worth waiting for Cap guy?..sorry long

Hello all this is my first post. I am an aqaurius who recently reconnected with an associate from middle school (the capricorn in question). We knew of each other and crossed paths often but never really got to know each other at the time.I moved away in high school. Fast forward to 2010 we become friends on facebook and for two years he complimented my pictures and eventually tells me he had a crush on me when we were younger. I was flattered by the comments and thanked him but he never took to the next step by asking for contact info or anything so we continued in that pattern until March of this year. He contacted me again and after his compliment then silence, I asked him what's up. He said he thinks he likes me and he would like to get to know me better. We begin messaging, then talking on the phone for hours. I find out through our conversations that he has a very witty charming side underneath the quiet reserve.
After a month of talking he starts saying he would like to visit. I remind him that it's a 16 hrs drive but he insists. I agree to the visit half thinking he would not make the drive but he did come for Fathers Day weekend & we had a great time..Well @ least I did. He is so hard to read. he gave me the most passionate kiss his first day here & then nothing. I asked for kiss before he left and told him I would miss him. .he said hey you never know I maybe moving next door. I asked what now he said it's only been 1 weekend to soon to know for sure. He needs more time. I also don't want to jump into a relationship either but I was hoping for something more.
We have talked on the phone everyday since but I'm a little confused. How can the same man who pursued me (kinda) for 2 years and drove 16 hrs to see me after over 15 years not be sure? He's told me he has never been in love but he has been in two long term relationships. If I wait this out until he's sure, what's the point if his heart isn't part of the deal?

Apologize for multiple posts. I was unaware that each error message resulted in a post..oops.. I appreciate any constructive input based on the number of posts it should be obvious that I really need it 😉

Posted by summerain
Hello all this is my first post. I am an aqaurius who recently reconnected with an associate from middle school (the capricorn in question). We knew of each other and crossed paths often but never really got to know each other at the time.I moved away in high school. Fast forward to 2010 we become friends on facebook and for two years he complimented my pictures and eventually tells me he had a crush on me when we were younger. I was flattered by the comments and thanked him but he never took to the next step by asking for contact info or anything so we continued in that pattern until March of this year. He contacted me again and after his compliment then silence, I asked him what's up. He said he thinks he likes me and he would like to get to know me better. We begin messaging, then talking on the phone for hours. I find out through our conversations that he has a very witty charming side underneath the quiet reserve.
After a month of talking he starts saying he would like to visit. I remind him that it's a 16 hrs drive but he insists. I agree to the visit half thinking he would not make the drive but he did come for Fathers Day weekend & we had a great time..Well @ least I did. He is so hard to read. he gave me the most passionate kiss his first day here & then nothing. I asked for kiss before he left and told him I would miss him. .he said hey you never know I maybe moving next door. I asked what now he said it's only been 1 weekend to soon to know for sure. He needs more time. I also don't want to jump into a relationship either but I was hoping for something more.
We have talked on the phone everyday since but I'm a little confused. How can the same man who pursued me (kinda) for 2 years and drove 16 hrs to see me after over 15 years not be sure? He's told me he has never been in love but he has been in two long term relationships. If I wait this out until he's sure, what's the point if his heart isn't part of the deal?

Sixteen hours is a long way from each other. I was in relationship with a Capricorn man that was only 2 to 3 hours away. Continue seeing him if that makes you happy. Don't look for him to fall in Love and be expressive over night. If he fell in love he wouldn't reveal that to you anyway. No time soon!!! You must be patient because he has more patient than you can ever imagine. My Capricorn only had 2 real girls friends si