PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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confused37
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10 Years

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so after a year and 8 mos of talking to this cappy we have finally had sex. he stills continues to go on my pages and look at my pics. and still continues to tell me that he has always felt that we are a good team and that we would be good together. but im tired of waiting for him to say that hes ready to commit to me. am i still just chasing a dream here.... should i tell him that i like him a lot but im starting to lose interest. Im a virgo woman we lose interest quick. i have been very patient waint for this man. but my time limited is running out. but i dont want to loose true love if thats what its going to be. just tired of going in circles. and not getting any where. can i see myself having a future withthis man yes i can. can i love him with all my heart yes and i want to but just tired of waiting to move forward. can anyone he me some good advice on what i should do.
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lol silly virgo on an astrology site to boot...

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Ok he is still on dating website... does not want to commit. So you have casual sex with people not in a committed relationship? most likely not normally...

MMM Him playing the field... Caps can be cold at times in this way they are looking for the best long term and over all deal.

Being that Mercury is in Libra which if you do your research astrology wise you would know it is all about relationships for Virgo's... I think you have the answer to your question...

YOU TELL HIM TO KICK ROCKS IF HE IS NOT IN... NO GRAY AREA. After all you Virgo's are very practical and want kids... so Virgo women don't like to be played.

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10 Years

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yes i know it all about the relationship with me being a virgo woman...... i chose to give in because i wanted to not because i had to. we talk about a lot of things he and i. im still on the dating site as well. but im just there to past time most of the time. i leave my profile up so that he can go on there and look at my pics if that what he wants to do. all i know right now is that im tired of playing this game with him. and no i dont just have sex to have sex
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Confused... Tell him... either he is looking to still date or he is actually into you. Simple... It is not that a Cap can't settle down but they like to take any advantage they can... and will take note if you do to... Meaning it is only fair you address this.

Being it is Mercury retro... I would dump his as... I am sorry but this is an astro website... and all I can say is he smells fishy to me...

I am sure you are not short other options.

See that is the problem with dating websites they are full of players... Easy to find a few prospects these days... and just like girls they more seem to like them... they more chase. I have a feeling you are far from alone in this chase.

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You've been talking for that long? How long since you met him in person? How long have you been dating? Or have you ever actually gone on a date?

If you give an ultimatum, be prepared to follow through. If you give an ultimatum and it doesn't work and you stick around, then you really didn't mean it and it will give him permission to treat you however he wants and he will jerk you around.

Caps are very big on say what you mean and mean what you say. Your actions have to match your words, especially in an ultimatum.
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Posted by confused37
yes i know it all about the relationship with me being a virgo woman...... i chose to give in because i wanted to not because i had to. we talk about a lot of things he and i. im still on the dating site as well. but im just there to past time most of the time. i leave my profile up so that he can go on there and look at my pics if that what he wants to do. all i know right now is that im tired of playing this game with him. and no i dont just have sex to have sex
Maybe he thinks you're not serious because YOU'RE still on a dating website as well. Can't complain about him being on there, when you're on there too.

Maybe you should hide your profile for a while so he thinks you're serious about him.