Im married to a Cap, but I like Leos lol.

Hey all, I am married to a Cap sun / Aries moon. I met my husband because of my ex, who I never met except online, a Leo sun /Scorpio moon guy.

Me and my husband are soooooooooo opposite, we clash, don't understand each other, and even our mail doesn't reach other other, we have disconnected calls etc...

While, I randomly run into the Leo online. And we get a long sooooooo well.

Lol, it's bad.

But can a Leo consider a casual relationship with a Gem 😉 😛

P.S. I am a Gemini sun / Pisces moon ... I think I match with Leo/Scorpio by far better than my hubby Cap/Aries (ew) 😢

you've never met the leo and he's your ex?

Ok, so me and this leo chatted online for over a year in '50-'06 and called each other, exchanged pics etc..
then time came for me to meet him, and i needed assistance with something, so this cappy (husband now) was going to assist me because i had to travel far, but in the end leo couldn't make it to come down and meet me, so instead i met my husband - cap.

sorry, makes no sense. err.. how i wish i met the leo instead - who i had internet romance with, haha.

so now we just chat online, because this happened 4 years ago and all parties got over it.

I don't get it. If you and your Cap constantly clash and don't understand eachother then maybe you should call the whole deal off? I mean you're not chained to eachother, are you? What keeps you together anyway? You like misery or something?

Anyway, problem easyliy solved...don't you think? 😄

enfant_terrible, if you can make divorce sound easy, maybe you could be my life coach!

(1) Sit down and talk things through; agree to divorce
(2) Sign the papers

Let me guess, you're from USA? You people always have to make a mess out of everything, don't you 😉 Well, I guess then she should endure because hey, getting a divorce is difficult. Just like back in the 19th century.

actually, she should endure because ended a marriage shouldn't be as simple as throwing out stale gum.

the problem is that people default to a divorce too quickly. i'm unhappy...DIVORCE! when you get married, you go into it knowing that there will be times when you will love and times when you will hate. sometimes you hate what you've become. at other times you heat the bastard in the bed next to you. such is life. you do your best to work through the bad times because getting through that fire makes the good times all the better.

anyhoo, this is a stupid thread anyway. she's never met the guy. he could be a woman for all she knows. that or 600bs 😛

What does... "you people" in USA mean?

What, people don't divorce elsewhere?

Posted by GoldenRose5
What does... "you people" in USA mean?

What, people don't divorce elsewhere?

I don't think that's what he meant as much as we in the US have tendency's to just "dispose" anything that doesn't suit us anymore without a care in the world, including our relationships / marriages.

Divorce sucks.

man a real fruit cake

you have the tug of unfinished business with this leo, you should have gone all the way in 2006 and met him, by hook or crook.. so that it finished one way or other.

Now get a grip, your problem is disharmony with husband, this leo fascination is just a trick of your mind. He aint worth it.

gemini sun/ pisces moon ... check out if you have sun-moon square (same for your hub cap sun/ aries moon)

I have a sun-moon square (scorpio sun-leo moon), it causes havoc ; what you want and what you need are totally different.

N.N. I did follow through, Leo is the one who said he couldn't come and started making excuses. So I am still wondering about him...

Anyways, I still this this LEO is not important at all, right now, Your problem is your relationship with your Cap Husband and you need to focus on that. Your mind is picking distractions like this old leo flame (who even was not good when he could have been), why: because you might be afraid of the Enormous task it is to get a divorce,, or because you Dont know IF you want to Continue or Not with your Marriage.

in my opinion, you need to find out.. what do you want regarding your marriage? (the rest is crap, a fagment of imagination or illusiion)

correction.

* I still think this ...

N.N. you're right, but I am so indecisive... 😢

There is no Pressure to a Decision, Mutable always take ages to decide. (your sun and moon both in double sign which are naturally at square to eachother, your heart and mind do not march to single tune.. )

Try to find out more about you, what you like, what are your values, what is your passion, what do you want to do, what do you want from this time-bound human form existance?

try out all the things that you have wanted but never did. LEARN ABOUT YOU.

it is going to sound gibberish or what.. but when you are in the process of Knowing YOU, you will find people who will assist you, they will come to you all on their own, another kind of gravitational Law.

if you find that this Marriage and what it gives or can give is not what you want, then have a heart to seperate properly, TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for your life, finances, happiness, growth. Another sign of Mutable energy is their FAITH that someone or something will soon arise and everything will be fine, it is very positive outlook which normally does get True. Usually but not ALways.

Lesson of the Mutable is to develop enough Focus to make a Resolute Decision (cardinal quality) and Stick to it (fixed), when the time to decide is there.