Healthy Cap

He is my third cap guy that I've ever dated (the second one is gone)...he seems most healthy in terms of his emotional state. He's been emailing me pretty much everyday (a few times some days)...short notes but sweet. It is kind of interesting to see both cappies I am seeing🙂

His moon & mars is Aqua, and venus in Sag. I'm more relaxed to see this one since I need time and space right now to recover bit from my first cap (which is up in the air right now). So I am completely OK with him keeping his space and taking his time.

Thanks, AM. My newest cap's moon is aqua and the first one (that I am most attracted to) is libra.

With my newest cap, at this point, I am appreciative that he needs space since I need plenty myself. We were going to meet yesterday but weather did not corporate so he suggested today, but I am meeting Scorpio pilot tonight - he is flying in just to see me...kind of romantic🙂. Will see what happens.

It is funny - it seems that regardless the emotional state, the cappy guys take time to warm up, it seems. Is this true? My newest cap who seems to be interested in me (email me every day several times) - I let him know that I cannot see him this week nights - he stays totally calm, we will find time eventually...the Taurus guy I am seeing, totally opposite. He tells me directly he wants to see me soon, etc... My ex that I was with for 8 years is Taurus, he was much for expressive and attentive...cappy guys are opposite. I am finding it so interesting...Does cappy guys ever show their emotions like "I am excited to see you" kind of things?

Seeing this cappy, my first cappy was pretty forwarding for being where he is at in his emotional state?

Thanks for sharing, AM.

I haven't heard from my first cap for a week now - I told him that the ball is in his hand (meaning he has to call me - I am not calling him)...last time I heard from him, he mentioned that he is dealing with a lot of stuff; he said more drama and business issues. So I am letting him take his time.

Good to know cap can cuddle😉 because I love cuddling.

Yeah, another interesting stuff...I am getting closer to this female cap friend of mine I know for several years now. We took a trip together over the holiday weekend and am getting to know her more. She is kind of similar to my first cap in a way that they are both only child (no siblings) and the same blood type (did you know blood types have some effect in our personalities?). The family background is different though. But I get some insights on how my cap processes and go about things by knowing more about her.

So what did she say peach? I only know my cap best girlfriend, but she's also kind of bitter about relationships

Well, she is super cautious. She doesn?t let you be close to you right away ? she has same kind of barrier around her ? the similar kind my first cap has. She talks and shares more when I share my stuff more with her ? they seem to have similar type of security or pride thing going on. What else?they both have pretty sharp tongue at times. Can be quite harsh to those who irritate them. She thinks overall ? does not seem to look at just one thing to make a decision. Just things I observe her makes me think that they probably process things in similar manner?.

Oh, she says she wants an amazing man. Sounds like whatever how long ever it takes type of attitude for things.

Update on my third cap?he sounded like he was asking me out last night (Friday) in his email, right? (gosh it was unclear but I think he was) ? I had to stay work late and go home do some more work on other responsibility stuff so later at night I just emailed him saying ?Hey you can call me on my cell phone? And I also said I was going to go out for dancing with my girlfriends but did not happen so I implied that maybe a nice German guy will take me out for dancing or nice live music one of those nights?😉 Then he called me this morning inviting me for a breakfast😉 I guess they take a little bit of push?

My first cap was more forwarding?he was good in terms of asking me out until I freaked him out being serious too fast (I guess?). I haven?t heard from him about a week now?I am seriously thinking to move on for now, and will see where he is at in three months. Meanwhile, I am going to have some fun.

I am finding if a cappy man has a healthy mind and were into you, he contacts *you* - my third cappy is proving that they can do it....he's been very consistent (and timely) on calling and emailing me.

And I just have gotten a call from Scorpio...I just talked to him last night...you know, if a guy is into you he calls, period. No?

I have to make a note on this - which may be one of the reasons why my first cappy is not calling - I resigned myself to be his friend (since I did not want to be the part of his rebound process😢)...so he did not want a friend...I guess!

I dont think I have a healthy cap 😢 today is a killer cant stop thinking about him. Just want to call but I cant I have to have "self control", patience and all that yucky stuff. lol

peachcow~
what is your first and last caps moon, rising, venus? I want to see who mine is more like...lol

The first cap has Libra moon, Aqua venus, (don't know his rising - possbly Virgo but not sure)

The third one has Aqua moon, Sag venus, again don't know his rising

Stay away from unhealthy cappies!!!! Sorry my emotion is running bit high today. LOL!

i think everyones emotions are runnning high today!! LOL

nope they are not close at all i dont think

Hi ladies...I know it's so hard to deal with the unhealthy one's GEG. I've got one too. Just let him do his thing and don't bug him. It's his loss remember and if he hasn't called then he's not worth it. REMEMBER THAT. 🙂 Just take a breather. Go out with your friends or go out with some other guys to make yourself clear-headed. The moon just went into Libra around 4 today, but it's squaring off with Mars, which means that we're in very egotistical and fight oriented moods. Don't let it get the best of you. It will only get worse because next week we go into Mercury retrograde. Just be careful with actions and with thoughts. Hugs. It's taking a whole hell of a lot of energy for me to NOT think about my cap, but I'm doing it. I know you can.

Things will get easier, girls. Hang in there.

Update on my third cappy...it feels like it takes forever to get to know him intimately...he is being very consistent on contacting me but it is like old high school time....it is great for making friends. Well it is working for me as I need to take anything slow right now....I am finding Cappy guys takes time to get to know you...is it true? Sometimes I wonder if he has a romantic interest in me since it is so casual....he is a nice guy though

I feel you peach. Mine did that. He was so watchful of me without me even knowing. I wouldn't have known he was interested at all unless he said something because you can't tell with them. They hold back so much. He would tell me after a long time once he got me alone how much he was thinking about me and just wanted to hold me and blah blah blah. But then I'm like...why don't you call then? His answer...I don't know. Come on guys! What's the deal?

gemgem~ we girls want a bit more assertiveness from boys, huh? But maybe that's why they are elusive. My first cap was very forwarding now by seeing this third one. He made things clear in terms of his romantic interest in me with his words and actions. He also made clear that he doesn't date for dating sake...gosh I want to call him sooo bad...maybe one phone call is OK after almost a month not talking to him? I don't know!

But has he tried to contact you in any way at all? Ask yourself that. I know that guys are generally starting to like the girls coming to them. Atleast this is what I've noticed, but you have to have a little pride. Pride can be healthy at times. 🙂

Yeah, gemgem I know. I can be too easy going at times...after all I did not call him today! I had such a nice time with my third cap (healthy one!). I am starting to like him more - he is fun to be with and knows how to have fun. I am comfortable being with him - more then my first cap...although the chemistry is so much stronger with the first. But with the third one, it feels like we are building something - something unspoken but nice & cozy. OH GUESS WHAT? My ex cancer was there when my third cap and I were taking a walk in the beach (I pretty much ignored him but I know he noticed me...I was acting cool outside but inside OH MY GOD! I was freaking out) Yes he is the one drove me nuts last year when we were dating...the timing is sooo funny! I was thinking I may encounter my first cappy somewhere sometime in town.

Oh, I switched tomorrow night's date with Gemini to Scorpio...since Scorpio is flying in just to see me🙂 and got to give him fair chance before I get too close to the third cap...well it may not be something to worry since the cap is talking his sweeeet time - he still shake hands when we say good night at the end of nice date like that! He keeps asking me out so I think he likes me! Anyhow, I am good with his pace sine it gives me enough time to date around and get over with my first cappy....