Inlove

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by IwasBornAcapricorn on Thursday, May 14, 2009 and has 40 replies.

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

Hi!
I'm new here and I just want to share something: I'm Inlove! And like the true capricorn I am - I haven't told him. But I think he knows. And I'm starting to think he feels the same πŸ™‚)

The bad part is that he lives on the other side of the ocean so I basically have to cross a thousand miles to get to him... I don't even know him that well, and he really doesn't know a thing about me. He hasn't seen me for a year.

But that doesn't stop me from feeling like there's not a cloud in sight. I'm smiling like an idiot all the time.(We??ll see how long that lasts...)
I just know this scorpio angel is made for ME.

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

I can't. I'm such a chicken *blush* Besides I've done some serious investigation on scorpios (that is I have read the posts on the scorpio board) and it seems they're like terrefied of intimacy (even more then us). And if he only knew the intensity of my feelings I think he??d run away from me even a bit further (just to be on the safe side).
Oh but it's all good. I'm happy in my imaginary world (but I don't think I will be much longer πŸ™‚)

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

well, there's more to the story, so that's why I think he knows how I feel. When I first met him I was alot more open and flirtatious then him. Infact, even if I know he liked me, I don't think he took me seriously at first. Soon after we met he startde avoiding me for no reason πŸ™‚But now (after a year) I'm starting to get little hints he's still thinking about me.

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

"Ive never been able to get rid of scorps once they latch onto you they are like a lemming."

πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Well, that's how I like them, so I guess that won't be a problem then!

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

Cappysweetie:

Virgos and Caps

Scorps and Caps

Cancers and Caps

Hasn't it always been considered that we are compatible with all of these signs (except maybe cancer, wich I personally can't stand...)

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

"caps are very compatible with pisces"

I really think so too. I have yet to meet a pisces man that I don't find adorable. Often they feel the same about us. Maybe it's our fishtale... I've always felt like halfpisces.

As far as scorpios re concearned they often give me the creeps. But not Him. Maybe that's because he's a second decan-scorpio, and they're ruled by neptune. He's got beautiful sad eyes, whenever they look at me I want to givehim the world. But he's definitly got the the touch of a Scorpio. He gives those kind of caresses that hurt.

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

"*shakes head* nope -- we are not always compatible with these particular signs."

Well I guess that explains why i never get along with virgo and cancer men...

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

Oh my God cappygolightly! You're taking the words right out of my mouth:

I was just about to write that I sometimes wish the guy I'm inlove with was a sagittarius or an airsign. Because in reality that's th kind of guys I am most compatioble with.

My aries and sagittarius friends and I are so compatible. There are no inhibitions between us. There's so much openess and generosity there... It's just that there is no romantic attraction. I have never been inlove with anyone but earth and water guys. (First one virgo, now a scorpio)

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by cappygolightly
virguys and scorps make me want to run and hide. Cancer and I can be very affectionate but invariably end up in petty squabbles and sulky moods (from them I might add). Pisces can be blissful. I like aries men too I guess and air signs. I am starting to think Id be happiest with an aries or an air sign rather than resource hungry earth and water.

lol, you know. I still think I many end up with a Virgo. I'm not sure why, but I can see the writings on the wall hahaha. Either that or an Aqua -- I can see myself with an Aqua guy. Leo guy, yep, I can see that one. And out of the water people, I can see myself with .....

still thinking ....

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

I have never been inlove with anyone but earth and water guys. (First one virgo, now a scorpio)

See what I meanβ€” lol, whats this thing here with virgos and caps πŸ˜„ Isn't it cool πŸ™‚

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

Common, water guys are not bad.

They're emotional, sensetive, sweet...*caugh" moody, jalous, secretive, slefish, controlling, cowards "caugh"
so what's not to likeβ€” πŸ™‚

However I always seem to go for water no matter what, cuz they are the smartest ones (and I have a feeling they're best in bed)

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

Is there a particular virgo in your life Cappysweetie?

It's true that I did fall for a virgo, but that was a looong time ago mind you and besides he didn't even act like a virgo. He was one of those virgo guys that was trying to be a leo πŸ™‚ (yuck) But I could see through that and thats why I loved him....sigh...

*shakes head* Oh but nevermind, that was a long time ago and I am so over that looser πŸ™‚

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by IwasBornAcapricorn
Is there a particular virgo in your life Cappysweetie?

It's true that I did fall for a virgo, but that was a looong time ago mind you and besides he didn't even act like a virgo. He was one of those virgo guys that was trying to be a leo πŸ™‚ (yuck) But I could see through that and thats why I loved him....sigh...

*shakes head* Oh but nevermind, that was a long time ago and I am so over that looser πŸ™‚

Oh, one of those, I see lol. Yeah, I had a virgo interest a while back that was on the Leo-Virgo cusp and yes he wanted so badly to be a leo but he was just too Virgo lol with a Pisces moon on top of that lol!

Actually, I recently ended a relationship with a guy that was a Virgo (Virgo-Libra cusp). Things started way too fast, way way too fast. So it was better that things ended the way they did.

