Like many of the postings I have read I too stumbled on this site as I did my google search for clues on a new man that has oddly come into my life. It started just like this posting, on-line. A chatroom (go figure)for 30 somethings. We randomly "bumped" into each other and said hello. Our first conversation went from what do you do for work to what do you do outside of work to what do you look like. As our chat continued (nearly 3 hours) I found it scary that I felt he was me, a male version of me! The benefit of the chatroom for what it's worth is that you get the chance to see the inside first. Finally...I had to ask, I couldn't hold it in "when is your birthday ?". Much to my surprise he responded...."I'm a Capricorn". As I saw the type I smiled...I knew it! and I told him so. "How did you know?" he asked...my response "Because I'm a Capricorn too". We exchanged our birthdays and laughed at how as children we struggled during the Chrismas holidays. The next day I thought of him, how odd I thought that I am thinking of this man. I visited the chatroom again that evening and there he was, i knew it, he was thinking of me too. We have spoken only online for the last week but almost every night for hours at a time. We live in the same city, exchanged pics and seem to have a very strong connection and have talked about meeting in person some day. But....and here's the but....the stars are against us...I know this! We share many troublesome traits but also love many of the same things and share some strong values. I have never dated a Capricorn man...never! I think this could be the start of something great and any advise on how to NOT screw things up would be very much appreciated! How do I communicate to him that I am interested without scaring him? Does he want me to be aggressive? Do I wait for him to tell me when he wants to meet in person or should I bring this up? I know some of these things are simple relationship questions but given I pegged him to be a Capricorn male I think there may be a few things I can learn from those of you here! Any thoughts would be appreciated...of course I will share my updates and hopefully this is the start of something great 🙂 CapGirl1225
