SOOOO IRRITATED

MY cappy friend hasn't called me in about three days and its really starting to aggravate me and worry me. He has never done this before.

perharps he is just a bit busy?

Yep, I'm with luna. We caps get busy and nothing else matters, even what we love. I know, its crazy but thats what happens.

So are you saying not to take it personal? I'm trying not to.

Try Meditation 🙂

*places head on desk*

LMAO...why?

this is perfectly normal... Do not take it to heart.

I do this ALL the time with people. My girl friend just let me have it yesterday because i called her for a favor after not talking to her for about a month and then before we hung up the phone she said "ok now you can go back into hidding again" i laughed and hung up the phone.

Then all my family says the same thing. I'll call out of the blue and then I wont call for weeks at a time.

In relationships it's the same thing, although the lack of calling is usually due to me being too busy to call. Time flies and then once you finally stop to rest you fall asleep. I've done this many times. When life catches us and sweeps us away we focus on the joy ride and then once it's over we play catch up with everything that we passed up along the way. It's ok. Just hang in there.

Hmm... I'm going through this now with my Cap. He's transitioning into his career and it's been pretty bumpy with him getting injured at the beginning of his season and yada ya. I sent him an email a week ago asking about the progress of his injury and he hasn't replied yet. I was about to X him because this happens often and he always comes back like nothing happened and if I say something he'll give me some excuse about being so busy and me always having my away message up on AIM. (I'm busy too, but geesh. I can find five minutes to write an email!) I don't know if I should stop using the "Capricorn" excuses for him and ditch him, or believe that he truly was just busy.

And lmao @ Xun3. "Places head on desk" Priceless lol

Thanks everyone...but I still can't help but be annoyed by his disapperance.

I agree softy. I've come to my crossroads.

Sorry..typing from my cell phone and somehow posted multiple messages,,

or you could try the direct approach when you see him:

"What the hell is going on"

Well..Yes we are more then friends..This is what actually happened...I seen him on a Sunday,,he called me Tuesday, which I didnt get the call...I eventually called him back he didnt answer..Called me back and I didnt get it...I called him back on thursday..no answer,,,so I tried him again on Friday..no answer and he has failed to call me back..I'm kinda pissed off behind it and I'm not calling him back again for him to ignore me or not return my call.

All I can say is... if you take it now, be prepared to take it forever. I let too many things go the first time they happened and they continue to happen. But the ONE thing I completely freaked out over the first time it happened, never happened again. I don't know how I didn't realize this trend in the first place lol.

Yeah, that's pretty much it bluelilac. Although when that REALLY bad side came out, I nipped it in the bud. But the stuff I thought I could tolerate, I've realized I can't. The disappearing act used to be small beans to me because I hadn't invested a lot into us, but now, after these past few years, I'm like to hell with your disappearing! Lol.