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

Oh really? - I was just about to change it LOL. I want the pixie picture actually. But I guess I??ll keep it like this then... (giving the crowd what they want πŸ™‚)

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

SG: You're absolutley right. Alot of pisces guys I know are like incredebly smart and miserable... This combination makes for great comedians. That's why i love the pisces-humor.

I tink scorpio are equally smart, but in a more cunning way. But I've noticed that scorpios seem to be more immature then pisces. (I can't help but liking this quality in a strage way though...)

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@warholian
18 Years500+ Posts

Posted by IwasBornAcapricorn
Cappysweetie:

Virgos and Caps

Scorps and Caps

Cancers and Caps

Hasn't it always been considered that we are compatible with all of these signs (except maybe cancer, wich I personally can't stand...)

Agreed. Cancers are bottom of the barrel relationship-wise. And really, virgos are way to soft for me but I

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@warholian
18 Years500+ Posts

PS: I have venus in scorpio too! It kind of is a curse, if not only because we attract scorpios. But it brings out all the commonality that caps have with scorps. I like it though.

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

"PS: I have venus in scorpio too! It kind of is a curse, if not only because we attract scorpios. But it brings out all the commonality that caps have with scorps. I like it though."

Yeah, I understand why you??d say it's kind of a curse cuz first of all our love can be so intense to the point where it gets painful. And we're often attracted to scorpios or pisces (not really the easiest guys to be inlove with in the first place)

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@Alir0x
18 Years

I am actually a Pisces madly enamored with a cap, and i really don't want to let him know. I'm so shy when it comes to people i like, but extremely gregarious with those I don't πŸ™‚

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@Alir0x
18 Years

How would i let him know without letting him know? I mean will he pursue the situation? I'm just extremely nervous and I'm kinda like if i never tell I'll never get my feelings hurt. The whole Pisces afraid of vulnerability thing.

He has been helping me achieve some goals, always gives me great advice, and told me to never hesitate to contact him, but I thought that last one was weird because I never do hesitate to email him for advice, so i don't know how much more of a lack of communication inhibition i could have.

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@IwasBornAcapricorn
17 Years

Alir0X:

I really understand you, because I don't want to reveal myself eather. It's not that I'm shy, I'm just afraid of rejection, and I getting my ego stamped on...
A part of me honestly thinks that it's the man who should pursue the woman. Whenever it's the other way around the woman usually ends up hurt.

I just want to quote something Sagigoat said to me:

"you should not smother him give him space and time to get to know you be best friends first but don't withhold showing your sweetness or your love for him (you don't need to say it just do what comes out from it)."

I think this is really all you can do. And if he doesn't eventually make the move, well then he's probably not interested, or he's too retarded to realise that he is LOL.

I guess it's up to you to decide how much of a chance you want to take with this guy. I personally would not tell him about my feelings first, burt then again: I??ll probably end up living in my imaginary world for the rest of my life...

Good Luck to you pisces-girl πŸ™‚

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@Alir0x
18 Years

Posted by IwasBornAcapricorn
Alir0X:

I really understand you, because I don't want to reveal myself eather. It's not that I'm shy, I'm just afraid of rejection, and I getting my ego stamped on...
A part of me honestly thinks that it's the man who should pursue the woman. Whenever it's the other way around the woman usually ends up hurt.

Good Luck to you pisces-girl πŸ™‚

Iwasborn: What you posted above is the exact reason why I won't tell him. I believe a man should pursue a woman and I refuse to pursue a man. So, I will definitely continue being who I am, but I really don't believe I'll open up to him about my like. At the end of the day, if it's meant to be, it will be πŸ™‚

Good luck to you also πŸ™‚

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@warholian
18 Years500+ Posts

IT IS the dudes' responsibility. Believe it or not "never hesitate to call" was definitely a passive way of him coming on to you. Just be careful, as you probably guessed or learned from here, we caps can be tricky and testing and we take a loooong time to get around to the point. Found this today...I love it!


ps. For all my fellow scorpio lovers, there's one for scorpios (men) that's even better, but I think it applies to the women too.

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@scorpio1378
17 YearsScorpio

I'm sorry hunny but I just gotta add my bit here...since I have been a scorpio for thiry years....
If you just give him a HINT that you are into him he wont be able but to help taking a deeper look at you. You being so hard for him to get to will work in your favor big time. Scorpio loves mystery being that you are too far away for him to watch and figure out and "solve" will have him wild to see you. (I would'nt dissapoint him when he does see you tho.) Also having someone who is hot for him half way across the world would have his lusty side just purring....Talk about a perfect scorpio ego stroke...and stll interested after a year? Please...If you play this right you will have it made...

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@soulfulleyes
17 Years

They not only possess your soul they own and run your life, UNTIL YOU LET THEM DOWN, JUST ONCE, thats all it takes, be careful, they will leave you and NEVER look back. THey are water signs and are emotional and hurt easy... they can talk a LOT..... lol. TREAD WERE FOOLS WONT, DONT SAY I NEVER WARNED YOU.....