CAP men not wanting to be dominant?

So everytime we go somewhere or do something seems my Cap man wants me to make the decision,or be the one to complain. Which i can do without it even looking like i am complaining. He is not very dominant either. He gets paid,and hands me all his check, maybe cuz he knows i am good at paying bills and saving? And i have savvy shopping skills.OR as he calls it "A Black belt in shopping" lol.. I thought Cap men were dominant. Maybe its because his Moon is in Virgo?? hmmm...

I think many Caps want to sit back, rest, and not worry.

If it seems you can take care of and handle many things then he'll let you do it.

My Cap friend is like this with his Aries fiance. She has access to his cards and he basically works and gives her the money because he knows he can trust her with handling things properly.

When they take over it can be because they feel they have to.

I Noticed that. I Guess that's a good thing, he knows i am responsible. I pay bills first,than save a little, than the rest is just whatever money. He hates haggling the cable company if they mess up and has me do it,lol. If we go to a yard sale he will pay whatever they ask, not me! the fun part is talking em down and he just gives me that look and than when we leave he laughs and goes, your something else babe. LOL

Hmm never ever heard this one I do fall back if someone esle has it though. Otherwise im the dog and your the leash. Virgos and Virgo moons are Turtles of course this comes from the part of my brain that stays in a intelligent coma. Edit edit.

Agreed i've seen a couple that managed to fuck there life up.

Posted by M
Virgo moons are good with life management. Period.

That's good to know. Maybe that's why he is so laid back too? and likes to be dominated in bed. lol

Yea very often, I'll take lead amongst friends (guys or girls) or at work, but not usually in relationships. I may date a guy that is more submissive, but seems I end up in ltrs with dominant guys

I'm very easy going when I fall in like with someone. When I fall in love I want nothing more than to make my guy happy. So it ends up where I am very agreeable, but sensibly so.

My scorp bf is extreeeeeemely dominant. In general really, not just our relationship. He is very good at leadership and yet still knows for the most part when it's wise to take the back seat. If he forgets himself, which he does sometimes, I have no problem putting my foot down when he starts getting too bossy with me. He's definitely extreme. Sometimes that's an understatement, but he's awfully endearing. I take the lead when and where he doesn't. It works well. He gets to be the control freak scorpio man he loves being, and I get to be the supportive cap woman I love being.

I, for one, have to take charge at work. Its nice to come home and not have to handle everything.