Pisces Girl with Jealous Cappy

Hi there! I'm so new to this, but I really would like some advice from people who know the signs better than I do!

So basically, I have been dating my capricorn for over 6 months now (not too long, I know) but I really feel like he's "it"! I have never fallen this hard or fast for anyone before. We have sooo much in common but enough that's different to keep it interesting.

The only problem is...his TEMPER! I have a tendency for dating Cappies, they just find me lol, but I had never heard of or experienced one with his kind of jealousy and insecurity issues. He gets riled up over the sillest things, and as a Pisces, it really puts me off. I get frustrated having to calm him down all the time. He's always watching other guys around me, whether I know them or not. It's a bit suffocating! He says he trusts me, but not men. On top of that, I work in a place where I am the only female. Needless to say, I get a lot of attention and it drives him insane.

What can I do? Will he ever mellow out?

I think its something about mutables that heightens a Cap possessive nature.

My sister is a Virgo and her Cap "friend" almost get in fights over her when they hang out. My sis gets a lot of attention, daily, and it would drive a Cap crazy if she dated one.

Idk, Justkeepswimming. I can imagine that getting old fast, and regardless of other guys and who they are, he has to know to trust you. Im not sure he does.

Him not trusting me really is a concern of mine, lnana04...he says he's been cheated on before and that's why he gets that way, but I have too, and I don't punish him for it. It has gotten old, and it makes me sad because I feel like I can't tell him some things now in fear that he'll get all possessive. I still have fingers crossed that he'll grow out of it! haha

Posted by JTG1984BETA
.. He does trust you but you never know with other people. He probably wont mellow out so I suggest you take the jealousy as a compliment and try not give him reasons to lose his temper?

I concur. I don't think he feels that the problem is you ; according to him, it's other guys. As JTG1984BETA says, take it as a compliment. I know you Pisces chicks secretly like it when a man is jealous over you 🙂

The only time you SHOULD worry is when your Cap man doesn't give a damn about you or couldn't be bothered which guy you are with. They've been known to be completely cold with their feelings ( a constant source of anguish for most women who date them, I can assure you).

So the fact that this Cappy gets all hot-blooded over you must mean you are someone special to him.

What you can do though, is to do small physical acts of love to show him that he is the only one for you. Reassure him. Like when he knows you are working in a place surrounded by guys, meet him after work & the moment you meet him, give him a warm passionate kiss & whisper in his ears how much you missed him & couldn't wait to see him. Tell him that you were thinking about him the whole day. Give him such a kiss that he can't think of anything else...let alone get jealous or angry.

Pisces females have the kind of feminine energy that can calm down a Capricorn male's disruptive energy. You should become Yin to his Yang to achieve balance & harmony.

He needs you as much as you need him.

Thank you BeoWulf, I think you said that perfectly 🙂

I am definitely familiar with the cold, distant side of Capricorn (had an ex like that...) and I will take the jealousy over that ANY day!

I've been trying to be calm and peaceful enough to balance him out, I suppose I'll just have to keep it up! I think we do need each other in this regard. And I don't know how much more affectionate I can be, but I'll give it a shot haha 🙂

My pleasure, JustKeepSwimming.

The Fish & the Mer-Goat can be a beautiful coupling. The Mer-Goat just needs to let go of his protective nature a little bit. The Fish can help him with that. Caps want to be needed & Pisces loves to be needed too.

I am with a Cap man and what I've noticed is his "jealousy" comes off more as a protective trait...which I appreciate although I'm an Aries. In many circumstances wherever there are men he is uneasy with, I have him come with me and hold my hand, show him affection...ect. So his presence is known, it makes him feel better. On my behalf he claims 😉. Anyhoo I hope that's helpful, sounds like he cares about ya!

^^ eh never mind. (changeable)

Posted by JustKeepSwimming
Hi there! I'm so new to this, but I really would like some advice from people who know the signs better than I do!

So basically, I have been dating my capricorn for over 6 months now (not too long, I know) but I really feel like he's "it"! I have never fallen this hard or fast for anyone before. We have sooo much in common but enough that's different to keep it interesting.

The only problem is...his TEMPER! I have a tendency for dating Cappies, they just find me lol, but I had never heard of or experienced one with his kind of jealousy and insecurity issues. He gets riled up over the sillest things, and as a Pisces, it really puts me off. I get frustrated having to calm him down all the time. He's always watching other guys around me, whether I know them or not. It's a bit suffocating! He says he trusts me, but not men. On top of that, I work in a place where I am the only female. Needless to say, I get a lot of attention and it drives him insane.

What can I do? Will he ever mellow out?

all you have to do is give him love and praise. And that honestly, he IS the only man for you. Plus, you have to set boundaries with other guys looking at you cause they WILL look and feel this pull. Not because it's your fault, even if you dress down. It's because it JUST IS. He will always need constant reassurance. And only way is to tell those guys watching over you to go away! Show them your middle finger if need be. I know it's mean but sigh. Some of those men are very disrespectful.

Caps can be a little possessive. Just keep the lines of communication open. Don't ever make him ask "who is that". Just prove you are trustworthy and he might calm down after a while.

Caps are also competitive. So it may be that he thinks someone is going to try to take you away from him, hence the problem with the other men. So, just keep letting him know he's the one for you and you're only interested in him. Caps need a lot of reassurance.

Curious to know if he has any scorpio in his chart. If so, that could be the root of the trust issues and suspiciousness.

Also, he's carrying baggage from a previous relationship and that could be the root of it too. Why did his previous relationship fall apart? Is it because she really did cheat? Did he just suspect it? Or was he paranoid and she got tired of it, dumped him and he justified the break up this way? This might be important information.

Give it time girl. Problem will be that you might get tired of it. If it is starting to turn you off, just have an honest conversation with him and tell him. You'll need to decide if this is something YOU'RE willing to put up with. It would definitely get old after a while.

Oh, yeah, and keep the funny work stories to a minimum. He definitely doesn't want to hear you talking about other men.