Leo Boy for Cap girl...

Hi,

Ok, basically. I'm a Leo guy and I've got the biggest crush in the world on a Cap girl. Being a Leo I have VERY high standards, I rarely get crushes and have always thought the girl of my dreams was just that....only in my dreams. But I feel like this Cap girl has everything I've ever desired. We've got SO many things in common, both very creative, similar style s in fashion, music...she is just perfect. I've only just got talking to her but im being VERY careful to take baby steps here. I want to know exactly how to get her attention first, as oppose to try and get it and then fail. I actually feel like failure isn't an option here. There is no way in hell I'm messing this up, I'm determined to get close to her and I mean that in the most sincere way. I dont want to scare here away because normally I can be quite an intense person. I have done a great job at not talking to her too much, only just started really.

She is the most beautiful creature, but I've not told her this and dont intend to just yet. I notice she doesnt seem to have many guys around here, so i've been careful not to make it obvious that I like her. I feel many men would be chasing her, so i've really held back and remained quiet..

I guess I'm looking for a Cap girl to tell me exactly how to play this out. I don't care if it takes me years...I want this girl.

🙂

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Ive been with a cappy girl for 2 years..

If you are too careful, nothing really is going to happen since shes a Cap, and cappy girls are naturally cautious in important matters like romance, so you do have to show initiative and courage but at the same time not giving off the signals that youre needy and fearful. Remember this is too about you getting to know her and see if you two have enough in common, this is not only about you getting her like she was a prize. Be cool, do your thing. Ask her out for coffee or something, first date shouldnt be anything heavy.

Good advice.

I do think we've got loads in common...more than I've ever had with anyone. I'm trying to be very cool and confident...and I genuinely just want to be her friend. I feel like we could be best friends, just going by our interests and sense of humor.

I really do hope she opens up a bit...but im going to take baby steps and make sure I dont force the issue or seem like im too interested.

I'll take as long as it takes. 🙂