Who will a Capricorn male choose? Aries or Pisces?

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I am a pisces female and i am really falling for this capricorn man. He is quiet, reserved and yet a real gentleman, but the thing is my aries best friend likes him too and she is VERY open/loud/straightforward about it. Every time when we go out my aries friend will always try to attack him first like grinding him the first day they met or took his phone to get his phone number.

With me, i am much more laid back and i didn't tell anyone that i like the guy. I never start a conversation with him in public first because i am shy and i feel like he could sense it so he would always initiate the conversation first. However sometimes I would facebook chat him first and give him some signs that i am interested in him although i didn't want to show it much. I feel like he knows that I like him but not completely sure about it. I would talk to the guy from time to timeuntil my aries friend told me that they have been talking on the phone for almost every night. i was a bit surprised so I back out cause i don't want to get myself hurt and decided not to think about him anymore.

However, there was this pool party at my friend's place last weekend. He was there and so as my aries friend. I told myself before I got there to act normal as possible. Turns out that they didn't talk to one another at all except a few words the whole night. I didn't even see the capricorn guy putting any efforts to talk to my aries friend. When i got there I said hi to everyone and completely ignore the capricorn male because i was panic and didn't know what to do. I felt like he knew something was wrong so when the party was all set, he came and talk to me and he knew that i was shy so he kept on teasing and mocked me the whole night. From that day on I thought it was clear until yesterday, I was sick and I saw him online on facebook so I said hi and told him that I got really sick since the pool party and out of no where within seconds my aries friend fb chat me and asked me if i was sick so from that, i then knew that they have still been talking on the phone with each other, although after he told my aries friend he still seems although after he told my aries friend he still seems to be concerned about my sickness and was making sure if i was okay or not. It was quite a surprised for me because i've never seen this side of him. I am really happy to know that at least he cares but sad to know that they are still talking. What should i do? Can anyone tell what he is thinking? 😢
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Caps dont like loud and obnoxious unless a turn on one night stand factor is involved. But lack of what is deemed conversational qualities is left in the past. I say stop being shy and say hello more then once also try your best to speak out a paragragh or two directness is appreciated obnoxious is not. Btw how does your best friend Aries competition feel about all this. O-O
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I'm a Pisces in a relationship with a Cap man I adore.

Can't tell you what your Cap is thinking or who would he choose in your situation, but there are things about both of you and your friend that he is likely attracted too. One of my best friends is also an Aries and she actually has known my Cap longer than I have. She has no romantic interest in him but she can be demanding of his attention just as a friend. He loves her to death but she can be a bit much to take (she craves constant attention from everyone) and it puts him off her at times. However, he is and will continue to remain loyal to her until the grave so it's a good thing I don't get caught up in competing for his time or attention whenever we 3 happen to be together. I'm his woman so he adjusts the situation accordingly and I don't sweat him about it because I accept how she is.

In your case, and since you and your Aries both like this guy for what sounds like more than friends, I'd let him know straight out that you like him so he at least knows where you stand since that is exactly what the Aries has done. He might guess at it from your hints but then again he might not. Cap men are already slow so being shy about what you want with him may work against you. Just be you and see what happens. Hope that helps.