Miriam

hi

i kinda figured you were feeling lonely from that one post.

Too sweet Tiamat!!! Lonely? mmmmm....maybe a little:-) That's what makes this board so great..friends like you who show they care. Thanks!!!

Awwww...I'm sorry you're lonely Miriam. That sucks. I'm lonely mentally right now. I need cuddle time and I thought it would pass, but it hasn't. haha.

I have a question for you though Miriam. Would you be attracted to a person who is always around and that you can use and have sex with whenever you want or someone who is your friend and doesn't come around as often, but it there for you when you need them? Just curious. Me personally I get more turned on when someone isn't throwing themselves at me. I just wanted an answer for peace of mind. I didn't know if caps thought the same as I do about that. I just find that the more balanced person in my life who has confidence and isn't too clingy is the one that I go for.

Anytime,and your welcome.

GEM**

I think that "or someone who is your friend and doesn't come around as often, but it there for you when you need them?"

I think they "he" would have more respect for someone (you) that respects themselves. lol!! 😉

Im having a rough day today....I so want to call, its been 23 days 😢 ! I have my good days and my bad days. I need some cuddle time too!!

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((Hug)) Not as good as cuddles, but hopefully it will suffice!

Cancerlady

ahhhh thank you soooo much CL/C-mama !

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i know how you feel girl been there twice!!

Im o.k. but just a little lonley!!

LOL. I love those little faces. Thanks Cancerlady. I do need some hugs. ((((Hugs))) back. 🙂

gemem ((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))) there hows that

Yeah for me!!! The more hugs the better! LOL. Thanks GEG. We're such a huggy group. haha.

Someone who'll throw themselves at you?! NAaaaaaaaaaaa.....Cappies love a bit of a challenge. It drives you crazy and makes you feel more attractive when you can't figure out why their not throwing themselves at you!!!!!LOL!!!

That's what I thought!!! LOL! Thanks Miriam. That's exactly what I did when I went over there. It was like I had never messed around with them. haha. And then I left and said i had somewhere to be. He hopped up so quick to hug me it was hilarious.

That's what I thought!!! LOL! Thanks Miriam. That's exactly what I did when I went over there. It was like I had never messed around with them. haha. And then I left and said i had somewhere to be. He hopped up so quick to hug me it was hilarious.

Hilarious for you...but it'll be driving the cappy nuts......like ambulance alarms going off in a cappies brain all at once

Lol!!!

SOOOOOO......would it be safe to say that me staying away from Brian and not calling him is sending out those same alarms? Do think he has even noticed that he has not herd from me in (24) days? (im still dieing) lol!

Awesome Miriam. haha. I was wondering the whole time what he was thinking. My friend said that he was probably thinking, "is there something wrong with me? how can she just turn it off that quick?" haha. The sad truth is...I haven't turned it off. I'm just really trying to act like it. I like him a so much still and it's hard for me not to want to jump on him.

GEG ~ just don't! He did something far and beyond dumb. I mean sleeping with a cousin's girlfriend. Not cool.

Gemgem,

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"is there something wrong with me? how can she just turn it off that quick?"
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I bet this is exactly what he was thinking. I think this is men in general regardless of their signs. When I was with my aquarius for years and years and years he would pull his sh!t and act like he needed space, take off w/o so much as a warning, a phone, yada, yada, yada. When I finally learned to give that f@#ker space his a $ $ was ALWAYS right there. Men are like women in that when we want something we want it but the difference is that men have bigger egos than women so for us to turn it around on them it just kills them. I could be wrong but I learned this the hard way and in all honesty if I think back to each and every time I gave that man space I swear to you he would be right there no longer needing his space.

Greeneyedgemini~~

I"m so sorry your going through this with Brian! Hang in there but whatever you do don't call. I can honestly say when I don't call the cappy I'm interested in or even reply to his e-mails he calls and wants to know where I was, etc. I know its been a while but be strong, you can do it, yes you can-lol!

Thanks Besos...yeah his little signals are so hard to read and I wonder if it's that scorpio rising. I once talked to my friend who is a scorpio and he said that he's passed up so many opportunities because he didn't do what he should've done. He just gives up. Isn't that a pussy move? Guys are so bad sometimes.

thank you besos~ Im staying strong!! lol sounds like I am coming off some drug or something!! lol hey at least its just Brian HUh!! lol
well Ladies and Gents I have a tone of sh!t to get done at the office and I need to get this man off my brain so im going to step out for a bit! But you all have a wonderful day and I will check back in at the end of the day!!

Hi everyone~ I am so tempted to call my first cap...it's been a long time - why can I pick a phone to make a call just to say hi? I know I shouldn't....

o.k. so im back I know its only been like 10 min. But DXP is so addicting!!

peachcow~ DONT YOU DARE CALL!! IF YOU CALL I WILL UNFOLD AND DO THE SAME!!!!!!!!!!!!

GEG, not I am not calling...just expressing that I am so tempted.

E~ do you think my first cap is defending himself by telling me to keep dating because maybe he sensed that I am kind of not ready to settle down? I know he is not...well, I may just have answered to my own question.

Both geg and peach...don't you call! Don't do it! It makes you look vulnerable...we don't like that do we? hehe. We want to come off confident. Now...if you should happen to run into them...different story. Then you can play the flirty game. 🙂