Please Help solving me that Mistery!!!

Months ago I posted one of my issue after my break up that was about a girl who was my ex's friend that sent me a friend request and also sent request to two of my close friends as well and asking me those weird questions that how I know HIM and are we just friends and all. So at the end I solved that matter by talking to my ex and informing him about that girl. The problem was that she was interested in my ex and my ex wasn't. And specially when he realized that the girl has started bothering me he not only instructed me to block her but also blocked her from HIS facebook as well.

After a month of this (Please note that during that month me and my ex weren't in any kind of contact)One of my Aquarius friend started showing me a kind of rude behavior and I was really concerned with it because she was probably one of those people whom I can share everything with. I asked to her a couple of times but she didn't respond me at all. one week back I again asked her and however managed to know the reason. She told me that one of the strange girl on facebook texted her that "How do you know Carolz? Is she your friend?" When my friend responded her she started a burst of anger on me .. It looked like she was full of anger because she said about me and my character and warn my friend not to talk to me as I am not a good choice... I thought alot about it.I have never been in any silly girly fights with anyone.. And as far as I know I don't have any enemy or have done any wrong to anyone.

What I guess is this stranger girl has definitely a link joined with that girl (My ex's ex friend).. What you guys say?? I am in a big confusion and its alarming because she not only hasn't texted my one friend but two more as well. And some how managed to influence their minds against me. I feel that this girl is taking some kind of revenge from me. The anger she had about me and my ex blocking her completely and my ex hasn't talked to her since she has tried to contact with me..


So I decided to tell my ex about this I texted him that I want to talk to you about that girl on his cell phone. The next day he texted me on watsapp stating that "I just wanna tell you that I don't talk to her and I have blocked her.. Now you can continue what you want to tell".. I said let me free from my finals and will tell you...


Please Help me people sought out this mystery ... Either I should directly talk to that girl taking my ex in my favor or I should ask HIM to talk to her. But wh

Sorry for the typo .. It ends on the last sentence "But wh" is just a typo

So much unnecessary drama.

1. How is it that your ex can tell you who to block?

2. Why would any one of you block her? As I understand it, she made a friends request and then started to ask questions. How about telling her that you don't want to answer those questions. Why block her? Overdramatic, imo.

3. How is it that your close aqua friend distances herself from you because of a rumour that she heard from someone else? Is this really a friend you want by your side? I mean, she didn't even listen to your side of the story before she made up her mind. Weird.

Why not talk this through with the girl and aqua and your ex seperately, because you have different issues with each one of them? And not through anyone else. Solve it directly, or there will just be misunderstandings - hesaids and shesaids. Imo.

I have actually came to know and realized that my aqua friend is actually not as much loyal. I have asked my aqua friend and gained as much information as I can about that stranger. As far as it is concerned with blocking her I personally blocked her by my own choice my ex just gave me an advice. Actually I wanted to get rid of all those pointless dramas that can make me have any kind of link with my ex again. And I am thinking of solving this issue by talking to that girl directly but informing my ex was necessary in case she creates another story against me ..

When that girl first searched me on insta she searched my followers and came to know about these three of my friends .. she even sent them the follow request but I told them who she is and they didn't excepted it. So in short she know them as my close friends from insta and Facebook

So I talked to my Ex Libra first about this matter. And as always we ended up arguing and blocking each other again.. I was in anger so j haven't consider to talk that girl yet...

I don't know but some.people say its indirectly my ex doing it using that girl .. or is there someone my close that is giving out my information to that girl??

The most astonsjhing thing is how that girl knows so much about me?? How does she even know that my ex and I had any connection more than a friendship... it was actually really private and this girl is his class fellow

Don't fall into the trap. Don't engage in the drama. Tell you most important people what is going on, then ignore it and rise above it.

When we engage in the drama, we're giving the drama queens what they want - a reaction. So, the best course of action is no reaction.