RE-ATTRACTING CAPRICORN

I was seeing a guy for about a month about 3 times a week, and he was very interested in me. I played it cool for the whole time because I was convinced that he wasn't the one for me. I made myself not so available to him, not seeing him all the time he wanted to see me, kept on calling our relationship ?Casual? etc., We did get physical but I deliberately did not open myself up to him. But the more time I spent with him, his consistency and sweetness, I became more and more attracted to him and started falling for him right before he had to go away on a business trip. He wanted to see me before he left but we weren't able to get together. I decided when he got back that I would just be natural and open myself up to him because I realized I want to have a relationship with him. He contacted me a few days later on Valentine's Day and we continued to text each other back and forth left and we texted each other back and forth, well I texted him something that could be construed as slightly insecure. And I never heard back from him. I did call and leave a message with him on his phone and still didn't hear from him. I ran into him a few weeks ago and told him that he became strange, he basically told me that it didn't make sense when he finally came back to see each other because he was too busy and didn't have time etc. I had to act like it was totally fine, but of course I was pretty hurt. Now that I have read about Cap men -I see that this is how they are. My big issue is that he didn't really get to know who I was because of the reasons above.

I want to know what to do right now. What do you suggest? BTW, I am a Scorpio female.

I might be running into him again and I want to re-attract him.

Welcome to my world, I am Virgo. I shall monitor this thread as I would LOVE to know too.

I've known my Cappy for 10yrs and we've had an off and on thing. We met when we were 22 and 28 and at 32 and 38 having always hit it off well you would think he would be ready for a stable friendship. Nope, he cut off ties with no communication. Be grateful you can see your cappy man occasionally, I don't live close enough to my ex to run into him. He comes to my area to play poker but that's not my vice and I won't go there just to see him. Also, I've read the things you read about them. Work first, seriousness always. Sounds like dating a brick wall really. But, I KNOW in my heart that this man would be the right man for me without the dismissing of my feelings of course.

One thing I read that I don't know how true it is... Cappies look for mates who will support their goals and plans and that if you're not moving in that direction (without prior knowledge) then you get dismissed. I think it goes back to the business first and play later (maybe later) thing with them. But, I can't understand why not give the woman the chance to say if she wants to support his goeals and be on his team. Brick wall I tell you.