capricorn- aqua match- yes or no?

whats your opinion on capricorn- aqua matches?

i find that we both always have deep and meaningful conversations (since we are both mature and flexiable)... this person has hurt me in the past and now we are talking again as i have forgiven her. Do you think aqua has lost respect for me merely due to the fact that im accepting her betrayl and forgiving her?? her other guy is a Leo-Virgo cusp and im thinking its just better for her and me that she is with him, eventhough it breaks my heart as i feel she deserves better and im moving in another relationship as well.

she also has no idea how good of a physical lover i can be. hence, why i think she had more bias towards the leo as she knows him better as well...

Hmmm, has she expressed any recent interest in you again. Did she say anything about her feelings for you??

There have been some aqua woman and cap man relationships thats been pretty serious, but they've mostly discussed them on the cap board.
I don't really know anything about cap men romantically and how I feel about them in that regard. You should do a compatibility report to see also, because this isn't a generically great pairing.

My Aqua finds all thecapswe know (and we know quite a few) boring. And funny enough all the Male Caps in our social circle are married to Taurean Woman and they all have happy marriages. I swear Cap male and Taurus Female were made for each other. In my poker club of 4 couples we're the only non-Cap/Taurus couple.

well yeah the fact she is Aqua/libra and im cap/cancer doesnt help haha . so boring it is 😢

well she messaged me and we just met up casually recently. it was somewhat awkward as im starting a relationship.
also the Leo is preety much a slut and cheated on her with 2 women at least. i think its more my care for her as i can see she has a big heart... more then anything. i think cap man generally seem to single out aqua women for no apperent reason...

But hey...don't let the stars dictate who you should and shouldn't date! They're more fun than anything...follow your heart!
PS > I'm Leo and I don't mess around - so go figure....starsigns don't necessarily maketh the man!

do aquas like deep yet SERIOUS talk... or do they generally hate any kind of seriousness...

nah i think she might have lost respect for me because she cheate on me. then i stopped talking to her...and then she called me back and wanted to be at least friends... therefore, she might have lost respect for me- as i took her back, albeit at a friends level.

would aquas date someone who is in another relationship even for entertainment purposes ??

Well are you sure she's interested in that manner??


I think if you both are starting new relationships its just best to remain friends. If she pursues you while your in a relationship, it seems it will be more for an ego boost than anything. We generally want what we can't have and crave the attention and power we hold over people who want us. So that could be a major factor in her going out with you again, until she gets what she wants and or gets bored. I'm not saying thats what she will do, but its a possibility.

I don't know if she lost respect for you, but don;t think so as long as you remain friends. If you make her prove she's trust worthy when you both are single again, then I think she wouldn't have the feeling of loss of respect, but if you pursue her while you say your about to be in a relationship with another woman then yeah, she;ll feel like she has you wrapped around her finger and no one really truly respects people like that.

Capricorn male/Aquarius female NO the exception to that rule is he is more attracted to her than she is to him then it can work, respect she has to respect him and not be so rebellious, free loving and weird, I hear Capricorn female/Aquarius male is a better match, still struggle with this combo but I have heard many Cap women say they adore Aquarius boyfriends/husbands....It's touch and go with Cap men and Aqua females, it's either going to be a disaster day one or it's going to go for the long haul...

I may catch some flack for this but Aqua women (young Aqua women) tend to be commitment phobes, and love freedom, she will then choose inappropriate partners, the jerks, the cheaters not because she like those kind of men per say but because she has an OUT...An easy out, she can date a man with an expiration date, he fucks up and she can easily go on with her life, with her freedom...I'm thinking you were too stable for her emotionally and thus she chose the leo, the excitement over stability...Most of us out grow this unconscious behavioral habit and realize we can still have stability and have fun at the same time. If Aqua women can let herself relax and see stability if good for her and see how much she can accomplish by allowing him to balance that part of her life she will respect and give more...in this case she rejected you not because you weren't good enough it's because she KNOW she's not good enough for you, she can't do a real loving, stable relationship with a man long term.

She hasn't lost respect for you IMO, she is just BORED with you after so much time with a mentally emotionally stable man and begins to act out, to rebel, THAT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, she is not going to respect you if you kiss her ass and easily let her back into your life, tell her your in a new relationship, keep her at arms length and make her earn your friendship, she will appreciate you more and give a bit more as well. Availability is not the biggest turn on to women and even men that are seeking excitement and challenges...She is immature, that's what is holding this union apart...

Disclaimer...Not all Aqua women but a huge majority of us have this struggle with men.

Yes I have sabotaged plenty of good potential relationships. Not by cheating but by just playing too hard to get thus never being caught lol. I only go for good guys, so bad boys are not my M.O.With my venus in cap and aqua sun and environment in general I was always torn between what I wanted and needed.

I promised myself next time around I would try my hardest to just go for it and whatever happens happens. Maybe you should wait for your aqua to ba at that point in life capricorno1

If a man fight for an Aquarius female she will stay, I know for me I never take men serious that won't fight for me, if he's very non-chalant about us, let me go easily I will not respect him...If he tell me he's in for the long haul it will melt my exterior, no one else will be that important to me. It's hard for me to take men seriously that don't push to have me.

Lady M I can name how many jerks I have been with on one hand, I tend to go for the nice guys but I have found myself with a few bozo the assclowns but majority of my dating life has been decent men. I have had the same struggle as you, I used to be a passive commitment phobe myself, something I have worked terribly hard to manage and understand...now I relish in stability and longevity, not so afraid anymore because I'm older, wiser and know what I want.

Okey tiki really good advice 🙂 your a sweetheart...

I think keep her at arms length, give her space and make her EARN my friendship/ possibly more. if she contacted me after 8 months and in between when i snubbed her off...then clearly she is feeling me and what im about. i dont know i totally am not possesive or a typical control freak as many caps... must be do co-rule of Mercury on 3rd deccan capricorns or something....

Capricorno1 she know your a decent good guy, is she ready for that type of guy is the struggle for her, emotional freedom is important to us but if you don't make things easy she will figure out quite quickly if she can be with you but as long as you play the i'm here for you easy nice guy part she will not think your strong enough or respectable enough to be her man...

I don't advocate men playing games or being jerks with women, yet if you set some strong boundaries, like be her friend, never flirt with her even if she flirts with you, never make her feel you want anything more than friendship but yet always seem to be there with her/for her yet never cross boundaries, she will most likely wonder why your not hitting on her, why your not pursuing her and that's when the level of interest will come about...Don't cheat or she will not trust you even if she appear like she will...If your dating someone else stick with that...we tend to like the unobtainable but we must feel like we can win or we give up on it, grow bored and move on.

Not all Aqua females are like this...younger ones are a bit complex, we tend to mellow out as we get older.

basically go under the radar...never make her feel she can have you nor make her feel you want her...inevitably she will begin to grow curious again and want back in.

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