@truecap
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Also, sadly to say, some caps will just disappear to save the comfort of the "it's over" conversation. As much as I hate to admit it, I was this way when I was younger.
If he disappeared on you without a word, then he isn't worthy of your attention/thoughts/energy.
*discomfort*
Posted by truecap
I applaud you for not having sex with him right off the bat. See, if he doesn't come back, at least you didn't have that part of yourself invested and it will be easier to move on. Not easy, but much easier than if you had had a sexual relationship with him.
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Btw he has a really nice chart.
Why is that?
Caps pretty much go after what they want. Also, no matter how busy a cap is, they will make time for someone they're into.
It could be the distance is the problem. Proximity is a big thing for me.
Posted by truecap
Also, sadly to say, some caps will just disappear to save the comfort of the "it's over" conversation. As much as I hate to admit it, I was this way when I was younger.If he disappeared on you without a word, then he isn't worthy of your attention/thoughts/energy.
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Posted by truecap
Caps pretty much go after what they want. Also, no matter how busy a cap is, they will make time for someone they're into.It could be the distance is the problem. Proximity is a big thing for me.
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Try to have an honest conversation with him.
Thank u for all ideas! I chose to go with flow and it is all I want to do. He told me that he didn't want to settle down yet, neither did i. I think he just not that experimental type of guy. Anyway, be happy!
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I applaud you for not having sex with him right off the bat. See, if he doesn't come back, at least you didn't have that part of yourself invested and it will be easier to move on. Not easy, but much easier than if you had had a sexual relationship with him.
How often did you see each other before? How often did you contact each other? Was this a gradual disappearance or a sudden one? You said suddenly, but I'm not sure what your definition of that is. How long has it been since you've had contact. Who initiated the last few contacts?
Is there any reason he would have felt ignored, insulted, disrespected, misunderstood or hurt? Did you say or do something that may have been misunderstood and taken the wrong way? Did he make himself vulnerable and not feel accepted in that he is embarrassed by his vulnerability? Do you think he just lost interest? Or perhaps another girl caught his attention. ??
It's hard to make suggestions on the little bit you've given us. Just look back and see if there is anything that could have been the trigger.