Is It Over Part #2

Bouncing off My Previous Post "Is It Over?" She thought It was foul how I walked off without saying goodbye after the confontation and she thinks I hung up in I asked her face and disrespected her. Saturday after we briefly talked I asked her has she moved on—? She replied Yes and No! How should I take that—? She doesnt even return my calls from Sunday! Part of me says give her time, and the other part says forget her! Mind you that I am a Cap too. Do you feel she has met someone that quick in a 3 week period after we got in to it. Or can you Cap women turn feelings on and off just like that, or is it just a front. I am just trying to be a better person about the situation, but I am understanding that you really have to focus on God and yourself! Help me out Cap ladies!!!!

Personally, if I put my mind to it I can move on rather quickly but it doesn't mean I'll forget the person. It just sounds like she was hurt, and you as a Cap should know that we tend to build walls around our hearts when it comes to relationships, especially if we fear we are going to be hurt...it's not easy to break. But once the walls come down, one had better be prepared for the floodgates!

Again, remember that we are not all that expressive although we try our darndest to be...it just doesn't come naturally. So she may be expressing something to you, but feeling something else inside! On the outside, we are GROUNDED, hence earth...and on the inside we are EMOTIONAL...all water. She may need time right now, as long as she doesn't take advantage of it. In other words, don't let her mistake your kindness for weakness. Best o' luck!