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Posted by cappygolightly
mine died when I was quite young.



Well, didnt mean to revive that part. sorry.

but the thing is, she only calls him 'dad' because she knows that its the proper way. but in her mind, she always uses his first name. then, sometimes, she just about calls him by his name.
i found that pretty weird that disrespectful. why yes, he is no longer with her mother, but he's still her dad. and she doesnt call her mom by her first name, then why this prejudice?
I think the author wanted to create an image of a girl who is very unfamiliar with her own father, but i think it was a failed attempt.
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I guess, perhaps she felt that way. But that just rubbed me in the wrong way. I dont know, i cant seem to reconcile with that part. it wasnt as though she didnt spend time with him at all. she used to visit him as a kid, so the whole alienation concept doesnt quite fit.

anyway, lets see if she can redeem herself. haa haa

PS- get a copy, quick! 😛
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Posted by lou.m
Kermit should not only come back to life but should turn into a prince!!🙂

It is tradition!!

VAMPIRE FROGS?

Well then if you kiss him he should tun into a VAMPIRE PRINCE!

Although i am not sure that is a good idea!!

Relationships are complicated!



see, Kermit was killed by Cappy. So the only way he can come back, is by being an undead.
But i think Sweety is crazy enough to keep him nonetheless.
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I guess, perhaps she felt that way. But that just rubbed me in the wrong way. I dont know, i cant seem to reconcile with that part. it wasnt as though she didnt spend time with him at all. she used to visit him as a kid, so the whole alienation concept doesnt quite fit.

anyway, lets see if she can redeem herself. haa haa

PS- get a copy, quick! 😛



ah these may be your own socio/cultural projections or the author may have been a tad self indulgent in including something so personal in the heroine's psyche.
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hmm, i thought about that. which is why I'm letting it slip now, and move to the vampire part. They are all hot.
*rolls eyes*

At least, now Kermit is more physically desirable to Sweety. haa haa
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Are you the next Mills & Boons type Cappy?😛


lol no way. One of my book ideas was a kind of timeline/history bio about my mother's childhood - life as seen through her childhood eyes. She is forever recounting stories from her childhood and youth and it's very interesting. I am supposed to research it by talking to her and I did buy a digital recorder four years ago I think and started some chapters but then I dunno maybe one of the leos came along...

Another was a thriller. But that has stalled after I realised how much research Id have to do. I guess you have to choose a genre and stick to it. Researching a book is tough work.
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thats good, but dont let it slip by. Do complete those.
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see, Kermit was killed by Cappy. So the only way he can come back, is by being an undead.
But i think Sweety is crazy enough to keep him nonetheless.



aww it's so cute how you use the kermit metaphor to display affection to each other 😉
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I have no idea what you're talking about.
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see, Kermit was killed by Cappy. So the only way he can come back, is by being an undead.
But i think Sweety is crazy enough to keep him nonetheless.



aww it's so cute how you use the kermit metaphor to display affection to each other 😉



I have no idea what you're talking about.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! You two are funny 😆!!!! CGL running off at the choppers again 😛 and Devil going from crazy to serious in seconds. LOL!!!!! I love it! I see what you all do when I'm working and at school.
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mine died when I was quite young.



Well, didnt mean to revive that part. sorry.

but the thing is, she only calls him 'dad' because she knows that its the proper way. but in her mind, she always uses his first name. then, sometimes, she just about calls him by his name.
i found that pretty weird that disrespectful. why yes, he is no longer with her mother, but he's still her dad. and she doesnt call her mom by her first name, then why this prejudice?
I think the author wanted to create an image of a girl who is very unfamiliar with her own father, but i think it was a failed attempt.
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Don't worry CGL, my father passed when I was 14, I guess you could say I was young ...


So Devil, you got the book huh— Cooooooool, we have *bond* now hahahaha!!! You are reading one of the most popular novel series out right now, and I just happen to hear about it all the time lol

Yeah, there are a few issues with Bella, I think thats why most just focus on the relationship between she and Edward 😉
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lol yeah I thought I was in trouble at that point...😕



At what point—



when devil came out with a serious response to my non serious question. Unless it was phrased in such a confusing way which I did not think it was.
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lol, oh phew. Thats just Devil's style , he's fine don't worry lol. If he has the sense I give him *alittle* credit for hahaha, he knew you were joking. Devil is not a wimp, thats for sure, he wouldn't get mad at anything like that.

