Whats up with Cap Women?

First post was a Blank.

Anyways so this cap girl I know contacted me out of the blue. I haven't heard from her for 4 months or so. When i met her I never really got to know her to well I just talked to her a few times on the phone, and she kept saying how she wanted to hang out but we never did, and then one time she wanted too and she had planned that for the day I guess, and I stood her up not cause I was trying to be a dick but I was trying to handle business (as in actual business). After that we kinda just stopped talking to each other and I figured she had lost interest.

Anyways So I talk to her today and she said (something, i don't know) made her think of me so she just wanted to call me and see how I was doing, and What I was had been up too, Glad to hear I am doing good ...ect,ect.

It was random cause she would be the last person I would expect to hear a phone call from, my question is is she still interested in me or what its not like we were even friends for a long time we just met talked for a few weeks never got to hang out and then stop talking.

I'm not use to girls acting this way! I can't read her (as in where shes coming from) and she won't talk too much about her private life she just says shes been really busy with school.

does it take them a while before they open up and talk about themselves? its frustrating cause I still would be interested in her but I need to understand how she thinks. Im thinking maybe she doesn't talk about herself cause there are things about her she doesn't want me too know because she doesn't know me to well.

I thought you weren't interested in this girl, or is this a different Capricorn? Very interesting, indeed. A person does not need to have a hidden motive to give a friend a call, do they? I guess I wouldn't know. It is a little bit funny, though, that you're now curious. 😉

"does it take them a while before they open up and talk about themselves?"

it does for me. *shrugs*

exactly what does it take? comfort. how do we get comfortable? trust.
how do you establish all of that? dont have motives and dont give mixed signals. 😉
it's simple and said over and over again, but it is what it is and its true!

🙂

No this is a different girl. I just thought it was strange because the amount of time we knew each other and the circumstances, the only time i ever seen her in person was when I met her on the bus and asked for her number. Then we talked on the phone for a week or two and then she finally made plans to hang out with me and i blew her off (like an idiot, but I was trying to make some money, which i later regretted) and after that she pretty much stopped talking to me even though I tried too. So I figure she lost interest and things just faded out.

Her message out of the blue was pretty much "i don't know if you remember who this is but i just wanted to see how you were doing...ect,ect." Maybe she just wants to be friends, that's great i wanna be friends with her too. Its just mind boggling trying to see where i stand with her.

my guess...

she wants to try again.

if she was really aloof because she didnt care... you would have never heard from her. id say, dont be afraid to show interest again. really... what do you have to lose. thats what i always say.

i never saw Hitman... but have been wanting to... was it good?!

😛

Posted by CreepyPants
my guess...

she wants to try again.

if she was really aloof because she didnt care... you would have never heard from her. id say, dont be afraid to show interest again. really... what do you have to lose. thats what i always say.

Well I'd say so. Im trying its just hard (its getting easier as time goes by) to have a conversations sometimes because at first the topics we talked about were limited anything else I tried she was like i think you guys said to shy to talk about it at first the more I pursue the more she opens up which is good 🙂

I guess its just a slow moving process..and thats fine. I'm not in a rush to get into anything.

I believe she needs someone to make her feel good about herself though, and how would do that. My ego is big enough to fit too people ..j/k 😛 but my mentality is if someone tries to knock me down F*ck that person, I know not Evey has that same approach to it. I try and tell her things that are good about herself but i don't think she fully believes im being sincere :/

Posted by CreepyPants
i never saw Hitman... but have been wanting to... was it good?!

😛

it was pretty good, they are making a 2nd one so I'm looking forward to that.

Posted by sagiluv
Capri Woman are nutts!!! They are Moody people so beware lol, They are sharp and very observant!!

I think She is feeling lonely and wants to give it a shoot. I think you should try to see her more often and persue talking to her and just being a friend, Don't rush into things but get to know her...

She might be from what I gathered she pretty much doesn't hang out with much people and goes to school all the time. thats fine I'm just trying to take the time to get to know her right now like I said Im not trying to rush into anything Im just trying to feel her out and get her to open up.

I think the best way to deal with moody people is when they are being moody just back off and let them have their space so whatever is going in their head they can sort out and get over it.

Don't try and push the subject with them or be overly comforting cause that just makes the situation worse, and I think that's what a lot of people don't understand. They see their partner is in a bad mood for whatever reason and they associate that with "oh no something is bothering them i have to try and help them sort it out" when in reality it only makes things escalate because their partner sees them and being a nuisance trying to push the subject when all they wanna do is be left alone so they can get over whatever is bothering them.

When people are like that they don't need help, they need space. If they needed help with something rest assured they would come to you.

yeah jee thanks. you know what a Capricorn thing is though. Manic Depressant... and that is a mental disease. Sorry.

hmm maybe I should beware of this girl, if memory servers correctly she is born in the third decan.

he third, Virgo/Mercury decan of Capricorn Being born under the Virgo decan of Capricorn is a mark of a certain restlessness and a great desire for functionality and effectivity. While far from impulsive daredevils, they lack the significant patience of the first two Capricorn decans. Administrative ability is at it's highest here, and they have a great practical intelligence and shrewd organizational skills. However they may be more inclined to see work and accomplishment more impersonally, wanting results more than recognition. They are loyal and faithful in their relations, but not to the detriment of realism and a sober attitude. These people are usually not interested in abstractions, fantasy and ideals, for they feel the need to care for the more immediate tasks at hand.

What exactly do you mean by ruthless and power hungry give an example plz.

I was also born in 2nd decan Scorpio

The second, Pisces decan of Scorpio The second Pisces decan of Scorpio gives subtle minds and a plethora of all feelings imaginable. These people seek what is real and authentic, and will sacrifice worldly comforts and prestige for what they believe in. Cunning and mysterious, they will not hesitate to manipulate people if necessary. They??re very romantic and seductive, and thrive in an atmosphere of hidden meanings and elusive hints. Sometimes they repel people through their alternating self-righteousness and great personal sensitivity. They can be shy and retiring, but tend to get what they want in every case. Giving and attentive lovers.