When I met my first cappy, it felt like it was almost like magnet...could not leave the place (I?ve gone to enough dates to know the difference). By the time I saw him the second time, there was strong attraction...butterfly flipping and all that for the first couple weeks. I couldn?t think (my brain was dead) for a while because it was that shocking... my friend says it is great to have chemistry but a relationship cannot be built based just on that - I agree. But without it I don't believe the sexual part of it can be that healthy....I am pondering, was that just lust? Or more than that?
