I'm a goat-girl, and I just thought I'd comment on how I've been recently visiting alot of the different boards because I find them very helpful, very supportive, a little theraputic for some, and very informative. Everyone here seems to want to generally hear eachother out and help one another with their own advice, experiences and ideas, etc.
Now, with all that said and done... I've noticed on these Cap boards that there are a few Cap/Scorp situations, and I myself am enjoying the intense, magnetic, just-friends-but-really-lust-ship that I'm sure a lot of you other Cap girls have experienced before with a Scorpio boy, and I was just wondering for those of you who have been with one, I mean, since it's just us Caps here...
WAS IT GOOD— I mean, damn, I'm always reading about Scorpios and there is always that sexual stigma attached to them, but I'm just trying to unveil the myth here. If anybody wants to just let a sista know, WHAT'S REALLY GOIN ON, I'd love to hear from ya. Even you can Cap boys that have been with Scorpio girls, I mean let's just get this out in the open here. We're all friends right? You don't have to give me blow-by-blow details or anything, but I'm just really curious.
So, someone wnats the scoop without the juice! Well, in my experience with a Scorp male, sex is beyond good. The one I was involved with is very sexually driven. It's the enthusiasm, drive, passion, and obvious real enjoyment of sex with the person they are with that is appealing. When naked in front of a Scorp, having sex, you are truly naked in every sense of the word. So, it is an intimate encounter rather thana purely sexual one. And perhaps that is why Caps on one hand are very attracted to it, and on the other, very apprehensive. My thoughts...
NO! I don't ever want anyone to see me naked, ever. I'd just die! That doesn't have to be a prerequisite, does it? To have "beyond good" sex? I sure hope not. I'm still a virgin, so I really don't know. If that's the case, then either I need to get some good mood-lighting set up or he's just gonna have to wait a few months so I can hit the gym and get to work on these flabs...
LOL! Not to worry "Free". Men just DON'T NOTICE ANY KIND OF FLAWS! Hmmm I wonder why that is— My sis is a Scorp and let me tell ya she has not had sex w/hubby since her daughter was conceived (and she's now 13! Can we all say...WHAT A WASTE—?)
Sex is a spiritual thing IMO. It's 2 souls wanting to be with one another. If your partner wants perfection, etc. etc., I would run far away from him as possible cuz that's not WHERE IT'S AT!
I'll tell you this "Free"...you hold on to your precious gift of your virginity for as long as you are able. Save it for a man definitely worthy of YOU... both heart and soul. Anyone can have sex but very few can have understanding w/intimacy and that's what it's really about! So choose wisely and I'm sure you will!
Hmmm...snooping scorpio female here...lol. I've never been with another Scorpio male, but, there was a time when I couldn't get enough of a particular Capricorn male! The sexual dynamics between cap/scorp are remarkable. Once we were behind closed doors, we couldn't keep ourselves off of each other, and that was when were just "friends". Yeah. Cap is more intense in the bedroom than most traditional astrological sources seem to give them credit for.
I was once in a relationship with a male scorpio and gee it was good, very good. Think the main thing is they make you feel like their everything. Yes there definiately is intense feelings there which the scorpio seems to awaken in the cap. The guy I was with made me feel secure, cherished, safe, yet wanton, daring, sexy etc etc I never felt that with anyone else. A definite thumbs up from me!
Question for phoenix. You said there was an intenseness between you and a cap. My question is what other signs do scorpions feel this intenseness with. I know there is intenseness in caps and maybe when caps and scorpions get together they bring it out in each other or do scorpions feel this intenseness with every other sign as well?
As another female cap, I agree entirely and am just as curious. But I've read a few other messageboards and scorps seem to steal other signs' hearts just as easily. And the sex is reportedly fantastic! I think that cap/scorp connect in a special way, but I'm not sure that it's their sexxuality that differs in the situation, it might be ours...?
Yeah, you know, I think there is some truth in that. Because so far, no other guy has even vaguely captured my interest sexually. Now, it's like I almost can't wait another day, and I feel sexier than ever when I'm around him. Why is that? Love and Lust must probably go hand in hand with most of us. And I KNOW, well at least for me, that LOVE doesn't come easy or very often at all....
Infatuation is in a hurry, Love takes it time. Love is patient. Infatuation is blind, Love see's everything, Love see's you just as you are, with all your good sides and bad. Infatuation wants to change you. Love wants you just as you are!!! Ask yourself honestly are you seeing what you want everything just as what you could hope for, or do you think pretty close and with a little work you can make it better— If the answer is to the later, then just give it up! You don't know what it is you want. You cannot change anyone but yourself. You cannot base a relationship purely on sex. There has to be a deep level of understanding, exceptance, and above all a higher love. Susan
Hi! To answer your question, we Scorpios are "innately" intense, and so to a certain extent, we are able to feel varying levels of chemistry or intensity with every sign. However, the intensity level varies WIDELY. For instance, things between a Scorpio and a Libra are fare more likely to be feeling of friendship only, rather than "fireworks". Same thing with a Gemini or Aquarius (in most cases). But Capricorn and Scorpio seem to have this very DEEP connection (even if a relationship doesn't come out of it). And not just deep in the bedroom, either. It is a special thing between caps and scorps. It is different and unique, in my opinion and experience. There is also usually a lot of loyalty between the two, which just intensifies the depth of the union. To be honest, the only other sign with whom I have really experienced this phenomenon with, is Taurus. But a Capricorn adn a Scorpio together, is a fascinating thing.
