Leo/Cap relationship has my head spinning

My Cap and I have been long distance dating since August of last year..It started off very complimentary and flirty..Now, it's like we're really great pals. Whenever I say something remotely sweet or sexual, he changes the subject, yet, he texts me all day..maybe 60 texts a day all day long until bedtime..always says goodnight and calls me by my sweet nickname..When I called him infuriating, he said he didn't understand why.. I'm not pressuring him to say anything like those three little words or anything, I would just really like to know where I stand with him..I don't understand him at all..Does he do it because we are long distance and there's no point of getting riled up, when our next meeting is many weeks away? Or does he not have those feelings for me anymore? He is the least sexual man I've ever met. I asked him before if he was sexually attracted to me, and he seemed really shocked by the question and said "Of course and why would I ask him that?" I'm a Leo and he has me questioning (in my own head) what is going on? I can't figure out how he feels about me, but don't want to push him..I know Caps are slow movers and he got hurt by his ex wife pretty good. They have been divorced almost five years..dated one girl since then..and then me..I sometimes feel like he doesn't know how to act with a woman.When we spent a week together, we were best buddies all day, cuddled at night watching tv, and then right before bed he would make his move. I was expecting sex,sex,sex.He compliments me with things like "You're the most levelheaded person I know". Huh? Only once in all these months has he ever said " My God, you're beautiful". I almost fell over in shock!.Are these issues just the differences between Caps and Leos? Or does he have "issues".Somebody help me before my head spins so much it falls off.

I have to give in my share here but will come back later....BTW i am cap with a leo.

I am with a leo guy and for most part of it , it has been a long distance relationship. Well don't know about your cap but in my case sex is not in my mind 24-7. Not that i am not attracted to him ..i very much am but i don't talk about things. Things are very different when we are together though. I feel help less when i am not able to meet him but i don't want to meet him so that i could jump into bed with him. What dominates my thoughts are my feelings for him and how i feel n connect with him either on phone or personally. He is more of a physical person than i am, although i dont say he doesnt feel deeply for me. I have never been so sure about anyones feelings for me but his.

Forget about telling him how attractive i find him, it was even difficult for me to respond back to his i love you/s during initial days. I never use to say anything in response, then later came days when i got comfortable with it . I remember when i told him for the first time myself(with out him saying anything) that i love him. I didn't know my saying that would be a shock to him but it was. He said that he was happy i said it with out just responding back to his i love yous. Later it became a joke between us and we started saying I Hate you to each other ....but we both know what that implies.

Capricorns men are crazy because they are so dam unpredictable. I'm a Leo woman and was seeing a Capricorn man that lives out of town also. They will have you pulling out your hair trying to figure out if they like you. You can feel that they love you and you won't ever be sure. They seem to no show emotions very well. They are intelligent people and excellent in bed. I tend to think they don't like being hurt. I'm pretty and the only time he said he was attractive to me was when I 1st starting talking to him. After he seen how secure I was about my looks he never compliment me. They are protected of their feelings. I don't even try to figure them out no more. We still talk and see each other periodically but we were only friends with benefits. Maybe they are different with a girlfriend but I doubt it. Since they are patient I wonder if they will ever make a FWB into a girlfriend.

I always seem to end up in disastrous relationships with leos. It's like communicating with a different planet (which I suppose is accurate!). But there seems to be a fatal attraction between the two signs, lots of chemistry and spark. But none of the easygoing tenderness and gentle affection us cappies need (well this one does!)

I am a leo woman I used to dated a cappy. They are good for leo woman. He let me be me and kept me grounded. I only hated that he was always complaining .

We are still good friends. We call ach other once a week just to catch up...

GO FOR IT! Bella same with me. I am actually thinking of breaking up with my Virgo and going back to Cappy. Cappies are actually VERY sweet. They do show emotions, they are just not always up your butt. They are driven, ridiculously funny, REALLY HOT, and usually have LOTS of money (even if they dont earn it...mostly because they save). They put you through LOADS of bull butter in a relationship because they are pessimistic and Leo is optimistic, but it is VERY VERY VERY worth it. Oh....downside...they cheat. lol

BTW Tiki LMAO.... when he asked why you would ask that, it was Cappy humor. They are not shocked, and they are not really asking you anything, they are being sarcastic....probably because you are beautiful, he would not even talk to you if you were not, he thinks it is a dumb question and he is mocking you. Sorry for laughing but this brings back memories!