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Does this have anything to do with this guy being a Capricorn?

Are Capricorn men control freaks? Are they more likely to try to attempt to control and change a girl's behavior, or are they just going to walk away if they see something they don't like?

I'm a Sagittarius female 23 that's known this Capricorn guy for a few years now. We were seeing each other in person but he's moved away and now we're facebook friends. Recently, there was some drama and fighting between guys I grew up with online who I had been friends with and this Capricorn guy who I do like, but who I'm not really seeing anymore because he moved away, well, he appeared to get involved with this online fighting too and put a stop to it and we agreed I should just delete those people.

The drama appears to be over. I deleted a few of these guys. Like I said they seemed to be playing off one another because these are guys I've known my whole life. My Capricorn male friend talked to me briefly and said "I don't know why you'd even want to be friends with those people, and I don't know why you even need to talk about them."

Well, it was upsetting. I hadn't realized guys could get like that, and the fact that it was all online upset me. The whole thing was a misunderstanding, but people were fighting and saying things about each other and I felt attacked and I was really upset.

Now, this Capricorn male won't read my messages. Is this a Capricorn thing? Is this temporary? Or is this guy just done, because there was drama?

I understand the fact that this is now an "online only" connection may be a factor in being ignored. I added him because I wanted to stay in touch, but honestly after all this drama he really doesn't seem like he wants to talk to me anymore.

I am not sure if its a capricorn guy thing or a person thing as to why this has happened the fighting with your friends over the internet and the playing off of each other.

It sounds like a misunderstanding if you felt like you was attacked, whether or not it is over or not remains to be seen I think it could be over as in theres no more talking about fighting and the drama. Noone would like the fighting or is this something you do to keep in contact with your friends? Or is it your friends do this to you and you not sure how your friend is like and thisi s where the misunderstanding is coming from

He has neither the authority nor the right to tell you who you can and can't be friends with on Facebook. If someone told me to delete someon on Facebook, I'd keep them just to prove a point that I won't be told what to do.

Then again, Geesh! It's just Facebook. If the fighting wasn't directly about you, ad you weren't the subject of it, then what do you care why they were fighting on Facebook? Unless you were the instigator or the subject of the fight and you're not telling us, then I wouldn't put a lot of stock about what's on Facebok.

It is a fact that capricorns don't like drama. But, I don't think someone else's drama would be held against you.

The reason he's not responding is he could be busy settling in, working or making new friends - which he should be. I wouldn't waste a lot of time or energy on trying to get his attention. He's gone, moved away, we lose contact, life happens and you will have more and more friends over time you lose touch with. I wouldn't worry about it.

Capricorns tend to have an innate parental way about them, so that would solve why he counseled you about your friend choice. And whenever we feel unsettled, we tend to hide away from the world and try to diagnose what the cause is.

He's being rash, but I would pull him out of this slump before he gets sucked into the black hole he's created for himself. Be delicate if you want, but remember that no one should have to walk on eggshells.

I don't feel like I STARTED the drama. The problem started when I added this guy I knew when he lived locally to my facebook, and he started a public page then posted a whole bunch of sexual material that went over my head but went straight to these guys' I've known forevers' groins. THEY reacted and started talking shit.

I was offended by everyone involved.

My drama is that I'm so god-damn upset by the whole thing. That's why I'm talking about it.

Personally, I think if this guy really cared he wouldn't have posted in such an irresponsible manner and started this massive male competitiveness.

I forgave the male Capricorn because he spoke to me directly, and said he wasn't talking about me. I hadn't realized that so many of these guys I grew up with were such cruel animals. Some of the things that were said felt like a personal attack against me for even knowing such a person. I will admit that I don't think I've been represented well, and am not sure why I want to be a part of this person's life after all that's been said and done.

The person who said this guy is now long-distance and involved with his own life is probably correct. Otherwise, he would speak to me directly like a human being.

Yes. He has ignored my last couple messages, which indicates to me that he's not interested in further contact. I was wondering if he was attempting control. Perhaps, it is as simple as paternalism and giving good advice which is why he spoke to me directly about the matter at all.

His point "Why do you even talk to such people" as stated to me is a good one. My point is that I grew up with these people and hadn't realized they were such scumbags because I'd become accustomed to their ways over time. This is why I agreed with deleting the local offenders. I do think that advice goes both ways however, and the stuff that he initially posted publicly was so over the top that my childhood friends could also say they were wondering the exact same thing when I added such a person. A lot of the dirty jokes went over my head. Men.

I agree that this is just facebook, and that does not mean much.

Yeah. Those guys got deleted because they were directing nasty comments at me and wouldn't speak to me directly, or calm the fuck down.

I'm fiery, feisty, and very direct. I should stay off facebook.

...at least until I am over this.