And by the way Susan, I hope you don't think all of us Scorps are "easy" or something; we are very sexual, but we don't do it (so to speak) with a lack of feeling behind it. We're not hussies! (lol)
Doesn't matter if you or anyone else is a tramp or not. If that is the way someone wants to live their life, then thats their business. If you're not hurting anyone but yourself, then it's your life, right?!
No, I never thought of you like that. I only base my decisions about people after knowing them a while. Not on a zodiac sign. LOL 🙂
I hope all my friends in So. Oregon are safe from those fires. I know what that's like.
Thanks Heather, I appreciate the response. All of you, I mean it's all been pretty much what I've been expecting to hear so far, and I WILL heed the warnings and the advice, but ultimately, I'll just follow my head like I usually do, and keep the fantasies up there for now. Thanks again everyone, for sharing🙂
Susan...oh good, okay, I was thinking you had this impression of Scorps as hopping from bed to bed, using sex as a means to get anything we want. Hmm. Well, there are some Scorps who are like that, but I think for most of us, we are very in tune with the need to look to a higher power and higher goals/ideals.
Thank you for your concern about the fires; it is pretty awful right now over here, I am in Medford and the air is full of smoke. The ash is falling from the sky like snow! : ( Combined with the dry heat, most of us are trying to stay inside as much as possible because the air chokes you. It's bad. I am so thankful that we haven't lost our home or had to evacuate, the fire isn't close enough to Medford yet, but now they're saying that two (of the many) are going to MERGE. Jeez. I feel so bad for all those families who had to hightail it out of there. I should be glad that all I have to complain about thus far is the poor air quality. Sorry to take this off topic for a sec everyone...
I was told the fire is in Cave Junction. That is getting a little too close to home for ya, I guess noone is getting over to the coast for now are they!
I would like for you to clarify for me why you thought that I would have any reason to say or think negativily about Scorpios. I too am Scorp. and I have nothing but admirition for most people who carry the traits of the sign. Please, if I offended someone I would like to know why, so I can straighten it out!!
Oh no no no, Susan, I wasn't offended at all! Not in the least. I can only speak for myself, but nothing you said offended me. I was just wondering, curious to know if you generally felt scorps put too much emphasis on sex. Just my scorpio curiosity, digging around...being ever the investigator. lol. Didn't mean to give you the impression that what you were saying was offensive. Also, I thought you were a Libra with scorp rising! Boy do I suck, this whole time I didn't know you were a SCORP...! Sorry about that.
There are several fires blazing right now; if I remember right, one of them is either near or actually in Cave Junction, but because I don't want to give you the wrong information, go to the KTVL.com website (local news website). They have every possible shred of info about all the fires. And hey, you're right about the coast; my parents will have their wedding anniversary on the 6th of August and had to cancel their reservations over at the coast because of both road closures and the smokiness.
I am a cuspile sun sign, which is Libra/Scorpio and I have 5 planets total in water. I have Mars in Cancer and I am probably more Scorpio than most people who are born well within the assigned birthdates. That translates in to HANDLE WITH CARE! LOL
I am researching the 12 disciples and if I am not mistaken Judas was a Picses, and we know Jesus a Capricorn and Bartholemew was a Scorpio. I believe all of them were a different sign. That would be interesting, wouldn't it.
Your chart is very interesting. Yes, I can tell by your style you ave quite the Scorpio influence! That's a compliment (...I hope, lol). My grandmother who I love to death, is on the cusp of Libra/Scorpio also. I don't know about the rest of her chart though. So you have 5 planets in water, and I have 5 planets in air...you are probably right about being "more scorpio" than most whose b-day falls between the dates. Sometimes I feel more Libra than Scorpio! Then again, deep down I feel like a Scorpio. Alrighty, do you think I have taken this thread far enough off topic??! LOL. Sorry about that, to the original poster...
Take care all of you, Heather
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Now, with all that said and done...
I've noticed on these Cap boards that there are a few Cap/Scorp situations, and I myself am enjoying the intense, magnetic, just-friends-but-really-lust-ship that I'm sure a lot of you other Cap girls have experienced before with a Scorpio boy, and I was just wondering for those of you who have been with one, I mean, since it's just us Caps here...
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If anybody wants to just let a sista know, WHAT'S REALLY GOIN ON, I'd love to hear from ya. Even you can Cap boys that have been with Scorpio girls, I mean let's just get this out in the open here. We're all friends right? You don't have to give me blow-by-blow details or anything, but I'm just really curious.