Hello everyone on the cappy board. I am 32 yrs.(Aries) Male from India.I found a cap girl on the matrimony site in Jan. after 2 months of conversation with each other we like each other very much . we live in different cities. we mostly talked on phone.but after 2 weeks she love to left the job and city for me.till we are not face to face. i told her every part of my life clearly. i never hide any thing from her.even i told her that this is my first time with girl, so please don left me alone. at that time she promise me and give the commitments to me.i told her about my income at the begining of the relationship. later in the may month i have a chance to meet her in her native palce. i go there and we have lunch together and i also bring gift for her and she also give the gift in return.After that i ask her what u think about me,she said you are fine, next day i went back to my palce.same day call her from the train but she did'nt pick the phone till evening. i try to call her many times. late at night she call me and told me that our relationship is not working beacause your income is not enough for both of us and after taken the advice from her boss, her colleauge and her sister.i cry whole night because of her decision.the whole night i think that where i was wrong and i told her about my money in the starting of our relationship.why she go for long if she want to breakup the relation with me. she also have some negative major problems but i never criticse her, i alway told her that we have very good understanding that what i need.i never thing that she refuse me at the point where i am dream of marriage to her.after read about cappies on the internet i appericiate her decision. i write a letter to her and feel sorrry if i did anything wrong with her.after one month she call me twice but should spaeak, but i kow that it was she who calls me and i am 100% sure for that. after i send her letter about our astrology match,later this month i did'nt send any msg nor any letter to her. I am in now in big trouble because i do'nt kow what is happening on her side or should i wait for another month for her.lastly she told me that she go against against everyone but not her mother. what i do now?
Major Crises with Cap Female Please Help Me Out

kill your self

your right I am mean lets keep an eye out for this manu if he doesn't show up again we no he offed himself.

I'm sorry to hear that things did not work out according to plan. Internet relationships are give or take, and you can't trust that they'll be as wonderful in real life as they are online. Never give yourself to someone you can't be completely sure of, and always take take time to get to know someone in person before you make any big plans with them. There ARE a lot of guidelines anyone should follow when pursuing an online relationship, one being that you should meet that person in a safe place and never wait too long to meet them. That protects your heart, in the long run, because you don't have time to become attached to the idea of a person rather than the reality.
Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so to speak. You will be fine. 🙂
Good luck!
Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so to speak. You will be fine. 🙂
Good luck!
Thanx everyone for giving me the reply......I just told her that if u want to brekup with me its ok, after this i returned your gifts which is still lying with me unopened and the money you spents on me during the launch and on my mobile recharge. Is this right for me to open her eyes and some effect on her coz she doesn't except this thing to be happen. Am i right to do this now if she reliaze that she is wrong and she taken the decision in hurry?
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