Need some insight

Hi guys, first post here! I'm a scorpio female who has gone on several dates with a capricorn over the course of a month. A few weekends ago I got drunk and ended up at his place (not something I normally do but the chemistry between us is unbelievable). We never went too far but definitely got intimate. Well, I repeated the same behaviour the following week (again, getting intimate but not all the way). This time it was odd. He said that I was acting like his girlfriend and he didn't want to be attached to anyone. He recently got out of a long term relationship and is still recovering...

anyways, we used to talk every day but ever since that last night he's only initiated contact via email once in almost 2 weeks. He said we were looking for different things. I'm actually not so sure - I don't want a serious relationship right now either but I started to worry he was only interested in "one thing" and needed him to reassure me that he cared for me (he failed to do this). Since we had the friends talk, I have tried to talk to him via IM but he was very distant. Can someone please explain this? I was sure he liked me at first and I have developed feelings for him. Should I continue to try to talk to him or just give him space? Or should I just figure it's over?

Love these forums, btw!

thanks, sagigoat! yeah it was very confusing to me because he really gave me the impression he liked me...he told me in the end that all he didn't want was the feeling of being with someone. i don't really think i did anything that should have given him that feeling but obviously he picked up on something. i agree with you that he was pretty selfish and i was definitely taken advantage of. but i'm not going to tell him that; i'd rather cut off all ties since it's easier for me to move on if i don't talk to him.

the thing is, i have this feeling that once i'm totally over it he'll pop back in my life and want to go out again. if that happens i'm definitely calling him on his actions.

Welcome to the boards 🙂

Sagigoat said everything I was going to say LOL!!!! Aqua moons think alike 😉