OMG,,,Why cant ne be direct?

Cap comes into town....We see each other...he tells me he cant stay away from because of the way he feels for me....of course he doesnt tell me exactly what it is that he feels...and I dont ask...now I'm wondering HOW MUCH he actually feels for me. I dont know why I didnt ask him when I could....but why all the beating around the bush and indirectness? Everything he says is so indirect. Will he EVER be straight forward? SERIOUSLY?

r u serious!!!! NEVER EVER NEVER THEY IRRRRRIIIITATE THE HELL OUTTA YOU AND IF U HAVE SEX WITH 1 ! u BETTA PRAY CAUSE U GONE BE IN FOR IT GAMES GAMES GAMES DISSAPEARING ACTS FOR DAYS WEEKS MONTHS EVEN BUT THEY WANT YOU TO STAY TRUE DONT BELIEVE THE HYPE!

LOL...Whats even funnier is that he has been trying to get me to open up..in around about way...LOL...So this time when I seen him I had been drinking and right when I was about to pass out sleep he asked me how I felt about him...LOL..and I DIRECTLY TOLD HIM!! The funny thing is I feel like he knew I was intoxicated and thought I wouldnt remember,,,,which I didnt until days later....

SMH ??_ Geez why are we so misunderstood?

OK first please understand from a cap perspective, we need and desire security. For this reason yes we tend to try to get others to open up BEFORE we open up because we need to create a sense of safety. Selfish?? Maybe, but it is what it is.

—but why all the beating around the bush and indirectness? Everything he says is so indirect. Will he EVER be straight forward? SERIOUSLY— This is actually very easy to answer??_ its because he doesn't know yet and is still trying to figure it out himself. He's not giving you the run around, how do you answer a question you don't yet know the answer to?

Caps are usually very direct, and brutally honest because we have too much going on for games and BS. Unfortunately, it may come across as game to innocent bystanders. I myself take a loooooooong time figuring out what I want from a person, where they stand, how I feel about them, ect. Not because I play games but because when I'm in, I'm in for the long haul and I need to make sure the person is worth the time and effort. Caps are incredible people to be involved with if you are lucky enough to get one. They will cater to you before doing for themselves and while yes they can be moody, they will be your safe place, your friend and most loyal companion.

Be patient.

Oh..I never ask him how he feels. He volunteers the information that he has given. He said he likes me, he "DIGS" me..and what I typed in my original message. I just sense that he is beating around the bush about something...Because FOR ME, he isnt clear enough. I dont press him for more. But I wish he would just say EXACTLY what it is he feels....Not like, Dig, etc. I cant relate to that. Its too surface, and I know its more then that. He has moon in pisces Scorpio Chic. He also told me that he didnt realize I was so down for him, and I'm not reallyy into slang to much...so I dont even know why he is just now coming to that realization. He is so funny to me.

LOL..and I am not usually open about my feelings either..I mean, I'm sure he knows that I care. And now that he tricked me..he actually got me to verbally say how I felt about him..even though I was darn near out of it when I said it. He got me with that one.

I don't know this guy or your history so I'm certainly not telling you that he loves you, but it's safe to say that he cares a great deal about you & obviously likes you or he would not be around you. Plus, he came right out & TOLD YOU that he digs you. That's slang for "I'm into you". When he says he knows you're down for him, that means you're good to him, loyal to him, & he feels safe with you. Just try not to look any deeper than that. I understand your wanting to know.. I was like that too. Just trust that he will tell you EXACTLY what he feels, when he's ready & when he knows..

Thanks Scorpio Chic (: