My Cap Man, I am an Aquarius...

We get along really well. My question is that most people find me to be aloof and cold, and people don't really try to appeal to me or my sensitive side. How is that my Cap man can always get me to do what he wants and that I feel like can be open with him, and show him the softer side of me that I show NO ONE? Is he just a damn good manipulator or does he just get me?

Thanks!

Him -

Sun Capricorn 9.55
Moon Virgo 18.32
Mercury Sagittarius 21.09
Venus Capricorn 4.46
Mars Leo 9.07 R
Jupiter Gemini 29.54 R
Saturn Virgo 0.10 R
Uranus Scorpio 15.18
Neptune Sagittarius 16.45
Pluto Libra 16.37
Lilith Gemini 28.08
Asc node Libra 10.36


Me -

Sun Aquarius 17.29
Moon Leo 13.10
Mercury Pisces 5.18
Venus Capricorn 26.43 R
Mars Taurus 18.56
Jupiter Aquarius 22.54
Saturn Gemini 28.12 R
Uranus Libra 27.45 R
Neptune Sagittarius 9.19
Pluto Libra 6.36 R
Lilith Capricorn 19.30
Asc node Sagittarius 27.28

WOW!!! Thank you so much Capgirl75, you described us to a T!! We always say we are so much alike but different.

Thanks again!!

Posted by capgirl75
I don't know much about charts, but, I would say that other people see you as very aloof because most people share their feelings more readily, but the Cap is possibly more aloof than you are, so he is not intimidated or confused by that. So, he gets it.

I'll give the chart thing a go:
He has Mercury in Sagittarius, so he probably talks a lot, and is maybe funny so it sets you at ease, maybe?

And, you both have Venus in Capricorn, so you understand the way into each other's hearts. You can probably count on each other to be there, and you both are likely looking for a solid, dependable mate.

He is very funny and talks a lot!!!

I am very worried about the boredom part. He bores really easily and so do I, but I am more worried about him becoming bored than myself.


"When these two earth creatures come together, they can create a safe and comfortable respite for each other, one that allows them to move at their own pace. This pair??s only challenge is that their commonality can turn into stagnation and boredom. But if they work to keep things interesting, their partnership will stay rewarding over the long-term."

I concur with SirB. The aloofness is tough to deal with. Deep down us caps are affectionate, loving people, but some signs say we are too distant (aka aloof). Aquas seem to get it, and we get theirs, logically. I think in the long term, after all the newness and lovey-dovey stuff wears off and you get down to business of daily living, I think it will be a good match with a lot of understanding of each other's need for space. A cancer, for instance, would continually feel slighted by that. I hope what I'm saying makes sense.

Also, I have read that Cap/Aqua matches are considered to be the "super couple". An aqua has good, forward thinking ideas, and the cap picks it up and runs with it and has the follow through to make it happen.

It's like the two are on the same page with money sense, economics, goals, thinking of future security, etc. The aqua wants it and the cap plans for it, but together they complement each other's strengths/weaknesses and can make it happen.