Gemini Man and Scorpio Female —

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by depth_scorp on Tuesday, April 29, 2008 and has 21 replies.

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@G-Man
18 Years

I am a Gemini man married to a Scorpio female.
I was happy for years being led by her, until I realized I was being led.
Now I am very miserable and resentful and that the sex has worn out, so are we.
Maybe this will help you.

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@G-Man
18 Years

It was like a curtain opened. Now, I have to be careful. Shiny paint is wet and mostly beautiful, but is messy.

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

So she had some issues that were never seen in the marriage, and when you pulled the curtains back far enough you saw all that was hidden?

What part did you play in finding this mess?

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@trobin939
18 Years

isn't that the case when everyone pulls the curtain back? maybe you had just convinced yourself that the relationship was some sort of panacea (for a really long time)...Gems can do that...you just a did a bit longer than most.....LOL

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

"I'm sounding like P-Angel now!"

lol

"I was happy for years being led by her, until I realized I was being led."

Scorpio women are masters at this ... in fact, there are a couple Virgo men currently members of this site who are being dangled at this moment by Scorp females, and have no clue .. so don't feel alone in this.

Now, the awareness is present in your mind .. swim.

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@sweetgem
19 Years

I'm still seeing rhe scorp and one thing i realized is he likes to lead. Even when he is unsure of something (eg directions to a place) he would rather find it himself than have me ask someone else for directions.
He also made it clear that he wants my undivided attention when we are in a room full of people.it's cute for now but i'm not sure if these are things i'll get used to or just get fed up of.

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@MysticScorp
18 YearsScorpio

Maybe its not the problem on Scorp, its the problem on Gem. 😄 Gem gets bored of Scorp after sometime? Sorry...have to say this. 😛

As a Scorp, we never gets bored, it will be like becoming more and more attach to the partner everyday. Then Gems start to feel this that they are being led or being controlled?

G-man, tell me more please. I also need to know what doesn't work so I might be able to avoid it with my Gem.

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@sweetgem
19 Years

When the scorp feels like they are leading too much i would advise pulling back a little and let the gem do their thing. We gems don't like feeling suffocated in relationships.
I'm still seeing my scorp and all i do is tell him when i don't like something he does or says.

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@sweetgem
19 Years

emeraldgem you got it right. It isn't easy.
However i'm still with him. We are now in a LDR. I spent the last 6 days with him and i had so much fun.

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@sweetgem
19 Years

I'm still with my scorp. today is my b-day and he came down to visit for a few days. I'm really happy with him. strange,,,because most sites out there say we are incompatible.

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@Aramei
14 YearsScorpio

Strange that this conversation is here. A few months ago I had met a Gem man. Fell hard right away then nothing from him ever again. No answers to why he dropped off face of the earth. Then just last night he texts me wanting to meet to explain his absence. Back when he had "left" the earth I came here and found out Gems are air sign so they can be this way.
Now I'm scared but also excited that maybe a relationship could work.

Are Gems and Scorps able to make it work. Generally I know they are not compatible.

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@Whimsy
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes, it can work. Married to my Scorpio for 5 years now. But, I've been told by a DXPer gifted in astrology that our charts are very compatible despite our sun signs. In our case, it's taken lots of creativity, humor, and the will to stay postitive on my side, and the patience of a saint on his side.