What to do when your Capricorn man disappears —?

pretty much just to sum things up .. met a Cap , we exchanged numbers, we talked everyday. i invited him to hang out with me, he gave me lots of signs he liked me like eye contact, lots of physical contact ( non sexual, just affectionate ) he opened up more than i expected, gave me compliments (hair, nails, clothes, fragrance, beauty) told me he wanted to take me out on an official date, kissed me by the end of the night & disappeared & is now officially ignoring me .... wtf ?

can someone elaborate ?!

Posted by Caplove
How long has it been since he's contacted you? I would slow it down on the affection and any kissing until you've had a few dates. Until then, lock it down and don't invite him over. Let him do the work and win your affection.

I would say just wait it out and let him take the lead. He needs to be the one to ask you out on a real date. Don't text him or call him no matter how badly you want to. This man needs to work for you, he'll value you more when he does. The distancing, in my opinion, is a good thing right now.

It's like a reset button, so he can properly ask you out on a date (hopefully) and then you can go from there. DO NOT CALL OR TEXT HIM until he makes his move.

If he's interested he will contact you for a date.

its been about a week. .. i feel like i messed up by texting him a day after we met up. i asked him how he was doing, because he had been drinking & he was telling me he's not a big drinker & his reply was "im great ! how are you?" when i replied saying i was fine & that i was just seeing if he was okay he started ignoring me after that. i sent him my last "window" text & he ignored that.. now i just feel stupid for being concerned & most likely coming off as clingy -.-

sometimes we just dont have the energy

he can be dealing with something entirely unrelated to you. like M said, he replied he is fine. thats not an ignore, and the two of you are not in a relationship yet. if anything, this is your que to slow it all the way down in expectations.

he'll be back around.

Posted by msmarilynmanson
i thought it was virgo men maybe its all men lol shruggs

Yeah, once I had one date with a Virgo and we talked few times after that. Then poof! Disappeared. Ignored, no response. So, I went out with another guy and found the love of my life.

OP, don't fret, it could be a good thing. 🙂

Thanks everyone for your input ! im just gona go with the flow. funny thing is im an Aries & for some reason i always attract & am attracted to Cappies. .. you'd think id know them by now considering the fact that ive dealt with one for almost 7 years. he was my first love & i was his & does this to me all the time. after no contact for a year he just tried to contact me yesterday *palm to face* do you guys ever stop the love games ?

I don't play love games. I'll either walk away from the game or be direct about it.

Posted by ellessque
"What to do when your Capricorn man disappears —?"

I would go and get my nails done. Take myself out to dinner. Call a friend and chat about anything other than the capricorn. I'd work on one of the projects I have in my project queue.

I pretty much would "do me" to the fullest extent possible.

DITTO... and this applies to ANY sign man who goes silent!