in such a way. The guy is confused and has been for years before me. He has some SERIOUS issues and I know that. And about the ring, I wasn't rushing into marriage either so I would not say I had been waiting for 6 years 🙂
And I definitely did not post in this forum to have someone tell me he is coming back - just wanted to hear some opinions - thanx for that!

furryleo, when I need straight talk, I am coming to you. Pure and direct, no malice. Very helpful and empowering.

lucia, it sounds to me that your guy could be feeling inadequate since you are more successful than he is. Caps can be like that -- especially the men. As a crab, you will hold onto something ALOT longer than most signs, so I'm not surprised at your resilience in this. I understand what you said about your not "waiting on marriage" during the six-year relationship, after all, you were only 20 at the start of it. So you were sort of "growing up" during it all. While he was already grown.

I like the way you respond, lucia, your feelings are for real, and you take no offense... but I can't help but to think, considering your last post, that you may have known all along of his insecurity about his inability to "keep" you, and perhaps used that in some way to control him. I don't know.

As a man, or moreso, a capricorn, if he has made up his mind that he is not for you, he will not be back. He may long for you for the rest of his life, but he will not return -- unless a miracle occurs...and I mean that literally. This is not a sudden move for him. He has thought about it a looonnng time. Maybe you are just seeing the signs, but he's known for quite some time. It isn't fair, his keeping this secret from you. But I think you should just remember this wonderful relationship you had with this grown man and learn all you can from it. Of course, you can still be his friend, but take it no further. No F/W/B. If you give in, and you and he have not "reconciled" in a committment like you had or better, he will be using you. His level of respect for you will greatly decrease. You don't want that. Right now, he still respects you, even though the break up appeared otherwise. Understand this, ok? It's got to be all or nothing at all. And right now, he's giving nothing at all. So neither should you.