My Capricorn B/F. I'm getting so tired.

He never makes en effort to call me. He's maybe called me like 3 times out of a whole month. I talked to him about it and he was like "If I don't call you, tough, deal with it." And we have a daughter together and he thinks im just with him for her but I can't count how many times i have told him i want to work this out between because I really really want to be with him and yes, my daughter is also part of the equation but not the only reason. I'm seriously thinking about breaking it off because I'm getting tired of him. 2 years and I finally get with him and this is what I get. What should I do?

Well that's a tough call. You should do whatever you feel is right, depending on what u can put up with. But if you have read all the posts others have put about caps (if you haven't, I suggest you do), then u will realize that him not calling you and being distance is a trait of these men. Just as I said, it all boils down to whether or not you are willing to put up with his behavior and if he's worth it to you.

Did u just join this board? I've never seen ur name, if so welcome!

Yup, I just joined. I alwways came to this site and I love it so i figured, why not join? Thank you.

Yeah I'm really glad I joined. U will find out all the info on caps that u need, and if not you can always ask.

So how long have u been with ur cap? Did u say 2 years? So what went wrong?

I mean, we used to always be like that before, worse actually but ever since I had my daughter, it's not really like that anymore. We get along pretty good, it's just that whenever I want to talk to him, he doesn't call me, and when I do call, he's talking to his friends. I'm pissed off because I like to talk to him and I miss him when I don't. I don't think he cares much about that.

Yeah my caps not a big phone talker. You really need to just sit him down face to face, tell him how you feel and what u want, and see how he responds. U will get ur true answer/decision with his reply.

Yea, because i can't on the phone. He just laughs at me, and I'm a very sensitive person too, so that hurts.

I'm sorry! I would suggest the face-to-face tho. He sounds like an a $ $ hole if he laughs at u when u tell him ur feelings. I'd kick that guy to the curb!

I'm seriously contemplating it.

Shaiessence, what is your (sun) sign, and your age, and what is his age? Just curious...

What?? OFA~ your newbee Cap. guy is now turning as predicted? I tell ya... there good for a intense pursuit phase of several weeks it seems, and then the real "fun" begins.

Did you... go **there** (s-e-x)? Well, at least he's taking your calls! He hasn't gone into true hiding or disappearing mode. Ya better hang back and recreate the challenge, if you're even still interested.

Shaiessence, what is your (sun) sign, and your age, and what is his age? Just curious...

I am a Cancer and i am 18 yr olds, he is 23.

Leave him along, move on take him to court for child support, and end it....he is not worth the headache at that age...he is still sowing his wild oats...give him space a lot of it...and see what happens...I believe he really cares a lot about you but he probably feels like he is being tied down with a baby right know. And you are to young to be worried about being with one man right know...I know he is your baby father but I beleive if you are going to make it with him you need to show him some strength and courage that you can go on with out him...If you need something for the baby then call him only for that make the conversation short and to the point. He will take notice.