Ahhh so you guys were all right. Toxic relationship. Got deaded and to no avail can get even a friendship. I try to help him out and he disses me to the fullest. Point black he hates me. It was co-dependent, I'm not going to lie. But I got seriously burnt. I really loved him...and still do. But he won't talk to me for butter. I have hit rock bottom. It's sucks that someone you love can't appreciate the love you shower on them. It's difficult to move on, especially since all my exes are friends with me and have no beef with me. He seems to be the only one filled with rage and hatred towards me. Oy Vey! Wish this situation was fixable.
affectionate but also because sometimes I feel that scorps feel alone in this world of theirs. Leos give them lots of attention...LOTS and make them feel loved. Leos love scorps because I guess behind all that scorp mystery Leos can see how loving, intelligent, determined, and affectionate a scorp can be when they open up. When both Leo and Scorp open up to each other...sooner or later they'll realize that they are more alike than they had previously had thought. :-)
Everyone hit's it in the nail! :-) Although there are issues with dominance, I'm not sure the communication issue has to do with dominance itself. It actually might have to do a little with the ego. At least in my experience, it's like Leoliza said, in the Leo mind it's about being considerate. Of course, if we need to communicate something that we feel is important - it will be said. However if there is an argument and one feels that their feelings may be hurtful, or if not, it is not the right time to reveal ones feelings, or pride gets in the way and one would not like their feelings to be taken lightly then there goes the silent treatment. I also find (and I see this in other leos too - ESPECIALLY with Scorps) that Leos like to have some mystery or aloofness. From my perspective, Leos don't want to be judge and thus don't divulge a lot of information. I also have a personal problem describing or communicating feelings in depth - not sure if that is a leo problem. And maybe it is the Ego. Sure one could write a love song, sure one could write a poem, sure one could attempt to communicate certain things that bother, however when there is an argument I find a Leo's strong ego with either claw the butter out of a person (if taken to the edge), but if it's a person the Leo loves and cares about they will try their best to bite their tongue. It's because Leos see the world around them and notice the hurtful things people say and their consequences, or notice the leaps (deep profession of love) and notice the consequences. And yes, it takes a while for them to open up and say that they care or love you and at the same time it doesn't. I know...confusing. My take on it is we love everybody (even if we can't stand them - because we know they are only human) and it's then difficult for others to tell how we truly feel about certain people. As a result, since we love everyone and we are used to treating people the same way, we have a problem (maybe ego problem) articulating how we actually feel with certain people. We like to give, we don't like things getting taken from us (even if it's our thoughts). Everyone is on a pedestal with us at sometime or another and the thought that one person could rein over the others in our world is not only scary but may hurt our pride.
But I guess we should learn that sometimes reaching out to someone who wants to hear us out...is actually a good thing.
Sometimes I feel scorps love us, not only because we are genuine and a
Hey lovlies! I am back. And I have good news. Things have been going great with Scorp and we are over a year strong.
However I think I cracked the case.
Scorps always want to be in your mind, they want to know your soul.
During arguments I realize he's always saying "I want to know how you feel. Tell me what's on your mind/ or /tell me what's wrong."
The problem between Scorps and Leos (when they aren't adoring each other to death)
I would respond "Nothing"
and he would say "How can we last as a couple if you don't tell me what's on your mind?"
You guys are probably sick of this but I was listening to old Katy Perry songs (and heard her tribute to Travis with "Mannequin"
and it was basically about how he wouldn't open up to her. How she "wish[ed] she could just turn him on switch a battery and make him talk"..."how he could feel that her love is real".
But sometimes although we think that our good nature, affection, acts, or even words may give some reassurance to our partners...during the good times... that we must learn to communicate the same during the BAD TIMES as well. And not just pridefully "shut off".
Well That's all I have to say!
Will be seeing scrop today. We are like a married couple seeing each other at least 3 days out of the week. His roommate even called to ask if I was with him and was shocked I was at home doing work. ::blushes::
All is well! Hope that all is well with you all! Missed you. XoXoXo
welll pppppppppppppppppppppppfffffttt I guess y'all are getting affected by the retrograde and not me, girls ::flips hair::, ::snaps fingers: Only exes professing love are the same exes that I've been avoiding for the past year. Blah. This very hot Indian guy asked me for my number when I was walking home from work....I wish I had time to date....:::mind wanders::: By the way Riggie and Sheathie you are both very pretty women...no wonder you've got police involved...-_- ENNNNVVVYYYYY. lol Quee jodddeerrr!! >_
sheath & R1g0r; Sags ::facepalm:: for some reason can't stand em (men that is). maybe it's a trend. I was really good friends with one that was "madly" inlove with me...and like 5 other of my friends. All of a sudden his ex (baby's mother) is calling me at 1 in the morning yelling and accusing me of sleeping with him. It was amusing. Should have been there to see the O_o ? huh? wtf look on my face.
Weird observation; I've noticed, at least with the Sags I know, that they're in love with everyone.
@libnocole 84; Libra & Cancer, ouch, I heard that's a butt of the heads there, but there's a lot of attraction too.
((if you see anything negative *hint sag men* don't mind me, I tend to dislike most signs when it comes to men. lol)
sheathedclaws; Actually, I wish that were the case. When in school, the rumor was there "weren't any jobs" available, R1g0rM0rT1s is right....lawyers are usually markers because they are on the side of whoever pays their fees.
I'd LOVE to work in the UK, I'm actually trying to get transferred either there or to Holland.
In the United States Court system, rumors were somewhat right..."there aren't any jobs"...but what they meant was "there aren't any high paying corporate jobs". The unfortunate truth is that there are millions of people who go unrepresented by lawyers.
Why is this the case?
Because they can't afford lawyers.
But by law, the court is required to provide you with a public defender you might add...
This is true. But there is actually a demand for public defenders, and the sad truth is that a public interest lawyer (or possibly private practice attorney) is the ONLY type of attorney that must connect with their client and has the opportunity to advocate for their client.
However due to the lack of public interest lawyers in the U.S., they are overworked and given a huge caseload that tends to desensitize their need to empathize or effectively advocate for the client.
Most often public interest lawyers try to "get the case over with" and go the easy "plea bargain" route than actually trying to prove a client's innocence (in the matter of defense).
This is why you may so often find very bogus court cases decided in extremely bogus ways;
An example of a friend's client;
14 years old.
Family ran out of foodstamps and didn't qualify for an increase.
She stole a bag of chips.
She never committed any previous crimes.
Normally a court would issue her with an ACD or a Conditional Acquittal, where a person would be on a short probationary period and thereafter the charges will be lifted from them (like it never happened at all).
However, the justice system especially in New York is doing away with ACD's.
In part because my friend ( amongst the many public interest lawyers) was too busy to convince the judge that this girl was in high school, and isn't the legal age to work, there was no food in the household, and she had no prior record.
The girl got 50 hours of community service, a fine, written apology and a violation.
And Yes, R1g0rM0rT1s, the next woman to prance into an open court late with her L. Vuitton bag, 14k jewelry, and Bionda Castana shoes, was without contempt, + found innocent