My caps rock!

I just realized that I have yet another cap i luv in my life, list is growing,,,mom, dad, my guy, and my dog! and believe me, he is the best dog ever!....can't get much more intimate than this. BTW.....my cap guy is going strong and everready loving good...

I couldn't be happier with my caps, we understand each other, don't play games, just tell it how it is, gently that is, and give each other the affection we crave. (Only trouble is my guy and me r spending a lot of time tossing the covers, ooooh he's hot!!....Tee, hee, hee)

PS, He's calling me "honey" ! I see stars when he sais that ********, come here big boy, there is more where that came from 🙂

So I say, just tell it how it is, let the truth lay where it falls, if it doesn't fall on fertile ground, seek someone who appreciates who u r, if you still can't find it, look at hoo u r and ask, can I learn to be a better person or do I wanna be a lone...

I never wanna stop trying to be a better stronger person and I want my partner to be happy and find satisfaction in "us" not demand that he change to suit fickle ideas. He may not be ready to say "it", but everything he sais and does, cleary states it. So should I get hung up on "it"?

What is ur take?

when is your birthday stardance?

Lol @ Stardance..you sound like the cat who got the cream!..

LOL mm...it sure feels like i found a pale full!

pato.... it is Jul 9, why do u ask?

Carry on doing what your doing..its obviously working..

No!!! Dont get hung up on the "I love you" thing. Actions speak louder than words. If he says it once then be happy and run with it. Besides, think of all the men who've said I love you and rolled out or turned out to be complete jerks! Good job on your relationship I wish you all the best 🙂

I agree with you two....I will gleefully carry on enjoying him as he is. 🙂

I'm a cap (jan 4) my b'frnd of 13 yrs is a cancer (jul 4). very rocky road, but long lasting through all kinds of crap. not very many "hot" moments these past years, but stable. plenty of arguements, lots of forgiveness and acceptance. but i still feel like there is something better for me out there. i could be wrong. good luck to you.

Hi Pato,

I'm sorry things aren't as good as they should be for you. I can hear the sadness in your words. I hope things get better or you find someone who you really work well with, compatability is very important.

For me, we are really just starting to get to know each other, even after knowing each other for about a year and dating for about 6 months. It may not work out for us, but I want to give it the best chance by believing it can work and waiting to be proven wrong.

Wishing you happiness

Pato: Hey I'm a cap girl too (born in december🙂 My former love interet was a cancer male (born in June). By my own doing we are just friends now because he has to grow up alittle and learn how to control his moody swings. Lol, honestly I feel that there is something better for me as well ... not unless it's just "meant for us to be together". lol yeah I'll believe that one when see pigs flying with golden wings 🙂 However, if it is written in the stars, I'm sure we will find commongorund one day ... whether or not I give him a chance is if to me. After being together for 13 years, has marriage ever been brought up or are you just have with the union you both share ...

Stardance: Awesome, I'm glad that you are finding happiness with your cappy guy. Caps can be some of the hardiest people to figure out and if he has opened up to yo already ... that's a wonderful sign!!! yay!!! It's takes me along time to up to someone I don't feel confortable with but if I really like/adore/love you to pieces, I can bear my soul. I wish you the best!

Thanks cappysweetie. He really is the best, leaves me wanting for nothing more, nothing less than him. He seems to be opening up more and more everyday and calling me more frequently and faithfully. He is statting to give me the gift of his loyalty and emotional support. He calls me cutie and honey and tells me I have a cute little butt.....(blushing...specially because I don't particularly agree) When we are together I feel in his center and when we are apart I know he's just as focused on what is before him, so I just wait for him to come ready to spoil me some more. The wait is delicious too.

I never thought it could be this good, he really snuck up on me. His bedside manner is absolutely divine and insatiable. All I want, how I want, when I want, but never pressured to put out. Really, I could enjoy the rest of time with him.

🙂

we had agreed that marriage wasn't all that important. love should not be limited by a piece of paper. then it feels like a prison, not a choice. we have chosen to stay together all these years. only lately has it felt that we're going in different directions. time will tell if we will choose to remain together or not. he will always be my best friend, no matter what.