Are Capricorn men affectionate?

I am asking because I notice that it's not everyday my cappy man is affectionate.
Like this weekend, on Friday, he was kissing me alot and touching etc, yet this Saturday night and Sunday, no kissing. Just light touches.
And if no one is around (not even my daughter) Lol, I just won't go there. (No sex yet. And we did actually talk about it. He wants to, but says it's been 4 yrs since so he needs a little time, so I'm patient, but anxious.)

When we are asleep it's a diff story. He is such a friggin cuddler! And oh man do I love it. He wraps both of his arms around me, and I fall asleep like a baby. Not to mention he is naturally hot-blooded.

But then I noticed another thing . . He doesn't do PDA too often lol.
He's not into holding hands much, or the whole kissy we're in love PDA action.
Like, when we were in the store, but he actually did kiss me, but it was quick lol. Other times than that, no kissing, just leaning on me or a one-arm hug around me.

Just wanted to gush . .He can be so perfect in one instance, then makes me wanna pull my hair out in the next.

But then I noticed another thing . . He doesn't do PDA too often lol.

They're controlled by the strictest, harshest planet in the Solar Sytem, Saturn :- the cold planet of discipline, self-restrain & no affection 🙂


Just wanted to gush . .He can be so perfect in one instance, then makes me wanna pull my hair out in the next.

Folks forget that Caps are actually dual-natured--- Mer-Goats (half-fish, half-goat, ie, half-Earth (all solid & stable) half-Water (emotional, passionate, loving). Hence your man's different temperaments. But be truthful: isn't it his unpredictability that keeps you hooked? Wouldn't you be bored with a man who was all soft & constantly gushing & dripping with romance (like some Libras 😄). It might seem great at first but the novelty gets old soon & then you get bored.

To answer your question: yes and no.

It's been 4 years and he needs more time? Interesting. My Cap guy pounced on me as soon as he realized I was ready and willing.

Lol CapTaur, i wish i could say the same!
He seems very controlled and cautious.
im ready to blow!

4 years since "the deed"

he does all the other stuff
just not the 'ACTUAL' stuff

I wonder why he's so cautious ... It's really none of my business, so don't feel as if you have to respond to my curiosity, but I'm wondering why he's holding back ...

To answer your initial question: My Cap guy is affectionate when it's just the two of us in private. In public his affection is expressed by introducing me to his friends or just by being seen with me (I'm with her in public = I'm proud to be with her in public = the best compliment I could give her without having to express it). Behind closed doors he's okay with being close and being affectionate (touching, snuggling). And when it comes to gettin' down ... well. Damn.

Hmm . . I don't know the real reason as to why . . but I do know with each passing day that we spend together, he's becoming a bit more open about it and displaying that he is open about it.

That's the same thing with my cappy man. In private, he's fine with me kissing on him and snuggling him and holding on to him but in public, not so much the same thing. I guess it's the same. Being seen with me would merit a PDA move, and that's a big one for him.

I think i am falling in love with him . .oh boy . .

Hi Shaiessence, I remember you 🙂

Cappysweetie!

Wow . . I still have your last message in my inbox too!

It's been quite a while . . How have you been? How is everything with you?

lou.m: You can find a definition of "PDA" here: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=PDA

PDA = Public Display of Affection

He said the sexiest thing last night

"Come get me, I need your touch"

Hmm hmm hmm. Sorry. just gushing.

Scorpio_chic: That's awesome. How long have you been together with you cap guy?

Wow -- scorpio_chic it sounds like we're dating the same man! I get teased by my guy when I'm "soft" and when we spend the night, he holds me so close. We also tangle our legs ... his toes search for mine under the covers. The only difference in our situation is that that we haven't exchanged spoken "I love you"'s just yet even though we've known each other for a year and have been dating for close to 6 mths. We've shown our love, but we haven't said it. I'm waiting for him to make that move.

I'm in an interesting place with my cap guy right now -- because of his crazy schedule, we haven't hung out together in close to two months. TWO months. We only live twenty minutes apart, so physical distance is not an issue.

Granted, this time apart is not easy for me, but I'm still in it because he means the world to me. We talk and exchange sweet text messages here and there, but we haven't spent time together ... it's weird. I miss him like crazy, but keep myself busy. He'll come to me when he's ready. I just hope that time comes sooner rather than later.

Patience ...

I had no idea we were this interesting yet confusing. I've always thought of my behavior as "moderate". It just seems so one way or the other because we strike balance with a lot of things. I assume I'm speaking about other Cap males too. But then again. When you know you need balance (which is the key by the way)then it often appears as unbalanced because of the steadying act to achieve that balance. Picture a tight-ropist. To succumb to the overwhelming of either side is potentially very detrimental. Even our caution is balanced. We may let loose but only because we have finally made the decision that its time. Hangover is taken care of, get work over with,get home quick to get away from all of it, money is in the bank, keep the friends from succubusing, gas is in the tank, look left around up and down, and above all else get time for self. I love me some me too scorpio-chic. This is what really enables us to truly appreciate who you are. Empathy allows one to put themselves in anothers shoes. May appear mysterious at times but not to us I dont believe. And if we just gotta do something then it just has to be so because we've worked out the payback ratio. Not trying to make caps sound special so please accept my apology now. Habitually failing is not even a consideration. I actually like to think that I take every precaution to make sure you are comfortable telling me anything you wish. But I like real questions sometimes too. We move slow because the backup plans are real good. So rushing is never worried about. But it doesn't take long to do this properly. May be the reason why I am never worried about Me. Give thanks to him too. Be simple but not simple-minded. Complicated..naa really. We are just like anything you don't know. Appear complicated but very simple if you really care, like math or music. That caring will lead you right to us. Genuine caring is recognized as being "on it". If you're not on it then you are an "expense" and not "income" figuratively. Just be on it. Even when we're chilling we're on it. I suffer from laziness and boredom not depression. I have to constantly search for time worthiness. What may seem boring to you is being happily ironed out and, interesting to us. I like most things that other s do not. And its always mind pushing but I like simple things too. Bedplay is not boring and is extremely interesting because each one is different. Im babbling.

my cap loves to practically drape himself on me like an article of clothing. he's always coming up behind me and leaning on me or wrapping his arms around me. i'm all for it! i'm that way myself. we're both very touchy-feely with each other and that's good enough PDA for me. i know that he finds me incredibly beautiful/sexy and likes to be seen with me. i know for a fact that he gauges the reaction of other men when we walk into a room together (he doesn't know that i notice everything). i know i'm much more to him than arm candy but he likes that i can play that role.

I'm curious about the moon signs of all the cappies talked about here.
Maybe the more affectionate ones have moons in affectionate signs whereas the less publically affectionate have moons in more private signs.