@sweet&sour
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my cappi girlfriend and me are tighter now than ever before a year after we became an item. i have a cappi moon and aries everything else. You might be think that since i have alot of fire in my chart that im a tempremental guy. But im not. takes alot to get me angry or aggitated. The key for me is to be understanding of the fears and nervousness of the capricorn and be patient (wich I am). The world is not about me and I have tonns of patience and understanding of all her needs. She tells me i melt her icefront and she is able to totally relaxe and have fun when were together. I know that I will always be second to her othar goals. And that is okay. Aries/Cappi relationship has the potential to be a very very good one. But theyre far between since most aries people are too stubborn and "my way" thinking.
If you have an aries who is smart and considerate of other peoples feelings with earth influence, it's woth to get to know each other. This is the best relationship i've ever been in 🙂
How do you find out if you have a lot of fire in your chart, your moon?
Natal charts are creepy! I went to that website and my ex and I were described to the "t". THis part especially:
69 Opposition Sun - Uranus
Negative aspect: Here is an aspect that speaks against any long-term understanding. At the beginning, they will appreciate each other a lot, and will have pleasure in being together but, quite quickly, this life will become unbearable with disputes, conflicts and crying replacing love"
Sorry...I got off topic sweet and sour. But whats depressing is my "cappy potential". Our natal charts were awesome.
Well to make up for going off topic here are my 5
Homeloving
Fun-loving
Spiritual
Integrity (I figure honesty falls here)
and Confidence
natal charts and my pants, like two peas... lol
virtuous, wise, balanced, playful, devoted. dunno what sign.
1- loyal
2. Sense of humour
3. purpose/direction in life
4. Intelligent
5. Adventurous
Earth (minus virgo) & water (minus pisces and cancer)
LOL..yes cap..
Only Cap, Taurus or Scorpio..even then I am debating the Scorpio option..lol..Can't marry myself!..I think I might give Aquarius a go too..they are fun and intellectuals...Only annoying thing about them at times is the need to speak so often. I like my downtime..quite a lot..
i look for two qualities coz upon them hang all the laws 😛
i want my man to be:
1. honest
2. compassionate
if hes honest. he will be faithful and wont cheat on me and wont lie to me...and i'll be able to trust him and we will have a fun life 😛
if hes compassionate he wud again not wanna hurt me and will be kind and good to people and accept people as they are and not judge them coz no one aint perfect....
o i have met alot of compassionate people who feelfor others and dont even advertise it... you just know they care about people... but ya i know what u mean about ' advertising' and all... LOL... i guess its human nature to let the whole world know how compassionate and selfless u are...LOL....people just cant do kind deeds quitely..
branh, given all your harsh opinions of people, sometimes i wonder what the people are like that you choose to associate with.
why is compassion very pretentious??
lol. i'll bet your right, sb.
I doubt he believes in half of what he types.
lol.. i agree....
I can be compassionate to a person,but they could just as soon see it as an opportunity to take from me.
ya and sometimes people just take,take and take from ya which aint fair... they can really abuse ya...
They have selfish motives, because they are only acting compassionate to establish a sense of higher moral superiority.
LOL... ya i know some people who fit ur deff. of 'compassionate selfish people'
Communication
Loyal
Passionate
Good in Bed
sense of humor
fun to be with
loving
caring
job
his own place
own car
own money
We might actually find that rare selfless person that is hard to find in this plastic weilding society.
SB,
its almost impossible to find a 100% selfless person these days... YES i agree they do exist but are very very hard to find... people dont believe in selfless unconditional love these days... every thing is based on conditons...
Reciprocity is what people understand ' u Rub my back and i'll rub yours.. but if u aint rubbin mine... forget it... im not rubbin urs'...
sad but true 😢
hey branh0913, buon appetite
oppps i meant Bon App?tit 😛
what is so wrong with reciprocation?
nothing wrong with it...but i dunno a love relationship built on conditions is just crazy.....i mean ur always EXPECTING to get back wat u give is not really love.... i guess i just look at things differently....
I am talking about a selfless act.A person is capable of it even if they have been selfish all their lives.
OKie dokie....then i've met alot of people who've done 'selfless acts' of service 🙂 but they are still super selfish all their lives ( except that moment when they served someone)😛....
1) intelligence
2) stability
3) kindness
4) patience
5) affectionate/attentive
Probably a Virgo or Leo.
Probably a........ Leo.
ur expecting patience and stability from a leo man—? GOOD LUCK 🙂
I think it is possible. Leos are good people. They tend to have warm gentle ways.
I will probably end up with a Virgo though. I always seem to end up with Virgos. lol!
compassion is empathy. it is a feeling and the feeling isnt selfless at all... its you equating to what someone else is going through. therefore 'self' is entirely involved. that empathy and understanding invokes a desire to 'do' for someone else as well. and because both people are involed... the 'self' and the other person... its not so much about selfish or selflessness... its way more humanitarian than that. its simply unselfish... not all about 'me', but 'we'
and i think the word 'pretentious' is just a crappy way of saying compassion is very big of us.
none of you have listed confidence yet. is that not important?
Intelligent
Devoted
Caring
Passionate(knows what do to in bed)
sense of humor
out going
forgiving
down to earth
Not a scrub< lol
anyone but virgo & sagg..Lol
Thats more than 5 Juicy..tsk!
Jucy
You're asking too much as being 10 $ worth girl.
haffo please stop talking to me. I pay you no mind , so why don't you try doing the same?..
*She prob thinks she gets two gos as she is on the cusp ....
it's all the duality in my chart i can't help it..LOL
And she is a twin so five for each and then five for being on the cusp. That makes 15 really. So I don't think she has used up all her options, come to think of it.
I'll change them all tomorrow, have no fear Lol
Sense of humor, Quick-witted/Intelligent, Adventurous, Observant, Ambitious
Hmmm.... I don't know about sign-- maybe Taurus or Scorpio, or Leo, or Sag. lol
5 Qualities ... ohhh what fun 😄
Honesty -- in terms of letting me know what you're all about before things get serious. Plus, if he is really honest they the chances of "cheating" will decrease.
Down to Earth/ Subtle (please show me that you love me instead of "saying" it)
Compromising -- someone who isn't afraid of working together. I can't stand those "my way or the highway" types.
Srong-willed -- unable to be taken over by someone else. He won't run and hide but he will be able to "standup" against anything that's antagoning.
Witty -- someone I can have a conversation with ... if he were to just agree with me all the time, that would a problem.
I did't include passion an sensuality because sex should come much later when trying to establish a LTR (Long Term Relationship).
As far as signs go, I think I can find this is Earth or Fire signs.
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Noooo.. Just one, please.. 5 in 1.. 🙂
What 5 qualities your lover must have and what sign do you think that person would be?