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So I haven't heard from the cappy since I left his house Tues morn. So tonite I get a random call from him and miss it. So I call him back, and am like yeah, what u want. He says he keeps getting silent calls from his house on his cell and he isn't home because he's working and that he's calling me to see if I'm there because I'm the only one that knows where the key is. I say no, then I keep getting more calls from him and missing them, then I'll call him back and he says he's not calling me and that he's getting calls from me also. What is this? I don't understand. Is he making this up? When he got off the phone the first time he said well sorry to bother you, then bye. Then the next times, he's like, well I'll talk to ya later. What is he doing?

MyCap~ I''m surprised noone's yet responded to you. This is really weird to me. I recall how on the last break, he called w/ the excuse "did you call me?" And now this round, he's basically doing the same only more elaborate... Perhaps he is getting weird calls from his house- who knows. But to say that someone is calling you from his cell phone and it's NOT him? If he's telling the truth and these arent' just excuses to call you, then it would make me think that some other girl is wacko-jealous and using his phones!

CapGirl,

I did do some of my own investigating and did find out that he was telling me the truth about it. So it wasn't just some excuse that he was using to talk to me. I had someone check to see if he had sent a cop out to his house to check it out, and sure enough he did. The cop found footprints in the snow to the back of his house and over his fence. I talked to him today and he still doesn't know what happened because nothing was messed up in his house, and he doesn't know how the person got in. He just thought it was me since he knew I knew where his key was. So he was still kind of freaked out about it today. I would be also.

Just be careful... I see you getting sucked back in. If the "intruder" is making calls from his (your Cap.'s) cell phone and home phone, to your phone and to his, that still speaks to me of someone he knows.

This weekend, my brother-in-law who is a cop told me just out of the blue to never date a cop unless someone you know and trusts introduces you to him. He said it's typical for them to be dating 10 different women, and to have been married 4-5 times.

Oh I know, I've heard that also about cops. Believe me, I've been warned. There are good ones out there. I mean the one I was seeing was pretty honest for the most part, but u just never know. I could have been blinded by a lot of things.

The cap was calling me from his cell. The intruder wasn't calling me from the cappies house. The intruder was calling the cappy from his house to the cappies cell. So it has to be someone he knows because they knew his cell #.

I'm not going to get sucked back in. It was really weird, when talking to him. It was like we hadn't talked in forever. I don't see him trying to get back w/me, which is good. As a matter of fact, I was just reading something on the net and it said that if u r w/the right guy for you, there won't be any worries and you can relax around them. I find that true. For all of me and cappies time together all I did was worry when he was going to call, see me, etc. and with others I've dated it's never been that way. I think the relationship w/the cappy was just an all around bad idea and should have ended long ago.