scorp or gem?

My scorpio who I have been working on has dissapeared again.

I met this gemini girl who seems to have the hots for me, but doesn't cater to my more sensitive side. Which might be what I need right now.

I really love this scorpio girl, but feel like she isn't interested anymore...
AND I don't want to hurt her feelings....or seem like i'm dissapearing

I'm a cap guy, any girls here know how I should proceed with this? Since all I read on this is how cap guys always dissapear?

why do you think the scorpio isn't interested? are you sure that you're not pushing her away? i dealt with a cap before and its not that i wasn't interested, but he had a communication problem and we could never get anywhere and it just became too much..

I'm going to heed your advice msscorpion, and let your words settle in my head.

I don't believe I am pushing her away, but I do believe I could watch how I communicate a little bit better.
Thanks for the input.

by the way....I decided not to go for the gemini.

I'm glad that i could help. Why did you decide to leave the gemini alone— she just didn't do it for you? :o)

OH MY GOODNESS!!! A cap guy wanting advice! OH I'm happy to help 🙂

i dealt with a cap before and its not that i wasn't interested, but he had a communication problem and we could never get anywhere and it just became too much..

YES! We have commuication problems, I learned this the hard way. I think we aspect people to 'like' read ou minds or someting -- now, this is coming from a capricorn who likes to talk alot! LOL.

Something when someone disappears, it doesn't mean that they're not interested, it just means that their is something else going on in their lives. Sometimes, people don't wait others involved when they have issues to deal with.

Is it right? No, but that's the way some people are.

Just wait and don' jump the gemini's bones yet (pun intended), just because someone is into right at that moment doesn't mean you that they are the safest option. Sometimes it pays to wait.

if you're going thru something it would be nice of you to tell the other party. you don't have to tell them everything but a simple "i have a lot on my mind right now" would help. let the other person know that is has nothing to do with them. caps are getting a pretty bad rap because of their communication problems. You all also have deep seated rejection issues which causes you to sabotage your relationships.

to the cappy sweetie!:

I'm asking for advice because all of my relationships have been crap, and I know I am partly to blame. So i'm trying to *gasp* make myself happy ( is that what caps really want)..lol
But actually I really like the scorpio woman A LOT. And I don't want to fuck this one up. I will ask for advice and read books just so I understand myself and can relate to her.

As for the gemini, I decided not to go for her because I sort of felt that she was a sociopath in the first place. But she was hot so I was like, what the hell? You know.
But as I started to get closer I noticed that she had a patch of serious red bumps under her neck...and it was from shaving the hair from her chinny chin chin.

So now her physical attractiveness did not override her personality, like it had previously. I know this must sound shallow, but she has a unfriendly personality...
But I think gemini women are great, very good conversationalists.

Scorpio's and Cap's are supposed to make a really good couple...so just open up to her and don't push her away...ok...