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lol, oh phew. Thats just Devil's style , he's fine don't worry lol. If he has the sense I give him *alittle* credit for hahaha, he knew you were joking. Devil is not a wimp, thats for sure, he wouldn't get mad at anything like that.



lol Im not worried..................not now haha

I thought oh shit I am crossing some imaginary sweetie/devil boundary lol
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Nah, you are fine. I think we both destroyed our boundaries once I hit him in the head with a virtual frying-pan :O

HAHAHAHA, I remember that hahahaha, that was funny 😛 I think its cool that we can play around with each other because we don't take things to heart really. Plus, he's an Aqua-Pisces Cusp, he's use to that sort of thing 😛 lol!!! My mentor is an Aqua-Pisces Cusp and he and I get along just fine too, I adore my mentor 🙂 🙂 🙂 He's born 2 days after Devil I think.
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See, now that Devil is into the Bella and Edward, theres no time to keep the long hours on the net. He needs to sleep so he can concentrate on that darn book. I told you, its no picnic, its an awesome novel but its alot to read :O



well he has a deadline to read enough so that I do not overtake him in a couple of days lol. I will be checking up 😉
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lol yeah plus he has a deadline with his cousin so he has to work fast so he can at least know who the main characters are lol 😛

So yeah, no worries, if he was in a bad mood maybe he eat the wrong thing for dinner or something. And if so, thats not out fault, thats his 😛 hehehhehehehe, ohhhh I'm such a meanie 😉
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lol yeah plus he has a deadline with his cousin so he has to work fast so he can at least know who the main characters are lol 😛

So yeah, no worries, if he was in a bad mood maybe he eat the wrong thing for dinner or something. And if so, thats not out fault, thats his 😛 hehehhehehehe, ohhhh I'm such a meanie 😉



haha i was not aware of a deadline with his cousin. I must have missed that. I dont think he was in a bad mood, probably just slept all night lol and not used to it 🙂
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Oh yeah, I think he has to have knowledge of this series by a certain time. I confused him yesterday lol, so I was like the hell with it, let him read it 😉
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Well, he's like the smartest prof in the world! In my opinion, I'm his biggiest fan, plus he gives good advice and he's very community-oriented which is cool. There aren't too many people who have bad things to say about it lol



yeah it sounds like a great arrangement. I bet it helps to keep you motivated and focused?
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lol, he tries too. Although he has an saggie moon I can be alittle too much for him ... energy and mood wise. I respect the fact that he can put up with me.
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Oh yeah, I think he has to have knowledge of this series by a certain time. I confused him yesterday lol, so I was like the hell with it, let him read it 😉



lol he will come in here and say we are weird talking about him when he is not here. That made me laugh.
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hahaha, you know I've been told that I'm quite funny when I don't try to be 😛
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Listen, its okay to want and need someone in your corner. No one is the same. I'm not a dependent girl why any means ... but I'm not independent either. I've been critized for being interdependent, yes I have. It may not seem like it on DXP but I like having someone I know is going to be there for me. I just do, I don't think its weak, I think its just the way I am.

Maybe thats why my relationships don't work out, when I see a guy just wants me to always do for him and he never do anything for me, then my feelings change. Strange isn't it? How my feelings can change just based on that ...
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Maybe thats why my relationships don't work out, when I see a guy just wants me to always do for him and he never do anything for me, then my feelings change. Strange isn't it? How my feelings can change just based on that ...



no I dont think it strange. Sounds very healthy. Why would you want to be with someone who does not care enough to want to make you happy?
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Hey, people stay with others all the time that they can't completely happy. You know, he whole 'faithful till the end of thime' kind of stuff.

I can be truly dovated to a guy if I didn't think he had other motives behind his words of affection. I so seem to sense this and when I do I'm usually right but I don't want to believe at first.